when life in a statement of ambiguity, when it's not clearly ....

@pinetree (218)
China
April 12, 2011 9:01pm CST
your ability to survive in the ambiguity determines your level of success. this is what I have heard this morning. it's a fact we may in a statement of ambiguity in life for some periods, such like you are not sure about what you are going to be, to do , to choose your major , your job, or like when to leave, where to go ...... my life has stayed in this kind of statement for sometimes, I really feel lost, sonfused, I am trying and trying to find oout the goal, the road....but I may failed sometimes, I may lost, but there is also another possibility that I can find my way... how about you , my friend, how do you deal with this kind of statement? thanks!
2 responses
@CJscott (4184)
• Canada
14 Apr 11
I have lived a fairly ambiguous life, and have in recent months and years, came to the conclusion, that living your life in a state of ambiguity, is counter productive to actually experiencing life and what it can do for you. With this realization in mind, I prayed to my heavenly father for guidance, and sat down with my family. We discussed what we want in life, places we would like to visit, things we would like to do, and what to do with the time we have together. It is difficult because my family is not understanding the problems that arise with ambiguity, and thus are not as inspired to end it as I am, but I have a small plan, with a set goal. This may change in the near or distance future, but now that I have a goal to work toward, I find the rest of the worlds uncertainties to be melting away into that wonderful place of things not important to me. I hope that helps with your situation, and if not, at least allows you to understand me a little better. Sincerely and With Appreciation.
@gloryacam (5543)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
That may be true. And, in my case, I've always lived in ambiguity. I'm not always sure what I really want in life. So, I just live the way it is, and just go with the flow. I get frustrated easily, and it doesn't help. And right now, I'm dealing with the most ambiguous boss of all, really, no one gets what's going on...So, we feel that we are successful everytime we come out with something that he likes out of his very ambiguous instructions.