Potty Training

Canada
May 16, 2011 10:43am CST
I have a question for all the mothers of a 19 month old boy. I have been trying to potty train my son for the past month or so and he still hasn't given me any indication that he wants to go. I am not consistant due to having a 2 month old in the house so I find it quite hard to stay constant. Is consistancy the only way to train him? Please someone give me some hints or just fill me in on how you potty trained ur little one.
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• United States
16 May 11
They say that boys are harder to train train than little girls. My son is 2 and half and just starting to potty train. He showed a little interest awhile back and we got the potty chair. He would sit on it with his pants on. We just kind of let him tell us when he was ready. He's actually doing really well, too now. They say if you push them, it may actually end up taking longer in the long-run. So that's one of the reasons we let him kind of take the lead. Good luck! I know it's tough. I'm worried my son is going to stop going in the potty and we'll be back to square one. But I do think that consistency is key to training. I'm actually not that grea twith being consistent and need to be better about that.
• Canada
16 May 11
I agree with the consistant stuff and now that I have 2 its even more crazy I find I take my hat off to the people with trips n quads I would definately lose my mind I think. Thats enough to cause a mother to drink lol.... I'm gunna try that letting him lead but as it stands right now he thinks the potty is a toy I try to sing the potty dance song for him and he pees sometimes I just wish kids were as easy to train as animals my cat I only had to show her once n she got it... Why can't kids be like that
• United States
16 May 11
LOL! That's funny! Yes, I wish they would train as quickly as cats and dogs! I am READY for no more diapers. If he's peeing in the potty, I would just keep going with it! That's great! That's so cute you do a potty song and dance! I love it! Good luck as you progress!
• Canada
17 May 11
Thanks hopefully we will be successful soon I'd be happy to get rid of diapers.
• United States
17 May 11
I do not have boys. I did work in a prep day care and I had many boys age 18_24 months. First you are actually starting early especially for a boy. Boys physically aren't ready as early as girls it's just a muscle thing and not one to worry about. If there is no interest by your son let it rest a bit. Offer to go once or twice a day and when interest starts to show gently encourage it. I have had a toddler and a baby in the house at the same time and sister I feel ya. Half the diapers would be nice both on the back and the budget but pushing too hard can actually delay the process. He'll get there and most likely will become interested more around 2 1/2. Good luck and don't take upset with all the ups and downs of potty training. It always happens and it is different with each and every kid.
• Canada
20 May 11
I will definately take your advice into consideration. I definately don't want his training to be delayed at all. I didn't realize I was starting early that info was good to know. Yes, I am sure I've grown quite a few grey hairs n I'm just 2 months in. I tell my family when friday's come around that week 2 is down I have about 1000 more to get through lol
• United States
20 May 11
I am on number 4. She has given me more grey hair in the last 10 months then the other three have in the last collective 12 years. A piece of work to say the least. Write down something everyday. I know it sounds silly but I started this when number three was still in utero and reading back I see that I forgot so many little things that stressed me out at the time but I find so funny now.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
19 May 11
There is no 'perfect' time to potty train a child. Whether it's a boy or a girl. Every child will and do learn at their own pace. My oldest daughter was 3 years 1 month my middle daughter was 3 years 4 months and my youngest is now 22 months old. My youngest has peed a few times on the potty but I myself is not very constant. I let her go to the potty when she mentions it which is about 3 times a day. I'm not too worried about it. I believe in the saying that 'your child will not graduate high school in diapers'. Now if the child is 4-5 years old I'd be talking to a doctor about it because there could be more to it then the child being 'lazy'. If your son is only 19 months old then I wouldnt worry much about it. Let him be the leader and you be the follower. It's what I've always seen that works. Good luck
• Canada
20 May 11
From what I've been reading its like they train themselves eventually. First they show interest and then proceed from there. Well my little guy has not yet shown positive interest in it yet. So hopefully he'll show interest in due time, patience is key in this matter. I'll tell ya I'm gunna be happy when all the potty training is done though for both and which ever more comes along the way. However babies are on hold for now
@tink91879 (742)
• United States
17 May 11
Boys take longer than girls to potty train was the main thing I learned. I became pregnant with my son when my daughter was 2. I worked on potty trainning her while pregnant, but she wasnt to interested so I didnt push the issue. I had my son in september and my daughter turned 3 in December. After we moved back to WA from VA when my son was two weeks old, she decided to use the potty and pretty much trained herself. By the time she was 4 she was fully trainned night and day. My son was a complete opposite. He had no interest in the potty. I was trying everything and I didnt even start with him till he was 3. All the other times I tried he had no interest in it and would just fight. Its better to not push the issue. I was consistent with him, had rewards, he took forever. At home he wore underware. When we went out he wore pull up. At night I wld do pull-ups. I didnt want to do diapers at any time since I thought this would be confusing. He had his own potty and reward chart. Finally he was potty trainned during the day before he was 4. He is 5 now and still has accidents at night so I have him wear a pull-up. Sometimes he dosent have one. We told him when he can stay dry at night for a week than he wont need pull-ups. I dont have my kids drink before bed and I dont let them take dirnks in their rooms. Your son is still young. I dont recomend trying to potty a train until he is over 2. They take longer and they need to show interest. For now I wld give it a break. You also need to be consistent. This cld mean sitting in the bathroom with him for 20 mins or so while hes reading a book on the potty waiting because he thought he had to go, but didnt need to at that time. He will be potty trainned. Put it this way he wont be in kindergarten in a diaper.
• Canada
20 May 11
Well I'm hoping when he starts school he will be completely trained. But this maybe hard if we plan to go to Trinidad where they start school at 2 1/2 yrs old. Im just going to drop the training for now or wait until he shows interest other than wanting to play with it. Thats one less task for me in my huge list of things to do throughout the day. I also have a tough time dealing with the pull ups and poop. That gets quite messy so I've stuck to diapers for the most part.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
17 May 11
oh this is very difficult.I have two boys who are 2 years and two months and I find it very difficult.Every day we try several times to put them in a pot but they cry and do not want.Many people told me that somewhere in hell godniki two and a half they will begin to ask yourself and it will be easy but I do not know. Obviously need patience.I hope soon to succeed both. Have a nice day!
• Canada
20 May 11
Yes I hope your success comes sooner than later myself. Life is so much more hectic with 2 young children than it was with 1 I find. I just wanted it to be a little easier for me by having one changed but it may actually be easier when my 2 month old is a bit bigger and doesn't need me to carry him around all over. I'm also hoping my youngest will pick up on things earlier because of his brother. Wishful thinking I hope.
@katieh (151)
17 May 11
He's very young to be potty trained. I would just wait a few months. If you wait until he's ready, it'll take a few days and that will be it. Why spend months making your life difficult?
• Canada
20 May 11
True, Very true. Which is why I will do as suggested and give it a rest for a bit at least until hes more interested in it. There is plenty of time I guess. The first time I tried he it was quite funny dancing around with his aunts singing the potty dance song needless to say he did pee but the look on his face was like what are these girls doing.
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
17 May 11
There is no time frame within which they need to learn. Just give him time, he would learn slowly. My son started when he was two, i too had started training him when he was your sons age. So, don't worry he will pick up tihings with time. Different children have different inclination to learn things at different age, your son might be intrested in learning some thing other than potty training!!
• Canada
20 May 11
Yes he is quite interested in everything other than training it seems. He's really intelligent just no interest in the potty at all. Frist I had a Winnie the Pooh potty that flushes and everything (Well makes the flushing noise) he just wants to play with it. He hated sitting on it as well, I then got a nuby one and he's peed in it once but I guess once is better than none. I'm hoping he'll get it in time :)
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
16 May 11
my son's 20 months old, and im still potty training him till now. i just started a few weeks ago, though. but, im not the one who started the teaching, it him. he started pointing to the potty trainer and that's only when i started doing serious training. im glad he's showing interest with his potty training, hope he can perfect it soon. :)
• Canada
16 May 11
Good luck hopefully my little guy will do that oneday instead of playing with it :)
@ruks710 (10)
• India
16 May 11
Have patience he ll automatically learn it. Its just that you ve to wait. Its hard for the babies to adjust to some thing new. My son learned it about 4 months ago. He is 2.6 years old.
• Canada
16 May 11
Thank you that makes me feel a bit better... I guess my life would be easier if he learned but I guess as a mom I should enjoy it cause once he learns I wont have those memories of him peein on me while changin him or when you go to get the diaper n you look and there is pee everywhere lol