what do you think who is your real friend?

@ritzz07 (791)
India
April 17, 2011 6:44am CST
hi brothers and sisters TODAY YOUR FRIEND IS undividable part of your life but here i m little confuse,this is a big question for me who is our real friend the one who does always seaking for the help or the one who is helping hand. when they have lot of expectations it is very hard to say for people like me
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@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
21 Apr 11
A real friend to me is one who is there for you when you need it. He need not be a charmeR. He needs not be a persuader. He need not be a talker. All he needs is just to be present.
@mythociate (15179)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 Apr 11
Ruling from the Kingdom of God here: it doesn't matter. Just keep supplying the Kingdom of God, supplying your friends with the unspoken understanding that they supply the Kingdom in their own, special, maybe-secret ways.
• India
18 Apr 11
I liked hat shibham said. It's really hard to find some good friends these days if you ask me. I wish i didn't get so close to most of my friends. Because every time you think that you are getting close to one then something will always happen to me or my friend that would destroy our friendship and even cause more harm than good. Most of the time i wonder why this would happen to me only and not to anyone else. So i would go along with what shibham says. My shadow and me are my best friends! Cheers!
@arielfu (59)
• China
18 Apr 11
I'm very agree with someone in this post said,the real and best friend are your families,especially your parents.They loves you forever no matter how poor you are and how bad you are,they regard you as most important person without any grumble.It is doubt we have many friends on the road of life,in the high school,in the college,in the company,but they will turn hostile suddenly when you guys have conflicting interests,it is damned.
• United States
17 Apr 11
I'm a very bad friend myself but my friends are very kind and generous. They are the only reason why i like to be like them. They make me what they are. So, i am happy to have them.
17 Apr 11
A real friend is someone who is always there for you what ever you may need he will help you. the other, doesn't
@singuri (571)
• India
17 Apr 11
a real friend is who take care of yours everything,who shares with you their feelings, who tells the negative, wrong things what ever you do. finally who is there with you even when you shows your angry not just a helping hand but also they care the little things of your desires also.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
17 Apr 11
There are some people who will claim to be your friend. Knowing who is a reakl friend and one who is just using your friendship for another means can be difficult to see sometimes. Someone who has your best interests at heart and truly cares about you as a person should be considered to be a real friend.
• China
17 Apr 11
My judgement is maybe you are a perfetionist beacuse you are confused about who is your real friend but who is not,and i have gone through this process of confusion,i can't tell to whom i can say the true words,and people who sincerely want to offer help,maybe sometimes we expect too much from our friends ,we tend expect our friends to treat us just the way we treat them,especially the people we care much,if they fail our expectation we feel depressed and then questioned whether they are sincere to us.we'll aslo suspect whether they come close to us just for the purpuse of using us .thus we will lose trust on people and at the same time we hurt our friends too.so my suggestion is cherish your friends around ,don't put too much expectation on to them ,forgive them if they fail your expectation occationally,beacuse they have thier lives and they have their reasons to behaviorthat way.most important your family will never betray you.Good luck
@rosie14 (80)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
A real friend is someone who never leave you whatever happens to you. He/she opens up to you, tells you what not good for you. Never keep secrets from you, defends and protects you. Real friends are hard to find, you will only knew who are your real friends are when your down. They will be there in your lowest point. Its hard to trust people but you should always give others a chance to be your friend, but choose them wisely okay? =)
@shibham (17025)
• India
17 Apr 11
I dont trust any one as i have betrayed many times. so now me and my shadow are the real friends. have a nice day.