When You failed and failed again. What would you do?

Indonesia
January 30, 2011 6:41am CST
When failure is always coming over to you. Though efforts and hard work you've done. And you always think positive. But you always failed, failed to compete with others. Are you desperate? What would you do?
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@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
30 Jan 11
Well, we really have no better choice than to keep trying. Learn from our failures and continue trying. Persistence is the key to success.
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• Indonesia
4 Feb 11
Well, yup, persistence is the key to success, and many people are successful as a result of perseverance, but ironically many people are stressed because of the failure. lol
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
4 Feb 11
Yes stress is an ever present companion for us. It can be helpful or it can be damaging. It is our individual psychological makeup that makes it either.
1 person likes this
• Indonesia
10 Feb 11
I like the thought of you
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
if that will happen to me failed and failed again,i will never get tired to try it again and do it again,because once you become tired meaning that you give up too,its not that desperate but its more good to try even many failure to comes at least you try.
• Indonesia
27 Feb 11
Failed? I read a lot of successful people were successful only once in hundreds or even thousands of errors, so what failed? now you take the time to look back when you're trying to reach you earn, look palpably actions you who persistently took ... and when there are obstacles, what happened? well see who is really happening ... you do not feel that there is something you should do there, check your feelings at the time, because it could be you who is not feeling the spirit that causes failure, and with focus on your own is very important that you value, try to describe that you are able to pass through. . This illustrates how the evaluation with the thoughts. important to have a source believes in himself, serenity and spirit ... can also polish with your desire to make it look really important in your eyes.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 11
Everyone must have experienced a failure, even those that look great success despite wallowing must have experienced failure in their lives, but unfortunately not everyone managed to take the silver lining
@whatrow (792)
• United States
21 Nov 11
If you fail that frequently, it is because you want to. You are afraid of success. If you want to change things, you need to find out why. I am very self-destructive. Now that I understand why, I can handle things better.
@suraj7nov (1736)
• India
1 Oct 11
if we try we have chances of 50 percent that we will suceed and 50 percent that we will fail,but if we donot try ,we always have 100 percent of chances of failure,so its upto us what way we have to choose
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
9 Feb 11
In my home country it is very challenging to pass the practical driving test. Every time I took that test I got very nervous and ended up making a silly mistake. When I lived in my cottage I took my practical driving test four times and failed it. It was devastating because I was quite a good driver really. When I moved to a different area I bought a modern house. I had another go at learning to drive and it was hard to actually get to take the practical driving test. I gave up learning to drive and it felt bitterly disappointing. Some time passed and I ended up finding an excellent driving instructor. I took another practical driving test and it went very badly. I decided to have another go at my practical driving test and luckily I got a pleasant driving examiner. To myself I pretended I was out for a drive with a friend and it made me feel more relaxed. I was overjoyed when she told me at the end of my test that I had passed. Now I can drive my car it makes my life so much easier. I don't have to wait around for the bus to arrive. My disabled son is unable to walk so when I am with him I can use his blue badge for disabled parking. When failing time and time again it makes a person desperate but it is worth keep going.
@zaffarox (24)
3 Feb 11
Its easier said then done still, "NEVER GIVE UP". That's the way life is meant to be lived. I learned this the hard way, but still being desperate was something that helped me in a way to overcome my troubles all the time. Most probably i will think is it worth another try, do i really want this? and if the answer is yes, will simply go for it. Analyzing a thing over and over blinds your decision, just think, ask advise of your frnds, make a decision and do it. lol
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
All I know is when I fail I'll try again. If you keep going even though you've fallen one too many times, there has got to be at least one try that you'll succeed.
• India
3 Feb 11
Well i would first try and find out to see why i keep failing all the time myself. Later i would then try and evaluate myself. I would see what keeps me failing all the time and i know that i can rectify that mistake in myself. If i am right then i can do whatever i want to do myself without any regrets and i am sure that i would find myself soon to be a better person in my life and i would gain some importance soon enough for myself. I would then be able to achieve whatever i want to! Cheers!
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
Pray and seek God must have a perfect plan for us, it's just that we often are too arrogant to think that that's the best, but does not. we often are too arrogant to think that we certainly can, but does not.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 11
Maybe I'll stop for a moment, Then traced again why fail? failed in what part? how to not fail for the second time or a hundred times? now if failed, whether tomorrow is also going to fail? if now how to succeed, and tomorrow too successful? how do I anticipate a failure? What the failure of internal or external factors? What really no solution at all? whether my efforts to be successful is a lot less or too much?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
If despite of trying so many times you failed, then it's time to give up. Think of some avenues where your potential could shine most. You don't have to compete, but create something unique for yourself.
• Indonesia
3 Feb 11
The problem is that it fails there must be in human life, because to fail, we will know our weakness for we fix at a later date, where there are people who do not ever fail? Feeling cold (for winter) as well as every problem has made the heart grow cold.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
1 Feb 11
If have tried many times and failed many times I usually try to analyse my situation to find out what I can do differently. I think about my goals - are they too difficult? Do have I have to change them or split them up in smaller steps? Maybe there are some skills that I have to improve before I am able to succeed and maybe I need help in order to achieve my goals and succeed. Sometimes I simply need more time and more practice to succeed and in those cases I keep on trying and trying. I can get very stubborn, and I don't like to give up if it is something that I really, really want.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 11
Failed very familiar with me. I always failures experienced. Disappointment and regret not going to change the situation. All you need do is keep trying and continue through life.
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
30 Jan 11
One should never give up trying to reach their goals. Perhaps, it's also time for you to define success. We all have the power to choose what we deem important in this world. Perhaps you are using other's definition of success. Maybe it's a good thing you are failing. They are leading you away from where you need to be. Listen to the advice of others but WALK YOUR OWN PATH!!
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
I will just keep trying it. I will not benefit by giving up. For me, it is always worth trying. Success is counted sweetest by those who never succeed. I am always encouraging myself to continue pursuing life's trials. Oftentimes the test of courage becomes rather to live than to die. The optimist sees an opportunity in every difficulty and the pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. I consider myself as an optimist. I am using every problems of mine wisely that I can make it as a benefit. Sounds weird but i really can do it.
• China
30 Jan 11
If I don't feel up to it,I give up,otherwise I will go on with it!
@donatien (30)
• France
30 Jan 11
i will think i haven't make a good choice