The older the sweeter and more romantic...or much experienced...not expert !

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
April 27, 2011 10:05pm CST
Young people falling in love as young as 10 years old? Do you believed that...or might be just infatuation rather i say. If you haven't fallen in love and never been in any relationship,what would you prefer? YOUNGER THAN YOU OR OLDER AND WHY? When i was younger i never consider age gap,or maybe i am more attracted to older guys. I was 10 years old when i first had my first crush and it's Christopher Reeves "SUPERMAN HERO"..bet how older he is compared to my age then. And i found former US President Reagan so handsome when i was in highschool,that's why i never had any bf till i finished my studies as if i was looking for someone like Reeves and Reagan? Or am i dreaming too high ..nah...i love to be pampered ...maybe that's the reason How about you guys,do you see age gap as a hindrance? Do you like younger ones ...why? or older...to pamper and make you feel soooo special (i love it) Have a great summer heat everyone Jaiho- back to life
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
28 Apr 11
Dear friend, I had seen beautiful women, I just get attracted to them. But I felt love to girl who is bit younger to my age. That was way back in school days, then in my college also beautiful girls were there, got attracted but never felt of love for them. Just admiration for their beauty. In college I hardly talked to any girls. When I viewed an interview of a actress in the Television, her name is Samuyutha she got married to another actor called Biju Menon. After I watched that interview I felt in love, she is above my age. .At times I had seen my friends wives affection to them, that makes me jealous of them as they are too lucky to get their right choices.If God permits I may get my true love someday.....
@Sreekala (34314)
• India
28 Apr 11
Thank GOD, Samyuktha or Biju Menon is not a member here in mylot Be confidant your angel will come soon.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello SHAM, So you suddenly felt attraction with older women after seeing Samuyutha like my sister Sree says,good thing that those person are not mylot member (hahaha) Don't you worry...your true love will come at the right time
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
love is simple and complex both, depends on how one sees it and experience it. as there is so many forms of love, one cannot truly judge how a young heart truly feels coz each of us has our own version of truth and reality. hehe i don't know how young i truly had been when i fell in love... but i know that i have loved truly. it may not have had the desired ending, but a great journey nonetheless. with that, there were no regrets. when i was in my teens, i was really hooked on watching basketball. both NBA and PBA. my favorite was michael jordan and johnny abarientos for the local (alaska at the time). infatuation went a long way because of finding ways and means to watch local PBA live begging my brother in law for a ticket in the finals. i had flags, posters, game cards, balloons... name it, i had it then. i went gaga over the ball player and the ball game. but i knew it was mere infatuation. hehe as for loving someone older... are they sweeter, more romantic, or more experienced? well... i believe it does not come with age but the person itself. as one ages, good nature doesn't always follow. lol i have always preferred older guys... thinking they are more mature, more responsible, and more serious about life, love and family in general. however, i always ended up with one who is a bit younger than i am. my first one was 1 year younger and my last ex was 2 years younger. in all the time that i have been in a relationship, i never felt being older. i played the role of an equal and one that complements in a relationship. i never felt the age gap. and yes, i've been pampered too in the same way as i had pampered when i loved. so, is age gap a hindrance? no. not if you don't let it. at the end of the day, what matters most is how you feel for each other and how you loved. (but then again, knowing you... lol... no matter what i say... or how long i write my response... you'll always push one thing on me. hehe don't wish for bells ringing right now. and june and december i think are fully booked. lol and the flower girl is busy with a groom-to-be and a travel in the making. lol)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
see? when it comes to me... you have a one-track mind. lol
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
myles dahlin' WEDDING BELLS
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
well,you are right there dear. age is not reliable when it comes to love. i am not sure with younger ones,i never had any relationship with younger guys. can't say much with differences. just happen that,i consider matured men more attractive...i don't know why actually. see some Hollywood actors more attractive as they gets older ...(hehehe)
@akangirl (2436)
• India
28 Apr 11
Age doesn't matter but experience does matter to me actually i don't like guys who have are total naive.I am more into guys older than me as i feel pampered and secure with them.They are more understanding and also knows what to speak and when.I look for a guy who is mature than me as i have a bit childish nature. its been such a long time when will my guy come in my life so i can fall in love again
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
28 Apr 11
Yeah i am still on search, hope i find him soon before i loose all my hope. all the guys i liked are already taken ones
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
there's a lot of single guys my dear... don't you worry...love will come at the right time
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
dear sis, Oh..you also prefer older men?...i love you for that. And you are also still on search...then let's go around the world in search for our prince charming
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
I don't think age gap is a hindrances of happy relationship. Age's doesn't matter and the important things is love between both of the two person engage in a relationship not the age or anything...
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
1 May 11
Well, thanks for the admiration. I appreciate it so much! I know about it but I still have a problem too about love. I don't think that love will make me lonely and cried. I think before that love will give us happiness in life...It may not be that love but trials
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 May 11
it maybe trials to test your patience and understanding. just keep going on...do what you think is right... you always find good reasons behind those trials,and i wish you all the luck
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hello aerous, Hello my friend...it's been a long time and i hope you are doing fine now. Your name means love in Greek word (eros/aeros) and i am sure you know that as a professor. Well,i know you know better when it comes to love...honestly i admire you for being a good person. hope you had a great Sunday
@shibham (16977)
• India
28 Apr 11
Hi didi... My humble opinion here is i shall marry a younger one like 3 to 4 years young, not more than. I am not so interested to marry older one. there is a girl who often talk with me over phone and her intention is so clear that she loves me. Well, i cant marry her as she is older than me and as i have said i have no faith on love. take care.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
28 Apr 11
My faith on love will go to post marriage life. and there is humpty dumpty..... for you.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
a what?????
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
dear bhai, Oh,so you have an admirer? Ok...then why are you going to consider marriage if you don't have faith in love? I would never consider marriage without love....so better find my prince that loves me okay?
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello jaiho, Age doesn't matter when it comes to love i prefer older men but not that old my ex we have 7 years gap and i was really pampered by him that beast LOL...... But not older men are matured enough sometimes they are also hard headed, self conceited and dominant have a nice day!
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• Philippines
28 Apr 11
typo again it should be NOT ALL OLDER MEN
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
bhaby, hmnn...i never thought your ex is 7 older than you.. i thought you like younger ones hehehe i like dominant...
@shibham (16977)
• India
28 Apr 11
Hi bhaby.. Am i older one to you?
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Apr 11
I don't feel age gap is important...but at 10, I wouldn't call it love...I would term it as a 'crush'. Personally I've preferred older men (though I won't judge anyone going in for younger partners) because of the maturity. My likes and dislikes are more suited to an older person than a younger person.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Apr 11
Yes...I agree...it's a personal choice. One of my cousins is going to marry a Filipino girl who is older than he is. My uncle's wife is 11 years younger than he is...and my cousin's husband is 11 years older than she is. My personal choice is older men but someone close to my age is also fine.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
hello SV, It really depends on whom you are comfortable with. Like others prefer younger ones,and some like the older. I am more attracted with older ones. Older guy with sense of humor and caring enough to pamper me. have a great weekend ahead
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Apr 11
I don't think that age matters when it comes to love. The feelings that people share is the most important thing in my opinion. My guy is the same age..well...I might be a few months older...lol...I don't think I would want someone alot younger or alot older...but if it was love...well...it wouldn't matter.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hello Jen, It's love that matters always,not age. But,if i have to choose between younger and older,i would prefer the older one. Maybe some like younger,and it's their choice. thanks for dropping by and have a wonderful Sunday
• Mexico
28 Apr 11
Hi jaiho: In my case I am usually feeling attracted by girls that are older than me, but not too old. 5-7 years older than me: Katy Perry and Britney Spears are so hot to me. They are cute and sweet and also a little bit naughty girls . I have also had some crush on girls that are younger than me but I must admit that I don't like to play the teacher. I prefer some kind of experience and I find really sexy to find a succesful woman . I am 23 years old and maybe these are the reasons why I prefer older woman than me. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
hello Alvaro, So you prefer older women,not just older women but hottie ,and you don't like the idea of "playing teacher to younger ladies" Thanks for sharing your views here my friend and have a good day always
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
@ alvaro So three years older will do?
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
28 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Age is really just a number. I see and feel whats in the heart. That is more important.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
dear saphy, I agree...age is just a number,and love knows no either of those age/races/color/caste etc... just love love love and give love
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
28 Apr 11
As always meluan. Sure sweetie, if you can find that love then.
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@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Actually, i am older than my husband by 6 years. But we get along fine. he even thinks more maturely than me in some aspects of our lives. I think, the feeling of a 10 year old isn't love yet, it's just an infatuation, that will still change as her outlook in life changes too as she grows older.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello simply, So,you are older than your husband...age doesn't matter right...it's the person/love that matter most.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
you're so right!! they mature late compared to women but they are those who need to carry much more responsibility especially in the financial aspect. haha
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
i prefer older men, but not too old hehehe my boyfriend is 5 years older than me but i think i am more mature than him
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello cher, Your bf is older for 5 yrs and still you think more mature than him? then try to find a man who is older for 10 yrs (hahha) just kidding. oh men will always be boys have a great day always
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
heheheh yeah i think so. if i didn't love him this much i would've done it 7 years ago but naaaaaa, he is my baby boy hehehehe. but well yeah boys will always be boys and i hate that fact so much thanks,you too
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• United States
28 Apr 11
ha ha. Yes I'm pretty sure at age 10 it was more infatuation than anything :p. Right now I have only seen girls around my age :) My current gf is only 2 and a half years younger. I don't think age is that important but it shouldn't be too big of a gap. Either way as long as you have that spark and that natural feeling I am sure it would be fine. Ironicly my girl loves to be pampered as well, but she's too stubborn to admit it :P
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello blackwinged, Most girls likes to be pampered and maybe stubborn,but i am sure your gf is sweet. So you never sees matured woman more attractive?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
oh yeah...hahaah i like the way you describe matured women... anyway...welcome to mylot
• United States
28 Apr 11
Mature women are very attractive. They have that confidence and experience that is very attractive :) If I ever found the right older gal I might give it a try ha ha But as of now and experience I'm more attracted to the small, cute, younger, spoiled/pampered, stubborn, but sweet girl. ha ha I may be describing my gf at the moment but that is my perfect girl presently :)
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@lot0724 (115)
• Henderson, Nevada
28 Apr 11
age does not matter to me. i have always dated older so for me it does not matter. It what you have in common. Also how you feel about the relationship.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
hello lot, You said it right...it's what you have in common. thanks for your response and have a good day always welcome to mylot
@taski24 (214)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
If that's the only choice, of course, I will go for someone younger than me. There a local saying here in our country, "Young grass are for old carabaos." Honestly, I cannot imagine myself having a relationship with someone ten years older than I am. But I would definitely be delighted if I can find a twenty year-old lass who would fall in love with me. Kind of double-standard? Maybe, but that is the way it's got to be. If it is any consolation to those interested, a lot of people say I look like I am just 21 years old.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello taski, Everyone has their own preferences,age,looks,status and so on. You prefer a younger lass..it's your choice. Most women prefer older men too,so it met halfway. So you looks younger than your actual age thanks for your response and have a great day
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Age doesn't matter dear amiga, I agree with that. I marry but a younger man, hehehe but he treats me like a princess at home. I just hope it won't change or else! :-)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello maharlika, Of course i always agree that age doesn't matter. I know few couples where in the man is younger than the woman...for 5-10 years and they are happily married till now. Nice to see you again dear amiga and hope you are enjoying mylot now
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Apr 11
I believe that romance oe get much eeter ith age. o much idom can be accrued throught the year ae learn more and more about ourelve and the one e love.
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Teenagers now a days I guess do fall in love at a young age, maybe because of too much exposure to modern technology which is rare in my younger years.Age gap is not a hindrance for people who are in love , as a guy I prefer a woman younger than me because I think woman age faster than man with regards to experience, so if I'm older maybe 5 yrs the most she can easily adjust and understand me.My wife is 6 yrs younger than me and we are happily married.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello stanley, Yes,women (mostly) becomes matured at early age compared to men. And i also seen mosts couples that women are younger for few years than the man. But still age doesn't matter (right?) have a good day
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
for me, age does matter a little bit. i mean, i'll put 5 years maximum for the age gap. i dont like guys to be very much older or younger than me. im fact i never had boyfriends before that are younger than me. since my friends also tell me that im a little mature for my age (i think like a grandma?? well not that mature! ) well perhaps thats one more reason why im not very attracted to younger guys.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hello tammy, 5 years gap is not bad at all. It's just fine since mostly men get's mature later than girls. thanks for your response and have a good day always
• Canada
28 Apr 11
age who cares about age as long as you feel it in your heart age doesnt matter. I am a hopeless romantic my first love was when I was 9 yrs old with a boy who was 12 haha I was so in love I still remember my first kiss it was awkward haha but I loved it. I can say once you get older you realize that age is just a number and if you like someone older or younger it really doesnt matter.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
hello occ, You got your first kiss at 9? (great!) I've got mine when i'm 19 (hahahaha) Yes you are right,we get to know what we really want/like as we get older. thanks for your response and have a goo day always welcome to mylot