Falling in LOVE with a Mylotter? (MEH!)

loving some one - it's just that you have to be good and honest.
Philippines
April 22, 2011 4:08am CST
Hello Lotters, Nothing is really impossible. though i should have written this in the mylotter section but some how it ain't gonna cut since it's something were lotters do hang out most. it's still had something to do with mylot and it's users, so here it goes. I know i had my crushes and loves in mylot. to be honest, i have ONE crush and another is IN Love with in this site. though i think my flame to that other person has gone low now because of her inactivity in this site. the other came back a few months ago and she didn't let me know about it. the thign is , there's nothing wrong with it. before that, there are mylotter sweet hearts here but i am not sure if any one of these pairs got together in the end. You know it's normal to fall in love with a mylotter, even though it's dangerous. but stalking to one, is another story. There's nothing wrong with being passionate. but you gotta take it like a man when you get rejected. * Hey, If I Fall in Love or have a Crush on a Mylotter, that's none of your Business![ not prying on some one (LOLZ) ]
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25 responses
@babyanna (1217)
• China
22 Apr 11
Hi,there! I bet the one who didn't let you know feels terribly sorry.I don't know any romantic stories between mylotters here maybe due to my inactivity.But I do hope those who fell in love can have a happy ending.There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a mylotter.We've seen people falling in love through social networking sites,or those online dating sites.When they feel the chemicals,then that's it.And I do feel that through words,you can get to know a person pretty well as long as he/she is not lying.And yeah,about the taking-it-well part,I quite agree with you.Those who can't take rejections well are the ones we should be cautious of. BTW,you haven't replied to the PM yet.Hope could get your reply soon because I really want to know the answer if you know.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello BabyAnna, That's alirght, am a very understanding person, though sometimes I can be unreasonable too. But I guess this holy week has really put a peace on my mind some how. I really like that person though, i'd wish i'd get to know her a lot better. It's not really my thing to talked and see how it will go but knowing that special person now in my heart has the “same” zodiac sign as I have, I think there's a cool meaning to it. Like her, I wanna be left alone too. But I wonder, would she want me to leave her alone. Have a sweet day.
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@babyanna (1217)
• China
22 Apr 11
I think it depends. Haha,I can be quite unreasonable,too. One tip,if you wanna know her better,you gotta ask her more questions.And yeah,through discussions can also be a good way.I bet she's gonna try to know you better as well. Have a good night!
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@babyanna (1217)
• China
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the BR.I really appreciate it.
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@dollar3235 (2063)
• India
22 Apr 11
All the best, LetranKnight25.
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• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello dollar, thanks a lot. I don't know what you mean though, but thanks still.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
22 Apr 11
Hi LetranKnight Great to know that my idol/icon has a human side too I have so many lotters whom I have a crush on... But it is all for the positive isnt it! Always follow and ruled by my heart makes me more vulnerable
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello Thesids, Of course, I have a human side, I hope you're not thinking of me as an Alien or anything :D. well, there's nothing wrong with it, but of course, knowing that you have tied the knot long time a go,there's nothing wrong with crushes. It's just simple admiration and I think thats the best definition of it. There's nothing wrong with loving as long as you're careful with your secrets. Have a nice day.
@babyanna (1217)
• China
22 Apr 11
I can't believe thesids confessed~
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@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
22 Apr 11
@LetranKnight: I was worried when I was reading those discussions from you where you were feeling all alone, lonely and worked out. Nothing of the Alien thing. Yes, I tied the knot in 2007 and luckily have not kept anything secret from her. @babyanna: I believe it is not a confession as I did not lie earlier and told the truth
@piya84 (2591)
• India
23 Apr 11
I found one man interested .I checked his age.He was 80 year old. plan cancel.
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
Were it at your age, you could have nurtured the intimacy? :)
@babyanna (1217)
• China
25 Apr 11
Hi,Piya! I did find some elder guys here very attractive.You can still befriend them.
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Helo piya, it's normal for women to fall in love or liked guys who are more than years they're age. remember, women mature first before men.
@sophiaraine (1114)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
Wow! I feel like i've been gone forever! I can't recognize most of the mylotters who responded. LOL. Anyway, me myself used to like someone a lot here. We both liked each other so much. But unfortunately, it didn't work out. We are thousands of miles away from each other. Our distance hindered our relationship as special friends. We came to a point that we had to stop talking to each other for a certain period of time because both of us are gettong hurt. After a couple of months, we started to talk again. The sparkle was gone, we both moved on, but we remained good friends until now. I think he's not active here anymore. And I'm not as active too like before, but i still visit and post and respond if i have the time. Been busy with work. I hope i get the chance to work on mylot like before. Have a mice day!
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Hello Sophia, Yes, i have seen some of your discussions and some active responses lately in the past. it's nice that you have come back for some discussions, though things are a bit different now, i can say that mylot is basically the same as always. Except some new improvements and upgrades, its' basically a social site. and new offers didn't go well with the crowd or didn't last
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
That's good. That you still recognize me and my discussions. I thought I've been long forgotten by mylotters. Lol. What's new with mylot? It seems to me that nothing much have changed. I dunno, but I just keep on coming back here. A little more enhancement and push on the popularity side and mylot might bring fb down. Lol. Btw, lemme guess... you're from Letran right? hahaha... (not too obvious!)
@Bellapop (1281)
22 Apr 11
This sounds very sweet, for those of us who are lucky enough to meet someone on here and then fall in love - good luck and congratulations! However, are lots of chatting on here is very general and I think it is still very difficult to get to know someone well on these websites.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello Bellapop, Yeah it can be for real or not in the end. Not every one can have a happily ever after, most people have happily ever after for a while. But then in the end they end up leaving each other divorcing or annulment. I don't want this happening in my life time though but I guess it's logical to have friends at that. Have a nice day.
• United States
23 Apr 11
Awww, i think it's cute :) You can find love anywhere and you have. I'm happy. I like seeing people happy. Internet or not, you've found someone.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
hello LK, This is not you! there is something i should know we need to talk soon i want to know about this (i hope this is my business also you know what i mean HAhAHA) well some can't help their feelings not to fall in love or admire other mylotters for a reason it's just it cannot be always two way street they may love you back or not . Whoever she is she is lucky one having a building if ever besides you are nice person no doubt about it, missing you this days . THE KNIGHT HAS FOUND HIS DAMSEL? hehehe happy mylotting
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
I will add also that i know you need more guts to post this and i salute you for being true and honest to what you feel
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello Catch, Not really, but She was one I thought I lost A long time ago as well. I didn't really mentioned some people that I have grown to like though. Probably if she didn't reveal herself, i'd probably stop my heart from beating up, but who's strong enough or guts enough to stop a heart beat when you can die for it. I strongly doubt I will be loved back. But there are times am tired of being selfish too. Have a nice day.
@la_chique (1499)
22 Apr 11
I'm not really here to find a relationship or anything. Just to contribute, to have something to do and to maybe make a few bucks whilst I'm doing it. Tried the whole internet dating thing a long time ago and it ended in disaster. Dont think I'd leap back in there in a hurry.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello CHiq, I think from the start it always starts with a little chat here and there. but from time to time when you get to use in talking to the usual person, that's the time the friendship gets to another level i guess. but i doubt it can happen here most of the time.
@babyanna (1217)
• China
22 Apr 11
I have no doubt about that.I began to know some amazing fellows here and I'm always eager to hear from them.I already consider them as my friends.And I definitely enjoy having them around.
• United States
29 Apr 11
Although I am very active here I have yet to hear of anyone falling romantically in love here. Not saying it is not possible, anything is possible especially after so much interactions. It would not be possible for me because I don't see the site or any member in this way. Instead I have drawn closer to members but strictly on friendship and family levels for me. lol Primarily too because I have my love here at home.
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Hello hardworkinggurl, that's good to know at least the only thing you can do is be active here and earn. at the same time you can also do your best to earn here as well. don't worry we will be friends here with you, am glad you are part of this community and as you're friend as well. i didn't think such interaction exist until a few years back.
@KrauseHome (35034)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Well personally there are a lot of reasons why people become active and stay active in here, and developing relationships I am sure happen here all of the time. If people are actually able to fall in Love, and really meet that would be cool, but never seen it yet, but you never know. Marriage would probably be a long shot as well. But hey if you really do like someone let them know. If things are meant to be then things will happen, if not hopefully you will always have a close friend. Wishing you the Best.
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Hello Krause, Well, to those who are in love, i just hope things would go well. but marriage and long term relationships are not that much into hype, so i won't hope into it really. thank you for your wishes i do hope i get lucky some day.
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
NOW, that's really sweet! I admire you for doing this.. That girl might be so lucky.. I mean she might have the feelings for you too! Hope this turns out well! Good luck to it! :)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Hello Edsss, Well, there's really nothing with admitting you're admiration to some one. no, i can't expect anything right now but am getting luckier on other things. yeah, i agree with you that things can be turned around. have a nice day.
• China
26 Apr 11
wow!i can't believe it you crush on someone only on the words she says?or you maybe have more private communication with one,it sounds like virtual on line dating.i bless you but i probably will not have that crush...i 'd rather being friends and share ideas....but i am not deny there are pairs got togother in the end,then it must be a romantic love story...
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
Hello Dellahappy, i hope things will go better as times goes by. but for now i love the talks and conversations there. it's cool that we get to have other people talking with us even though we haven't really seen them. have a nice day
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
I giggled right away. I understand you are going through, not because I have a Mylotter crush too but people can really feel that when they got to meet someone that will touch their soul, no matter if it is online or offline. Have you met these "Crush" and "in Love" ladies you are talking about? So what is your plan, pursue her? It might be great.
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
Hello Grecy, Well, it's really something that i have seen with other people in the past, and yes it was good to them once. unfortunately, i haven't met them yet, i just hope that things would benefit and good for me in teh end. for now, i believe that mylot is a good place for people who can relate through out the world.
@katrinapaz (2438)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
wow.. i never thought that here in mylot there are lovers.. but i am glad that fellow lotters end up with each other. I think it is alright to have a crush on someone here, what with everyday sharing something about ourselves then we can find out the similarities of ourselves to other members. I wish you and your crush would be able to get to know each other better, letran :)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Hello katrinapaz, Well, there are people that has done it already but of course you know not all things really last forever. some ends up being together but some ends up breaking with each other until they end up strangers again. anyways, it was just some admiration thing, going to the next level? i don't really know have a great day.
@chuyins123 (2118)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
Hi LetranKnight, Yeah, every thing goes on a social networking site. I had great friends online that somehow become my real friends, on real life. So falling in love with someone online would also be a possible scene. Though the ideas and views of others towards such would vary, it would still depend on the parties involved on how to work out with the relationship. Glad to know that the pleasures you got here in mylot is beyond sharing and exchanging ideas, and beyond earnings because you also got some crush on somebody on here! Happy for ya! Blessed Holy Week! chuyins
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Hello Chuyins123, that's very true, i have heard a lot of people getting to know each other in social networking sites. well, it really didn't start with mylot perse but i had my chance. it's nice to have known some one here and got to know them in real life. have a nice day.
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
22 Apr 11
I think it is wonderful if you feel that way about someone in Mylot. I do think it is only your business also. I know of a couple of people who fell in love here too.
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Hello Steph,, Yeah, because most specially you have known that person for a while and gets to have that kind of feeling.too bad to those who didn't make it in the end, unless you were referring to other people here that i didn't know of
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
oh my god! i know ho you feel! this weird feeling that maybe as crazy as it sounds you have become attracted to this unknown guy online... it sucks though, because unless you tell him or you're one of his online friends and talk to him, it's going to be a one-sided kind of love. :( i do wish you luck though! fight fight fight~ xP
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello there, First of welcome to mylot.if you haven't check my pro am a guy (not a gay). but it's just some flame in me. but i don't know when it is going to end. have a nice day
@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
22 Apr 11
Congratulations! Yes, nothing is impossible. Hope everything turns out well for you ;)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello whyaskq, I don't really know what you were congratulating about but thanks anyways
@danitykane (3192)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hi there, Everything is possible and love can be found in all places in the world. Who cares if it is online or under the sea? LOL. As long as we are true to ourselves and we don't have any bad intentions other than to share our feelings with the one we like I guess there is nothing wrong with that.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello Danity, That is so true, everything is indeed possible, though am not sure if it's gonna last. Well, LOVEs no knows bounderies but unfortunately, our LAW does and expectations from our peers, friends and families. But who cares, as long as the two of you love each other there's no telling how far both of you can reach. Have a nice day.
@o0jopak0o (6407)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Well anything can happen better lovers than enemies
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Hello Jopak, you're right it's better for them to be lovers than enemies, it's more productive and pro-creating that way!. Have a nice day.