How To Manage a selfish women...???

Indonesia
February 12, 2011 8:22am CST
I need a suggestion from all my friends. I have a girl friend, she is very selfish. his temper is very high. how can I solve my problem???? Help me. I need people skill to relate with the other
7 responses
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
12 Feb 11
Bayu, what do you want to solve? Her selfishness, her temper or both? Er....May I be frank to ask why is she your girlfriend if you are not able to manage to accept these flaws? Does she see these as her flaws that might affect your relationship? I think it is best to be open and communicate yours and her expectation of each other, including assessing your strength and weaknesses. I hope you can relate to each other, otherwise, the extreme solution might be to consider another for a girlfriend.
• Malaysia
12 Feb 11
hi tiffnkeat... hahaha....what about you?? :P
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
12 Feb 11
What about me? Haizzzz......
• Indonesia
12 Mar 11
your girlfriend has a temperament that high, so you should be careful in speaking or do not respond to everything hat happened between you and the girlfriend with the anger and the importance you have to slightly down.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 11
it`s complicated.. we love her but sometimes he doesnt know we love them
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 11
hi bayukurniawan, u should start asking why u love her at the first place. if you said,she's your gf, then one day she's might going to be your wife. So, start asking yourself, is she being selfish because of you? have u been a better bf? normally when 2 people in love/relationship, they're generous. not the other way round. :) good luck
• Indonesia
12 Mar 11
your girlfriend has a temperament that high, so you should be careful in speaking or do not respond to everything that happened between you and the girlfriend with the anger and the importance you have to slightly down.
• Indonesia
12 Mar 11
our boyfriend has a temperament that high, so you should be careful in speaking or do not respond to everything that happened between you guys with anger and, importantly you have to slightly down.
12 Feb 11
i think you should confront her first and let her know about that attitude,if she really wants to save your relationship then it's up to her to do her part.