have you felt you just don't care anymore?

@chiyosan (29406)
Philippines
April 29, 2011 11:24am CST
Have you ever felt that sometimes you just don't care anymore? That you have already exhausted yourself and you can no longer stand whatever is happening and your response to the situation is you just don't care anymore. You cannot do anything about it anyway so why suffer more? Have you ever been in this situation, whether in your relationships, family,boyfriend,husband,wife,or work? How did you handle it?
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14 responses
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
I don't feel that way but I suffer a chronic depression. This will affect my lufe to free and happy... How I handle my situation right now is to focus myself into online earnings. I think your situation must be easy if you ask your partner about the changes in your life
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
regards and thank you for your response to the discussion. appreciate it, see you around!
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
regards and thank you for your response to the discussion. appreciate it, see you around!
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Your very much welcome, friend. Hope to have a discussion again next time with your great post on here...
@zaga_cleuth (1412)
• Philippines
3 May 11
I usually say that. But, in the end still I care. Maybe at the moment I'm mad and angry I could say that but, few minutes or so, when I'm cool down, I will realize that saying and telling myself those things won't help me.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@thotalot (18)
• United States
2 May 11
Some situations and some people are like a black hole: they can forever suck the life and energy out of you. When no amount of reason, logic, or effort can make an impact, that's when I go into "don't care" mode. If there is something you strongly believe in and passionate about, I say never give up caring or trying. But when a situation is not worth personally investing in, then don't waste your time caring. Personally, in a very difficult family situation, I decided to give up and don't care anymore about continuing that relationship because the person is so inherently selfish, judgemental, and unwilling to listen to anyone. This family member is damaging and toxic to most everyone she comes in contact with and seems to only be kind when seeking something from someone. This is not a relationship I am willing to engage in, so I have simply discontinued contact. As in Jewel's song, "Life Uncommon": No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from/Fill your life with love and bravery/And you shall lead/A life uncommon.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
yes like we are all in a place and there are no way out.. thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
1 May 11
Yeah all of us felt that before. Like you said when there is nothing else we could do it is time to leave and let it be the way it is.. I always had an issues with others. I will try to find ways and if nothing else I could do I think I would just let it go. I don't care anymore.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@spockers (221)
• Philippines
1 May 11
Yup, I've been in that situation before. The feelings that your all alone, no one care for you, and the feelings that you cannot already continue your life. That's really hard, luckily for me, I had many true friends. They help me rebuild my confidence in life, renew my faith in God. And now, every time I remember my self in that condition, i just smile to my self. I just thinking that I really waste time in that part of my life.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
oh its hard when you are feeling this way, right.. like when you are alone, when you feel you are just on your own. thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@cream97 (29168)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Hi. chiyosan. Yes, I have felt like this before. I also feel like this right now. I was told to have a meeting with my daughter's teacher and I don't really want to talk to her at all. She is just going to be the way that she wants to and I am getting tired of trying to explain myself over and over again. I have just gotten to the point of just not caring anymore at all. A meeting would be great for me to express my concerns, but it really won't do any good because she is stubborn and she won't listen to anything that I have said. She will hear it but she won't take heed to my message to her.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
oh its just often that we tell ourselves what the heck, i just don't care anymore... right?! it just happens when you feel you have everything full already. regards and thank you for your response to the discussion. appreciate it, see you around!
30 Apr 11
I have but then i remember that someone has it worse than me
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
that's true, someone we meet is always facing a harder battle in life than we are.
@airasheila (5459)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
Good day to you Chiyosan, Just like you, I have also felt the same. That, when I woke up one day, I feel that I am really exhausted. That, I want to shout out and cry. However, as the days goes by, I tried to pick up again the pieces. That, as the days turn by, my strength should revive again. That I should not give up since the situation that I am going through is part of my learning experience in handling a bigger responsibilities. In that way, I have revive again, but, not too quick, since I need to heal the heartaches and pain inside and out. Nevertheless, in all of these - hearthaches and pains - there is only one thing that I did - and that is pray. Yes, prayer is the best answer. No matter how, no matter what, no matter where, just lift everything to Him. God will surely give you the best answer in His own time.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
29 Apr 11
Yes...there have been periods of life when I have felt like that. Sometimes letting go actually empowers you more. Standing back and saying..ok...I can;t change this or that, but I can sure change this alot...that is the empowerment. Changing in masses the things that you have control of. I have also found that a small change can equal a great big one in our minds. Something like changing a routine at home can mix things up enough when life seems monotonous or boring. A little time alone can help you appreciate the family or the significant other more. Suggesting new ideas at work can change your outlook when they are used or considered. It's not an easy time when we feel like that..but these times usually pass. Take care.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@peavey (16640)
• United States
29 Apr 11
I think we've all felt that way at times. I suspect it's because of mental or emotional fatigue when dealing with a difficult situation. What is probably happening is that your mind is taking a break from it. I think it makes sense to go with the flow, that is, to just allow yourself to feel that way without guilt for awhile. Sometimes our subconscious minds are working when we don't know it and we may eventually return to the situation with renewed understanding and patience.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
@joystick (1680)
29 Apr 11
I think that there are alot of people that are in a relationship that seem to feel the same way no matter what is happening.There are a few times that i have felt like that, but it seems that no sooner we feel that way, things sort there selves out, sometimes for the better sometimes for the worst.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting.
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
w/ regards to my work, i try to relax even in a few minutes to regain energy. but when it comes to relationships, i try to be alone for few days and go somewhere to unwind.
@chiyosan (29406)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
thanks and regards and appreciate your response to the discussion, its great to have you here. :D happy mylotting. see you around!
@valerievy (162)
• Guam
21 Jan 13
I can somehow relate to that situation every now and then. But I always remind myself or others remind me that everything happens for a reason. It seems like the hardest thing in the world sometimes, that I'm the only one in the world facing whatever problem or issue it is I'm facing at the moment. It feels like I'm stuck, while the rest of the world continues on with daily routines or whatever. The way I deal with that though is.. to just stop for a moment, say a prayer, and try to find the good things to bring me strength and help me get over that hump. Another thing that helps is to surround yourself with positive-thinking family and friends. I hope you feel better soon enough, and resume the happy experiences in your life.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
29 Apr 11
I am guilty of having felt like this at different times in my life. i am not particularly happy with how i feel about myself at those times. When I find myself facing those kinds of times of despair and not caring, i try to find something that will lift me back up.