Saphy, the ninny....

@saphrina (31739)
South Africa
April 28, 2011 9:28am CST
I feel like crying today. Don't know what to think, feel or to say. As if crying will help. It makes you look all red and puffy and it's a waste of some good energy. I hate it when i have to wonder about things. Anxiety can make one feel crappy and worse of all, it makes one old. How many times do people make you worry or let you feel anxious, while you are trodding around like a freaking fool, wondering what the hell is going on. Not a rant really. Just one pissed off women.
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@zralte (4186)
• India
28 Apr 11
Oh Saphy...let it out. It is alright to cry. No one can be strong and not shed tears all the time.
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• India
29 Apr 11
I agree with you my friend, we are just common people. We can try.... But saphie is a guru. She can analyse any problem.
• United States
29 Apr 11
And where is saphy? I am sure she will come back and bring us all smiles sometime soon. Hi!
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I hate looking red eyed and puffy. Bad for my image. Analyse remo, but not solve all of them, unfortunately. Saphy, got a bit lost sweetie.
• United States
28 Apr 11
Saphy dear I will join the crowd and say let it out! Holding it in makes us feel worse and continually having the need to want to cry. It is okay to cry from time to time, as it reminds us that we are human with emotions. I will cry with you and then both of us can have a good laugh. Many, many hugs too.
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• India
29 Apr 11
I also join with you friends... cry cry then a loud laugh..................
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Sweetie, imagine 2 blondes crying like 5 year olds, all puffy and red eyed and then giggling like to school girls. What will people say and think?
• United States
29 Apr 11
They would say awwh look at those two pouring their sweet hearts out and be prompted to stop and comfort us with smiles.
@shibham (17022)
• India
28 Apr 11
Hi saphie darling... reasons? I cant see any friends worried and please dont post a discussion like this. Although i am sad.. i try to make my friends happy. Please cheer saphie. Have a nice day.
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• India
28 Apr 11
Hellow shibham. Actually saphie is a very bold, energetic women in our mylot community. Always i love to listen her golden simple words. She is not just a common friend. But she is so simple. As per best of my experience, i can say that, "what ever the problem it is, she can kill it with her sweet smile...". @saphrina God blesses are with you saphie..
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@shibham (17022)
• India
28 Apr 11
Agree... ramesh. She is an unique one and her sweet words are enough to her rivals to bow down.. @melu... you are always confused.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
meluan, did you understand it all? Cause i didn't get it.
• United States
28 Apr 11
Sorry to hear you are down but crying is good for you sometimes, After a long cry you will feel better, put some happy music on maybe that will help you or watch a comedy, that helps me when I am down. Hope you are feeling better soon.
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• India
29 Apr 11
Actually when a women cries, then i will cut our heart... But the women(girls also) are so sensitive... know.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I have to say a good horror actually did it for me. It helps to get rid of some emotions. So sweet of you remo.
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• India
1 May 11
Whatever it takes, you never loose your confidence level. We are here madam....
• United States
28 Apr 11
Unfortunately alot of people go through anxiety and being worried. Sometimes it feels like you are losing control and it shows you that you're not in control. You just have to give everything to God, I dont know if you believe in God but it gives you some peace in knowing that there is someone in control. You also might want to do things that you enjoy, sometimes working out or reading my help you to relieve stress. best of luck
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Thanx sweetie. We need to give it a try and see if that will help. Movies helped a lot, thank you.
@vandana7 (68509)
• India
28 Apr 11
Hello Goldilocks...mumma is here...wanna talk? We all have those moments sweetie..the sun will be up again tomorrow. :) Hope everything will be fine for you by then.
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@shibham (17022)
• India
28 Apr 11
Yes, lets hope melu.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Actually ma, the sun decided to stay away here. Seems everything will just go freaking wrong. I'll tell you someday though.
@vandana7 (68509)
• India
29 Apr 11
My baby...2 bad days followed by 2 good days that is how it would be...the Sun will return..promise..
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
dear saphy, Hugs for you my dear...i've been through this situation for the past few days Now,i am trying to moved on and try to save my day from another spoil (ugh!) Just cry out loud...it helps
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• India
28 Apr 11
Really saphie is a dare women, why should she has to cry. We all are there to saphie. We can be half of her problem...
@shibham (17022)
• India
28 Apr 11
Yes, i am also in the same brigade.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Lets have some vodka sweetie. I hear you forget a lot of things while testing out some tastes. You won't be able to carry what i do remo, but thanx anyway.
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@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 11
Just cry, scream, and rant all you like.... only do it inside a room and alone. you'll feel better. Does not matter if what you are ranting about is a problem of 7 years ago, just spit it out. Hope you can have a laugh after all those.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
I'm pissed at myself for not being a screamer sweetie. That would have helped, i think.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
2 May 11
Scream Saphy... screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Apr 11
I kind of feel that way too. Tissue?
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@vandana7 (68509)
• India
29 Apr 11
Oh no. Not both my favorites..
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Makes one feel better. - Cocktales for us
I'm all out of tissues, Dawny, sorry. But here, 2 each.
@rameshchow (5284)
• India
28 Apr 11
I think "Loneliness is our best friend". Maximum i too feel sad in happiness also. A little bit negative spark can be spreads into wide range and it will destroy our thinking and memory skills... what we have to do, to come out from these sad situations. Don't go for big deals. Live simple. Laugh Loudly about our problems... Share our problem with our loved ones. This will reduce our half of the tension... What do you say saphie...
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
I promise i will try my utmost best to start laughing, remo. Give me 2 years though.
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• India
1 May 11
Believe in God. He will gives you Blue piece... Laugh with your brother remo. He will makes you free from tensions.. hahaha... hahaha hahaaha ahaha ahahahhahahahahah.... Just laugh for me.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 11
Don't feel shy, sad, or even guilty about crying. It is one of the best forms to release your stress and bad energy. Your tears will carry chemical toxic out of your body, and you should cherish that moment, that you can cry. My advice is take the best advantage when you are crying because of your problems. Do it while praying, never smash things or be angry with it. My last advice is to cry when you must.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
hi sweetie. Too late to tell me not to smash anything Crying won't help this time though.
@Hatley (164471)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Apr 11
hi saphy who did this to you ,send him or her this way and i will'kick them in the you know what for you. I hate to cry too Gas it never solves 'anything then my nose gets red and all stuffed up too.,go kick a waste basket and yell take that you blasted idiot, look what you made me do At least you are angry and letting off some steam here on my lot. am sending you some hugs to help make you feel a bit better. wish I had some chocolate to send to you.lol I wish I knew why those we love will make us worry but they do it and more than once too. come here and weep on our shoulders as we can take it then dry your eyes and go kick that wastebasket clear out in the street. bam bam wham. wham.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Thank you for the hugs, it helps a lot. I'll rather not say what went bam, bam, wham, wham. But it helped a bit though.
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
28 Apr 11
Hi saphy! I don't know what to say. I have been upset a great deal myself lately although haven't been quite able to cry. I don't know how to help you since I don't know what the problem is. All I can say is hang in there and I hope things will get better. You know you have your myLot buddies to talk to anytime, at least you have me!
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Maybe it's that time of the year that make us feel this way. We should all come together and start kicking karma's butt. And those who make us feel this way as well. Up for it?
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
28 Apr 11
Hi. saphrina. Right now, I am very upset with my daughter's teacher. I have to go to a conference some time next week before my daughter gets out of school. So, I am just mad at how her teacher has been acting. Whoever has made you to the point of crying, should look out! If they keep it up, they will surely be thrown into the boundless pit because they have upset you to the point of you crying.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Whatever is that teachers problem, sweetie. Didn't i tell you to put her in her place already? I mean really. Should i come and do it for you?
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
29 Apr 11
Hi Sweetie well I hope by now you are not in this state any more I had many years of that believe me but now very rare Here is a big hug for you and I hope you feel better
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. How's Gissi doing? Thanx for the hugs. Not yet, but getting there.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
29 Apr 11
Gissi is still doing fine and he is well and full of mischief
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
Good to hear that sweetie. Give him a hug, will ya?