HELP..How to impress a boy that you like ????

@jricky1 (6800)
China
February 4, 2011 8:02am CST
Well i have to say i'm not a girl who good at RELATIONSHIP..i like a guy that he didn't know me...What should i do to impress him and let him know my feeling not directly???What is the best way??I wanna know your opinions..
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@jessxu (35)
• China
4 Feb 11
Well,as a man,Maybe I will give you some advice. First,being your best in front of him.Including:talking,smiling,walking,clothing and some other details. Second,being generosity and kindness in front of him because most boys like such girls. Lastly,showing your concern over him.It is very useful when he likes you too. OK,that's all.Good luck for you!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
5 Feb 11
Hi,thanks!But i don't sure that if i'm concern over him but he doesn't have feeling about me,does that mean my concern doesn't work and he don't care??I don't know whether boys all think that,if one girl like you,but he doesn't care,no matter girls do anything all could not arouse his attention.. Well,just like what you said ,maybe girl should do something he like and arouse his notice,but i'm really afraid that would happen..LOL..Anyway,really thanks for sharing....I would try hard and wish good luck for me..And wish you too~~
@jessxu (35)
• China
5 Feb 11
Is he a Chinese?The Chinese is so introverted that they always be with an assumption of indifference.Maybe he has noticed that you love him.I have seen so much things like this.Just do,you will succeed.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
4 Feb 11
Be everything that you like about this boy! If he is friendly, be friendly. If he is out-going, you be out-going too. If he likes basketball, go to all the games yourself. Notice what he eats, and begin to enjoy this food yourself. When you do as he does he will soon notice and your boat will start to float!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
5 Feb 11
hah,,thanks,you are right that i need to get to know him and his personality.Doing what he does is not bad and then maybe he could notice me.And maybe i could be active and let him know what is my thought!I dont know whether it is appropriate,but maybe that works...The point is i dont know whether boys like girls being so active?I also find that kinda weird..And thanks ,i think i should follow my heart and just flow it`~~
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Well, different guys, different ways to impress. I've always been impressed with women who project confidence but not to the point of being arrogant. Someone who has good posture and doesn't slouch, has a very sincere smile and is not talkative. Hope this helps.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
4 Feb 11
Thank you for your advice,and i think you're right that different people need different ways to impress.I need to know him and then have a better understanding of our relationship..That really depends! His personality is really important..Thanks~!!!
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
4 Feb 11
Actually the best way is to avoid him and be snobbish :) Than he will think you are hard to get and try getting you for a challenged I think it is stupid but this is how life go, we always want what we can't get.. I think you should ask him something that he will just look at you for the first time.. You need to give more info, like from where you know he and stuff if you wanna get more help.. Because it is depend on the situation
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
4 Feb 11
Well,thank you for your advice.I have to say that he don't know me ,that's the point..I dont know the best way to let him know me and if i did active,what should i do is the most appropriate ??Should i get over him?it's such a complicated question,maybe if he doesn't have feeling about me,well..Then,,i think maybe just flow it or maybe i should be just active ..
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
4 Feb 11
Hi, I'll give you some tips which I hope will help you impress the boy: * Sense of humor a testament to the spirit alive: Men know that sense of humor is a proof of intelligence, a demonstration of confidence, the immediate consequences of a well structured brain. A woman who looks very good, physically, can quickly become boring, if you do not have much to say, but a woman with a playful spirit is always alive and present a pleasant, desirable, even if physical appearance is not a the cover. * A little strength and authority: Maybe there are men who like women with attitudes pursed princess. Most preferred, however, women who are not afraid of a cockroach, and do not walk on the stones of the beach equivalent of a trip in the Amazon jungle. * Be happy with your looks Do not make the mistake of lament in front of him with your looks. Do not whine that you have five kilograms more than they should, not going through the throes stories a waxing session,or how it smells bad hair dye. * To like new things! Regardless of age and regardless of budget, men are fascinated by everything that's new in the phones, the computers, plasmas, LCDs, cars, DVDs and the like. I am willing to hear comments about the last type of phone with more attention than a statement of love and are fascinated by a new model of car, which display their performance, rather than a sexy girl. And other useful tips as: 1. Specific perfume - then you can recognize and eyes closed. It is known that changes its smell perfume when your skin comes into contact with each person. Therefore the same perfume can smell differently being carried by two people. The combination of perfume smell of your skin is an important clue for him. It only needed a whiff of perfume, and you will become an ardent admirer. 2. Walking - the way a woman is very exciting move for him. We're talking, of course, an elegant walk, undulating - but only so as to remain within the natural, in a word, a feminine walk. 3. Expressing. You can express everything through a single glance and you know it,just a woman. It is a matter of genetics,which should take advantage. Play with him and do that just look. You can express so much. Do not have the guts to tell him you like him? It's nothing.Do not be shy and tell it from view. It will certainly receive the message and everything will be more exciting than using some simple words. 4. A women's clothing. That does not mean giving up classics jeans, but try pairing them with a shirt or a feminine top.Or even some accessories like this. You can choose a necklace, a pair of earrings to match with your makeup or outfit of choice for you.Men appreciate it very much, even if they sometimes do not recognize.It will feel proud to walk beside you on the street, they feel, in a word, men. 5. Yourself! Yes, exactly, you can remove yourself crazy! You only need a little more confidence in you, a touch of femininity, naturalness and courage.Otherwise, leave it all to come by itself!Good luck!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
5 Feb 11
Wow,,,thank you for your tips and you've write so long and i'm really touched!!!Thank you anyway,and i think i'll do these and maybe that will work..You are right that i should also know his personality and his interests.Maybe sometimes is depends on us.The way i look or something else.Most important is that i need confidence in me and that's really the point..the first step is i need is to be active,if the relationship goes well,that would really be very nice!Yeah,you are right that just" be natural and leave it all to come by itself",Thanks again!!~~
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Hmm... I would say just be yourself. If he doesn't like you as you are or you are not his type, then maybe it's not meant to be. It wouldn't be a good idea to adjust yourself just to suit what he likes. I think in the long run that will just make both of you unhappy. Now, who knows? Maybe he'll like you for you. ;) Good luck! =)
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
4 Feb 11
Thank you for your advice,i would be myself and just like what you said,just flow it..Just keep in contact and let him remember me..That's my only hope maybe..
@ice1187 (31)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hi! For your guy to be impress, never ever mask yourself, do not pretend as somebody. Just be yourself. Show that confidence and self-esteem. Be gorgeous on your own way. Every woman has it's own elegance.