End of disappoined love

@mawardi (158)
Indonesia
April 25, 2011 7:32am CST
Relationship has been running 5 years , I want to marry him but GOD willing another oand we finally separated by a deep sense of disappointment . possible that the lord has a wonderful plan behind all this.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Apr 11
Curse these human brains of ours for so-possessing things of the past as to make our bodies lack the long-gone-by! The secret you're looking for is FOCUS: focus on what will absolutely one-day be again (if you make it), concentrate on making that one thing happen, and everything else will fall into place to support the accomplishment of your part in that one thing! The one thing I do is speech! As I continue to talk and stand firmly upon/behind my speech, so soon will all the hearing-friends do what they can to support my speech! What's your 'one thing'---the thing you do to FOCUS friends' actions on the ultimate goal.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Apr 11
I'm not even asking about your 'relationship'-feelings--That's over! That's gone! That's yesterday! That's ancient history! That's archives!--I'm asking you what you want to give to the world at-large
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@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 11
HI Mythociate...., I made a decision about this . because all these plans I'm sure the Lord is there something behind that beautuful
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@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 11
HI Mythociate...., I'm not so familiar with your writing.. can be clarified again...
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25 Apr 11
Five years is a long time.I am sorry to hear it.but in other words,it means your relationship is not good enough,or your feeling is not deep enough.Check yourself,please.
@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 11
HI Lowland123....., I've check all the errors and think why can all this. mybe he's not my mate.
@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 11
HI Lowland123....., I've check all the errors and think why can all this. mybe he's not my mate.
26 Apr 11
If you think he is not the person you want to find,then forget him,and find your true Mr.Right.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
27 Apr 11
Hello Mawardi! I know what you are facing, I went through the same thing as you. But our relationship was of 7 years old. It wasn´t easy, it took me two years to find life again. And I used to cry, sometimes, even 10 years later. Now, it has been almost 16 years of that. I don´t cry anymore. I just accept it as the Lord sent it to me. And I am happy now. Take a breath deep. Blessings!... Dainy
@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 11
I'm sorry to hear your story . forget all the painful past of our hearts,let's get up and leave all our lives to the LORD
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Yes that would be possible, but how about Our Creator has just placed you (both) on one extreme test of how you really love one another. Relationship are not always sweet, loving and mostly not what you expect it to be, Just as like driving a car, we put low gear when needed, high gears when its possible, how about fuel, sometimes halt for tire check, oil change and even thorough check up. The important thing is what you DO when those situation rise up. Note: Sorry to say, dont take this as a negative---we dont blame GOD for anything,in fact we can never ever blame HIM. what happens to Us is what we made it. Have a good day mawardi.
@mawardi (158)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 11
HI Mrfdg1972...., I dont blame GOD , why I was given a trial at the time I relly needed him. I also have instropecting ourselves where lies the one I have ever done on him.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 May 11
hi, yeah,everything has a wonderful plan by the God,He will know what will be the best for us,i think God has a better plan for both of you,and if you really for each other even you separated for long God will make a way to meet each other again.