What will you do if you know that your lover don't love you?

I would most probably ask to have a clean break off at that point no matter how much it'll hurt. If it's come to the point where I can clearly see their emotions, then that means the relationship has spanned enough time for me to read my partner's emotions on their faces without being blinded by my own happiness at being in love with someone. And if it's spanned enough time for the veneer of "yay, love!" to peel off and for me to be aware of my partner's emotions just by looking at them, then i very damn well deserve to be told the truth. The fact that my partner isn't discussing their emotions with me is too big a disrespect for me to turn a blind eye on. I'd like to think that I'm the type of person who loves someone wholeheartedly and without reservations, and so I think I deserve more than their half-assedness and duplicity in such a case. If they've fallen out of love then that will hurt me of course, but the fact that they're hiding it is much worse. I don't want the relationship to become twisted and it will become something sour and ugly if it continues so I'll definitely ask to break it off. I'll ask strength from the people who love me and then confront my partner. I'd like a discussion but if that's not possible, I'll just decide for the both of us. I love that person after all. I don't want all my memories to become tainted because of something like this. Better end it when it still inspires happiness in me rather than bitter hatred, right?

However bitter the words may sound its best we say them and get over with the situation.Not venting your true feelings and presenting a picture that all is well,is cheating your partner who has genuine affection for you.The person who is facing this problem has genuine right to be infuriated at the other who is deceiving him.Its best we end relationship especially one relating to love with such a person.

If I am certain that my lover doesn't love me anymore, than I guess I'll have to end it. There's no point in continuing a one-way relationship. It will really hurt, but you'll get over the pain eventually. It's better than carrying the pain the whole duration of the relationship. And I'll probably get angry at her for not telling me the truth about how she really feels. I'm the typical person who goes through the usual stages of a bad relationship - I get angry, then sad, then eventually I move on.

I think I will stop considering her as a lover and consider her as a friend?

if it is serious love then i would go mad and be the most unhappy man.. if i am serious that i love her .. otherwise if it is just a passion then i would think let her go..

If i were in that situation, I wil give him a chance or if he need time ,I will let him make a decision after a while.If he is still like before, you should ask him directly and let him know his behavior is not fair for you and let you know his answer. If you can make sure he or she dosent love you any more, I think you should not keen on , aithough you still like him , you must leave him right now and do love youself beautiful and make yoiur life happier.

If you really, truly love someone, you would not get angry. If the one you love no longer loves you then you send them on their way with every sincere wish for their happiness. If we love someone, don't we want them to be happy and to grow and be the best they can be? Some people say "I love you" without realising exactly what it means. Some people are in love with the IDEA of being in love. Then, sometime later the truth is revealed and they have to hurt the other person. Sure there will be sadness but it is a time to examine oneself and admit mistakes and move on, being more careful with choices and the truth of feelings in the future.

I would asap without fail break awawy from that type of relationship. It could only be heartache from the one not loved. Not a feeling i look forward to.

If he's still my boyfriend, I'm not going to defend it. I'll let my boyfriend go. I'm not going to defend, those who do not love me. I definitely feel angry, but anger will not change the situation. If indeed mate, definitely not going away.

I experience that before. What I will do is to accept what being she decide on her life. It's really hurt but I need to be strong. Because I believe it's not the end of the day. I maybe found someone who is better than her...

At first maybe I'll get angry of course. You know it will hurt so much especially if the person concerned loves the guy/ girl very much. But maybe if the guy doesn't love me, well it's better to end our relation. Pretensions in the end will alter one's relationship; it will really surface in the end. Anyway girls are always sensitive, they'll know right away if a guy is only fooling around.

I'll let him go. If he doesn't love me anymore then I'll break up with him. I don't want to be in a one-sided relationship. It would hurt a lot, yes. But it would hurt much worse if I stay.

I believe no one can take this problem easily and it is very hard to accept the fact. For me, I have no confident to handle it well and smartly too. ha! ha! ha! We are all the human-being. For sure everyone shall angry to his or her partner. This is the weakness of human-being. In my mind, whatever problem we have, we should seek the counselor or help and advise. As such, we can be better and conscious before we regret later.

Definitely I will get mad at him. If he fell out of love with me then he should be frank in telling me such. Hiding his true feelings will just make things worse. The more pain and emotional damage will be made. The truth may hurt but I have no choice but to accept that fact.. I just hope this will not happen to me.

I just lived this 4 1/2 months ago...I'll be the first to tell you, it hurt like H3LL! But I did learn a lot along the way. It's HIS loss, not mine. I'm not the stupid one, he IS. He lost a beautiful, younger woman to stay where he was.

Well, does he really not love you or just not the way you want to be loved? Was this relationship jumped into or did you talk about it? I would discuss it with him. Why you feel this way. Does he object or agree? Is he just too lazy to find someone else and so he doesn't want to lose you? Or is it because he doesn't want to hurt you? By watching his response to what you say to him you can tell if he really doesn't love you or is just having some other problem. Communicating is very important.

The leave him. No point of getting upset or being mad. It might be hard to simply leave him, but I don't think I will stay to love someone who do not deserve to get one from me.

There is nothing to got angry in this.If your partner does not likes you means then what can you do.Forcing to like is not good.Let both made a small meeting and talk about the reasons behind that then take the decision...

Oh, it is pretty simple. If my lover does not love me, i won't take it against her. It is better for it to happen now than when we are already married. I just have to decide which foot, wither the right or the left, to use to kick her out.

Oh my god, I would be totally broken. But i wouldn't do anything or ask him until he decides to tell me himself.