Illegally inlove

I do not understand clearly the term you use "illegally" it is so confusing, so I guess, you mean to say, illegally inlove because your man is already married and you are the third party that's why "illegally inlove." Or if you are referring to his age, age gap is not the main concern of being "illegally inlove " Your parent have the right to know whatever relationship you have with the man 15 years older than you.

If you are not yet 18 years old then something happened intimate between the two of you then that is actually illegal and worst case if you got pregnant at very young age, with and without consent that is already considered as rape case or pedophilia which is a life sentence for a guy. If your boyfriend is still married which he is not yet annulled or divorce with his wife then that is already considered as illegal even if you are the one who is older than him. Having a kid is not a problem but then again the question here is if they are not yet separated or they are already legally divorced. Now my question is What is the problem that he is shorter than you? So what if that is awkward? Love is what matters most not your height.

First thing, i'm really proud of you, not because you have long relationship, but what is you accept him even he was older than you and accept him as a person even he had a child. Age doesn't matter when it comes to love, what mportnat is you accept each other, you love each and you trust each other. It doesn't matter if orter than he was shorter than you that look like you two ar ebrother and sister.:) what important is what you both feel when you are together, NOBODY KNOWS HOW YOU ARE WHEN YOUR WITH HIM. I know its hard how to tell to your parents because of all the odds you have mentioned. but i think if you really love each other you should face the fact that the important thing to complete your relationship is that your partner must meet the people who made you as an individual. even your does not accept him, its no case, at least you did your part, and your partner must do something to have your parent's permission and get their trust. I hope i help you. :)

If you both love each other I guess there's no problem with that, unless you have doubts about your relationship, I mean if you are still in school,you have to finish first before engaging in a serious relationship especially if you are still living with your parents and still dependent on them.

You have accepted it is illegal, you are not suppose to distrube a family, Indian peoples never accept this kind of relationship. Please don't spoil other family, you can look on bachelers or widow men. Thank you.

I don't understand whats illegal unless you're under the age of 18. If I were your parent I would freak out if you told me your boyfreind was that many years older than you but we see situations such as these all the time.. If you all are in love I tell you go for it regardless of what people say and if you've met his child it you must be and are become a major part of his life. My boyfriend is shorter than me and we are still a sexy couple. I wish the best of luck to you and your boyfriend. Maybe you should tell your parents by letting them meet the guy so they can see first hand why you love him instead of telling them and all they can think is he's way too old for you.That might mess up his chances but if they meet him and see that he's an excellent guy and he cares about you maybe this will soften their mode towards him. Again good luck

It is lovely that you have been with your boyfriend for 3 years. I don't think that height matters and some men can be quite short. I don't think that in love age matters. Your boyfriend is 15 years older than you so this is acceptable to most people. It is superb that you get on with his child. I hope that one day soon you get the necessary courage to tell your parents about your boyfriend.

The only way this realtionship would be illegal is if you are a minor as far as I know. If you are a legal adult, than why would your relationship be illegal and why would you worry about hiding it from your parents? As a parent, I can understand that they would be a bit shocked due to the age difference and the fact that he has a kid, but if you are truly happy and in love with him, I think that in time they would come around. I imagine that the fact that you have been hiding it for 3 years already would be what would bother them the most. My advice, talk to your parents, introduce them to your boyfriend and his kid, and move forward from there. I am sure that there will be some unpleasantness to deal with , but in the end, things always work out as they are supposed to.

what's illegal on that part, the term illegal is the part that you are violating the law like having relationship with a married man. Love never chooses anyone, so if you do love that man i think it is better to tell also your parents. Maybe they will get mad but just for a while.

Pretty hard situation for you. For me the best action you should do is to tell your parents. Just be confident in what you are about to tell. Be prepared to whatever reactions your parents would do. Just think positive and everything will be alright. There is no wrong with age gap between you too and the height does not matter too. As long as you both love each other. Good luck to both of you.