best friend tell me that she want to divorce

April 9, 2011 10:15pm CST
In fact, recently many friends have already married, but i also feel that they are unhappy, and often complain something. Yesterday my best friend came to my house with the luggage, and tell me that she want to divorce, she thinks that his husband don't understand her mind, often quarrel with her, and feel that his husband change before marriage, now she give up and still cry. what is marriage? how to maintain? Happiness is hard to everyone, we all want to get, but still lost. i think that happiness like as air,we can smell, but alway can't touch is divorce good way to solve this question of life? i don't know, maybe you know
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• United States
10 Apr 11
I think maybe your friend is discouraged, and needs to step back and have a little break before having a good talk with her husband. Then she can make a decision like that. I do believe most divorces could have been fixed if given the time. That is why so many divorcees remarry the first spouse later on. If they had given it more time they would have worked it out. Now if it is dangerous fighting as in she is being beaten or raped then by all means she should leave and leave sooner then later.
11 Apr 11
i agree with you maybe they need some time to keep slient and talk about points to each other.
@salonga (27995)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
Well your friend should know how sacred marriage is and must have really done the needful before plunging into it. It is sad to see another broken marriage so I hope she could still patch up things with her husband. Now here are some good points to ponder which I find really helpful. You can share this to her for it might help http://socyberty.com/relationships/how-to-avoid-divorce-2/ Have a nice day!