Demands of Life and Mylot
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
Philippines
April 12, 2011 6:08am CST
Hi, I just got back to mylot today after having been away for years.
It is mighty disheartening to know that all of my friends have gone inactive also. Right now, I am experiencing zero friends around here.
It should not be surprising for I couldn't even have a good count as to how many years has it been since i last did mylot.
As of this time, I am in the process of reorienting myself on how mylot operates. It appears that I need to know the works again.
May I find my decision to comeback to be a good decision.
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11 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Apr 11
A warm re-welcome back to you to myLot trinidadvelasco. 
There are several returning members for a few weeks now. 
I am not sure what it was like several years ago because I have only been participating now for 7 months. When I first started I did not participate for 3 full months and then I finally did.
From what I have learned it is all about participating and having fun which is what keeps me coming back daily. Outside of the old Alice admin we have a newer goaskalice who is named Alex with the old profile. myLot also introduced cashgopher to us members as a secondary earning avenue. In my opinion I think you will find that myLot is still a nice discussion site.
Best of luck to you and hope to see you around the Lot!
There are several returning members for a few weeks now.
I am not sure what it was like several years ago because I have only been participating now for 7 months. When I first started I did not participate for 3 full months and then I finally did.
From what I have learned it is all about participating and having fun which is what keeps me coming back daily. Outside of the old Alice admin we have a newer goaskalice who is named Alex with the old profile. myLot also introduced cashgopher to us members as a secondary earning avenue. In my opinion I think you will find that myLot is still a nice discussion site.
Best of luck to you and hope to see you around the Lot! @trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Hello, hardworkinggurl.
It appears that it is the way life rolls around here in mylot. People will come and go. Then some of those who had gone will somehow stage a comeback.
Only to find, at all times, a warm welcome awaits.
This seems to be my third or fourth comeback now.
There appears to be a significant change on how things roll these days. Kind of there are more ways to earn as compared to how it was before. And, this should be a good thing going.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
12 Apr 11
Hey welcome back to mylot. I haven't been here for long but I'm quite enjoying it here. I get to learn new things like quite often and I'm really enjoying it here.
I hope you find your friends soon. But may I ask you why you quit on mylot? =)
Have a wonderful day.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Thanks thatgirl. Real life has not been easy with me for those years. Lots of times I have tried to stage a comeback around here but, I always found myself groping for what to say.
So there will be times in our lives when words seem to slip.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Apr 11
I hope things are good now with you. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Bye ^^
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Ahhh...I see now an old face! Hello, stephcjh. How happy I am to come across you again. How are you, my friend?
When I was going around my account, I was made to understand that I have zero friends around here now. Yes, I know that all I have to do will be to slowly build up my friends list once more.
Indeed, I am looking forward to having a good amount of friends again.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
welcome back trinidad, well i know you still know how mylot works, its just like riding a bike. you know how all you need is to ride a bike again. it is sad to see that your friends had gone awol too, i've seen a lot of my friends went awol too but met a lot of new ones and still happy discussing life with them. i know you know that it is the right choice to comeback. hope to see you more.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
thank you for your kind words, my friend. your name is quite difficult to type for the first time, simply because the v became a 7.
but, i would agree with you that, yes, i should treat what i am doing now as an exercise with a bike.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
12 Apr 11
Hi Trinidad, welcome back! I am happy to meet you though. I think that what happened to you arrives to everybody, in social groups. Don´t you think so?
I happens to me sometimes with my church community. Sometimes a break is needed.
The most important of all is that you are back!
(You have a very cute real family, I´ve seen your photo on your profile)
Blessings!...
Dainy
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
It is so good to hear from you dainy. With your very encouraging and heartwarming words, you make me feel so very right about being back in mylot once more.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
8 Dec 11
In this freezing weather we have to excercise us a little bit more, to gain some energy and positive feelings. We have to have an e-life and a real-life too, lol, don´t you think so? With pc time, and life time hehe.
@lenkbreak (36)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 11
welcoma back here trinidad. Glad to know senior user back to here :)
I'm still new here and need someone to learn me more about mylot like you. If you don't mind, we can be friend here and I hope I can change your inactive friends although my english not so good.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
I am happy to meet you, lenkbreak. Most of the rules here, I must have forgotten them already. These are among the things that I will slowly be refreshed with.
New ones are always the favored ones here. So you will not find worries with that. Those who had been ahead of you, they will all be helpful and will give all the tips you need to keep you going.
English is not the main concern here. Rather, it is how we treat and value each other. Our concern for each other transcends language.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
13 Apr 11
WELCOME WELCOME DEAR FRIEND!!!
I was really missing you, its such a long time that i am seeing you back here... i am also not that much active these days, but still i peep in between to see what's going on here...i wish to see you for long long time here...as we really need experienced people around in the tough path of life....
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
Same here, eshaan. I wonder how have you been doing these days. It is so very good to see you to still be around after all these years of doing mylot.
It is always my habit to check on the discussions of my friends whenever i manage to open this site. I was downtrodden when i found none such discussions are available.
It appears that mylotters are not as active as four to six years ago. Yes, real life can be very demanding at times. This is what has been keeping me away from doing mylot as much as i would want to.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
Hi there, adhyz. Yes, it has been happening to me. Be lost from mylot and then come back and then be lost again and be back again.
This is so because, I can never forget mylot at all. Mylot lives in my heart because of my wonderful friends around here. I am happy to have met you at this time of my life. Many thanks for being here to cheer me up as i breathe some mylot air again.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
19 Dec 11
Hiya trini,
Nice to see you back then. Have lost one or two or three Friends as well and I don´t know if they will ever come back either.
Will miss them as I wrote with them quite a lot too.
I have never been away yet so I don´t know what that is like yet.
I don´t get to post too much so when I go get on here its sorta like I´ve started all over again sometimes.
xxx
Think that you have made the right decision.xxx
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
12 Apr 11
Welcome home. It is sad to know some people we know left, but it is encouraging when someone returns and let the others know. The pull of myLot is definitely there. Nice to see you here.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
Thank you for the warm welcome, tiffnkeat. I hope to see my old friends do mylot again. Friends are precious. And yes, mylot carries a kind magic among us all who belong here for sometime now.
@vijju1987 (13)
• India
12 Apr 11
welcome back trinidad. Don't worry here at mylot you can find so many friends like me and you can easily know mylot operations. Happy mylotting.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
i wonder now if you are still mylotting. your earned points havent moved up although i have been away for six months after having posted this discussion. but i always will have mylot in my heart because of people like you who are always warmheartedly doing discussions.
i am happy to have met you.
