mad of my neighbor .....really hate it...!!

Hi. asliah. She is not supposed to be grilling inside of her house. Is the crazy or what?? Consult with your landlord and the local police. She could burn down your home and hers too, my goodness! Stay safe!

Since you can't do anything about it, since you can't buy them a stove so they won't be using charcoal anymore, all you have to do is just go out when they are cooking. Try to tell them to put something, a barrier perhaps to keep the smoke from going into your house. Stay calm, shouting won't do you any good. You might even lose more air if you shout causing you to be really feel the smoke in your lungs.

I'm sorry . . . this actually reminded me of my friend. When he got mad at anyone, he would be real cynical. When his apartment neighbors pissed him off, he would grill garlicky steaks in his place and he'd take a fan to blow all the smoke towards his neighbor's windows. I'm serious! He'd brag about that and tell us about it. Maybe you can open the windows and fan the smoke out too?? Yah, perfume would only mask the smell, sort of - you need to get the smoke out - the smell can stick to your furniture and walls (not to mention your lungs!).

Mmmmm, I would suggest ya to talk with her. About she should better not use the charcoal because of bla bla hehe

Sometime our neighbor will do something that we don't like and that will be the same that some time we will do something that our neighbor do not like. So, it is good to talk to your neighbor that you don't like it because there are too much of smoke went into your house. If he can do it outside of her house and may be she can start the fire at another place, I think that will be better. Remember, communication work for everything.

Just move to another neighborhood. Or talk to your neighbor, that are two great ways to solve the problem, I'd choose to do the second one. If it doesn't solve the problem, so you can tell the police, and they would come to your house and talk to your neighbor. I hope that you can solve your problem as soon as possible, it's really annoying to live near a person that you don't like.

For me if you don't forgive then you are get mad whole of your life to your neighbor so be good so that Jehovah God get not mad in you.

I love to grill but I do not necessarily enjoy smelling it if I am not going to eat from it. Funny how when the neighbors grill, the smell reamins around for days and no matter how many air fresheners it still lingers. Best to close out all openings and remain calm. Hopefully it is not an everyday thing.

I can really relate to what you are feeling. In my case it's not the smoke but it's the noise they are making. They wake up very early in the morning and shout at each other and say some bad words toward each other. I can't understand why they have to open the door and shout at each other right in front of my bedroom window! Such an insensitive neighbor. I don't know when they will feel that they should also care about their neighbors and not only themselves.

You should talk to your neibour and told her that using charocal to cook have deeply influence your life and told her that she can cook in many other ways,in that way,maybe she will change her ways of cooking

try to talk with him,and tell him their cooking has influnce your life,and persuade him to try another way to cook...or change his cook location,such as the wind can blow the smoke away and doesn't go through your room...talk can solve the problem,but angry is not the way to solve the problem.

If it is not an everyday activity then just learn how to deal with it or better if you cant beat em, join em.....