I wish to be with you,but friend/s won't be happy to see us together :(

You see in friendship or any kind of relationship, there should not be any 'conditions' or 'tags' attached to it. One cannot get tied to only 'one' friend, there could be many other friends in his/her life.

Hi sweetie. I won't let friends dictate my life. If i love, no one will stand in my way, no matter what. But if the person i love, let his friends dictate and rule he's life, then he doesn't really love me, does he? We cannot let others rule our lives. Anyone and everyone have the right to be happy, friends or not.

as an independent soul, i've been making decisions for most of my life and i learned at a very young age to be responsible for every choice i made in life. i may not have made the best ones, but i learned and i have no regrets. being with someone is my choice. for so many years now, my family and friends know that i would appreciate all their opinions and advises but at the end of the day, they will respect whatever choice i have made. for they all trust me enough to make the right decisions if not the best. when i love a person, perhaps it would be excessive (? -- can't find the right word -- lol) to say this but i love with everything in me. whether it be a friend or a partner, it's the same thing. (except on food and where to eat) i can't be easily swayed when making decisions. i'm a loyal friend and partner, that i can trust myself to be. if i want to be with a person, i would. n[i]ow... no wedding bells okay? lol it's a very nice song. it's deep. it's simple. [/i]

hi jaiho, If they are really true friends they must be happy for their friends My ex never ask me to leave my friends just for him because he knows how much I love my friends. Like me if you really want that Gorilla I can't do anything about it because I want you to be happy

You need to live your life the way you see fit or the way you want and not let others run your life. True friends would be happy for you if the person your with is making you happy. You need to live your life your way and others need to but out and live their lives their way.

awwww.. that's really a hard situation.. huhuhu.. reminds me of........never mind! =( it hurts a lot, knowing that you can't even talk to that "someone".. ='(

I have never nor will I never stop seeing a person I like because my friends don't like him.If he treats me right , then I will be with him. What I Will do is never try to see both at the same time. So one day or night I will be out with friends and then the next with him. If either don't like this arrangement, then they can stop seeing me.

I feel like i am in a very similar situation to what you describe, I was in a very abusive relationship that was going nowhere for a long time, i also through this relationship made a great friendship with a nice guy who hated the way i was treated and accused of cheating when i was being faithful and still being beaten. This relationship is now over and by chance or luck this friend has presented back in my life through other people, hes been treated badly and been hurt and knows that i have been too but i think a relationship with him although we would both look after each other in the ways our exs hurt us would appear as if there was a affair the whole time, and would cause friction between my exs friends and himself so i dont think anything would come of it, but it is nice to know there is someone who loves me for who i am without changing a thing circumstances just prevent it from being a reality, for now its just a dream and that is how it will stay for me, because i couldn't handle the drama of having my ex back into my life and everything that cost me physically, emotionally and financially.

Hi didi.. say i love a girl and she has same feelings towards me, then no sacrifice... if she has same feelings to the the one too, then i will. every relationship is a one time commitment not a whole life... whatever you do once is full and final. Its just my view may not be same with others. have a nice day.

Hello Sis Jaiho, I think True LOve is what supposed to conquer the two and NOT OTHER People. I'd crush my own friends if i find them interfering with my affairs, most specially when it comes to a love one.of course, I usually tend to listen but my HEART & Brain makes the final say, so friends only give points based ontheir experiences. but you know, it's the both of you that needs to decide. if they are against it, then they are not real friends. Having some one you loved, and fighting for that person actually happens once in a life time. something that won't happen again. so GO FOR IT!

Hi jaiho: I think I won't left a friend or a relationship just because someone don't want to be with this person. I just do it if there's a real important reason that shows me that is better that we stop being friends or love each other. For example, I won't date a married person or I won't have a love relationship with a friend's girlfriend. Another example, if being with this person is making him/her feels worst or if my friends show me how this person is not a good influence for me, I'll probably follow their advice. But there must be a big reason to not follow what my heart dictates me. ALVARO

Jai beta This discussion of yours is nothing, but ventilation of feelings, i am sure you felt little better, this world is full of selfish persons, who get kind of sadastic pleasure in paining others.. So try to be good to others, never expect any thing in return, this is my philosophy. Am i diverting from the topic? And remember always, as you sow, so you reap.. Thanks for sharing Dada is always with you. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

Hello friend! Oh,how i love that song! Well,friendship for me is different from my love affair. Love for me is deeper than friendship. But yes,I'm willing to sacrifice for it for her/him happiness. They say if you love somebody,let them go. In the case you've said,I will let go of my friendship only if my friend tells me so. But if he/she doesn't want me to leave so why should I? I will sttill hold on if my friend wants me to hold on.

Jai beti Whether it is love, or friendship, there should be no 'conditions' tagged to it. At times i feel happy to read your discussions and some make me sad, don't know why? Will ask Dada, about it. Thank you so much for sharing the link Blessings from Maa ^Kalyani^

hi jaiho if someone loves you really loves you he will not make you suffer like that at all. You do not have to sacrifice a love because a friend does not like it. a real friend will never ask that of you never. like saphy says thats not right not at all. go to your love and enjoy being in love.I like that song but I know that a true friend will b e happy for you no matter what he or she might feel about your love,he or she will be on your side. trust me., always .

Hello friend! Oh,how i love that song! Well,friendship for me is different from my love affair. Love for me is deeper than friendship. But yes,I'm willing to sacrifice for it for her/him happiness. They say if you love somebody,let them go. In the case you've said,I will let go of my friendship only if my friend tells me so. But if he/she doesn't want me to leave so why should I? I will sttill hold on if my friend wants me to hold on.

Hmm, some people just really want to see you okay for the sake of what they think the best for you. You may consider their opinion worthy if you want to that is a matter of personal choice. However, if they are starting to step onto your toes well think again. Because in the end it is you will take the consequences of choosing which side of the coin you're up for. Well I hope it make sense at all. Being happy is a matter of personal choice, whatever your decision may be, you only need to consider one thing, do you have the guts to take every damage it could bring? Are you really serious with what you are doing? Well if you're answer to a particular choice is a definite yes, then there is no use of asking those questions. You already up for a decision. First of all, those friends are only there to give you pieces of advice, but in the end what matters most is what you think will be beneficial for you. Think about it, you are not born to make them happy at the cost of your own hapiness.

i liked what you posted... o.o it's a bit irritating that some people would really interfere with you. like, why make you choose? but anyway, sacrifices are bound to the person after all... it's his/her decision and it's only worth it if it works out otherwise regret's bound to rise up. ugh. weird how complicated people is.

Yes. I've sacrificed the most of my friendships for a girl. And at the end when all my friends left me alone and I sincerely didn't care, I realised I've did a very stupid thing cause the girl for who I sacrificed all my friend cheated on me. But.. There were situations when I sacrificed a relationship for my friend. Stupid move too.. I don't know.. This is destiny

no, because I think friendship will last longer than relationship. there must be a reason why my friend does not like the guy. whether the guy is not good enough for me but if my mom and dad like him and friend does like him. I will choose him. It depend on the situation.