Love each other via Internet

Vietnam
May 12, 2011 1:31am CST
Nowadays, Internet love is more and more popular. Special is in teenage. There are some love is successful with a wedding. However, almost of them are cheating. Girls who love others via Internet have had bad result with many deep psychological wounds. Have you ever heart about an internet love? Do you believe there is a true love via Internet?
16 responses
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
28 May 11
I still believe the old fashioned person to person is more surer and better that this virtual friendship. You really do not get what you see in the internet in real person, you might get a monster????
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
28 May 11
I have heard a lot with this kind of love. And you are right, some really are a success while most fail. I don't know why people can trust anybody online when in fact they don't know the person personally. I don't believe in this kind of relationship. For it is really hard to find someone whom you can trust when you haven't even met in real life.
• Philippines
13 May 11
Yes I have heard of internet love a lot of times. Been there before. I met my boyfriend through the internet and we're still together. True love takes time to nurture, you'll just feel it in time.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Since their means of communicating is through the Internet, mediated communication, there are tendencies that one might be tempted to cheat, however, in our place, many do end up in church. It just depends on how one deals with it and to how the other one responds.
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
13 May 11
I've heard of it but I really can't imagine falling for someone I can't really see. This just seems really odd to me. Of course, I'm married to a wonderful man and wouldn't trade him for anything. Maybe that's the difference. Best Wishes!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 May 11
It all depends on whether at least one is sincere. If both are sincere it will result in true love. At least one is sincere then it may result in marriage and with tolerance the marriage may succeed.
• United States
12 May 11
Relationships when people meet in person are only sometimes successful and there are many instances of heartbreak, manipulation, disloyalty, etc. Meeting online is no different. It's no better and no worse, it's just another way of meeting people. Where or how you meet someone, or even fall in love, has absolutely nothing to do with how the relationship will turn out. People can fall in love online just as easily as you can fall in love anywhere.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
12 May 11
I have known some people who met someone online and some of them worked out really good but some of them did not. Some of them ended up in marriage.
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
12 May 11
Well I have heard of love blooming in the internet but personally I don't think I will find mine that way. I still believe in the old fashioned way i guess.
• United States
12 May 11
I met my husband over the Internet. I had dated him online for 8 months befor I came out and met him in person (I was supposed to stay in Idaho for 2 weeks and it has been 7 years. I dated my husband a year and a half, was engaged a year and a half and have now been married almost 4 years (it will be this August). It was love at first sight for both of us. We were both faithful to each other and still are. I think it is great to find true love.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
12 May 11
hello, Maybe? actually in my opinion it is depends on the partners who is in love through the use of internet, I did not experience it, but I believe that someone out there is truly in love via internet.
• Australia
12 May 11
Hi there, i met my hubby through the internet.We chatted on for a while on Facebook, we pretty much called each other every day and talked for hours. After few months we decided to meet and then our relationship begun. I had never thought online relationships would last until it happened to me. I have known a friend of mine in a relationship with a guy over internet for 2 years and they still haven't met, i am not sure what future holds for her. Where there are few success stories, hundreds of heartbreaking stories prevail too. I have seen it on TV or heard it through friends about some sad internet stories. today's youth is so obsessed with internet, i don't know if they are looking for real love or just some fun!
• Philippines
12 May 11
i myself had found the one who made my life complete in a wapsite. Not totally we should consider that through internet we couldn't find our happines, because as what i've experienced, me and my hubby met in a wapsite, we became friends and later we became lovers, i tried to move to his place and look for job where we can easily have that contact. i love him so much that i have to be far away with my family and be with him. Now we are on our one year in the relationship and no matter what we encountered that test our relationship we overcome it, i trusted him and i love him so much.
• United States
12 May 11
I agree with the cheating and i found the love of my life on the internet. My hubby of 3 years is from the UK and frankly I never thought someone you never met could be faithful. I didn't take him seriously at all and I was right to do so. If a man chats you up on the internet believe me your 1 of at least 10. Not to mention if chatting on the internet is something a man seems to do a lot of, he has damn near no self-confidence. My situation worked out beautifully but I still wouldn't recommend it for anyone. I met my hubby on the internet but never let him into my heart until he moved to the US and we got to know each other off the net... People lie to your face, OF COURSE they lie on the net.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
12 May 11
Yes, there are many of such cases which are all cheats. However, we should not be daunted just because of all these cheats. I believe there still can exist true live on the Internet. But, we need to be really careful about who we are befriending on in the Internet.
• Philippines
12 May 11
hi tkonliven, Love over the net is a risky one it will be successful if they are both honest to each other and able to work things out even it will be a long distance love affairs I know some people who met through net and ended up with happy marriage life And some people who been cheated hurt by the person they trusted We should be careful and don't get too excited with the promises and sweet thoughts they are saying unless they can personally prove it We can find love in many ways we just need to be more wise and careful happy mylotting