Always a smile ....

Netherlands
April 29, 2011 2:44pm CST
Do anyone recognise this that sometimes when I have a smile on my face someone wants to hurt me. I don´t know why that is. Like that person don´t want me to be glad. Have you experienced something like that.
7 responses
@ofabiania (421)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
fortunately, i have not experienced this one.. but, i guess there are really those persons who do not want a happy life.. i don't know why they are like that.. maybe they are just miserable individuals.. just don't let them affect you.. continue to wear that smile! :)
• Netherlands
3 May 11
Thanks, I will. Firs I did not new what to do about all the negativity. Now I know that have a little diamond in my hand that's called happyness that I have to protect. :O)
@misc11 (384)
• United States
29 Apr 11
I have experienced this, and I think some people enjoy being miserable and nothing will ever make them happy. Miserable people want people to be miserable with them, so they do not like to see happy people. A smile on someones face brings a large majority of people happy and brings a smile to theirs as well. Don't let those select few miserable people get to you because you are making a lot more happy when they say your smile! When one miserable person sees you, that one person isn't happy, but when another sees you, that person smiles and that person smiling will make others smile, and many people are positively affected by one smile. Smiles are contagious and more people should smile all the time!
• Netherlands
3 May 11
Being thankfull in life for little things makes me happy. Evryday I write down what Iam so thankfull of. This reminds me of evrything and forget my sorrows.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
29 Apr 11
Yes....I walk around work singing because I am happy most of the time...people say....why are you so happy? I say. Because I woke up today...and there's alot of people who didn't!
• Netherlands
3 May 11
You so right, Iam also like that, happy about little things in life. Life is so great, Iam so thankfull of being here and expereince evrything what I can. Even sad things how I can learn from it. Somethimes without a reason because of love?? hheheh
• United States
29 Apr 11
I have thought about that from time to time and my only conclusion is that they do not mean well for me so I have to put distance between such person and myself. I do this because why on earth would someone who says they care about me intentionally cause pain and hurt. I hope all is well with you.
• Netherlands
3 May 11
Hey Gurl, All is well and hope you are doing fine. Nice to hear from you that you also are someone with a happy face ;o) Yes I will do that in the future, avoid people that are negative and hurtfull. But the world is not always a happy place and I have to deal with such people. But for now......let us smile for this beautifull day and give your blessings for their negativity.
@joystick (1675)
29 Apr 11
I think that there are lots of people out there that do not like to see other people happy.Even when i have been happy, there has always been someone that comes and ensures that the smile is wipped off my face.
• Netherlands
3 May 11
Thats sad to hear, that someone could do that. Once I was so happy just without reason. I had a nice day outdoors and saw people who where very glad. Had some good conversations and laughs. Thats enough for me to be happy. Then I came at a friends house. The first thing she asked why I was so happy. I just smiled and said, nothing. Then she told me that I should not be so happy about anything and then she reminded of me all the pain I suffered from the past. She told me that I always had to remind that and not forget about it. The thing is, I was forgotten about it, till her talking about it. I was depressed when I left. She realy hurt me. I did not wanted to talk about it, but she keep repeating about it and made me depressed. I avoid here since.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
1 Jun 11
If I say a wonderful day is a day full of wonders, do wrong? And I say this is impossible not to think about the mysteries ... If life is the sum of all the wonderful wonderful day, what can we do to ensure that we have or will have as many wonderful days? Well we could start by that each day we decide we want ours to be a wonderful. Then let the world alone and we leave it to us! Life is really wonderful, just the people are bad. Then I would say every morning: Today I did not feel like I'm angry! We could spend time with wonderful people ... or even a walk is part of a wonderful day. You just want to have and we have a day and a wonderful life. And whatever the question, love is the answer!
@dimzok (127)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 11
no i dont have experience like you,when i laugh means God is allowing me to do it,and i enjoy it,wont worry about people say