my father-in-law had a heart attack

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
June 3, 2011 6:02pm CST
Last night, I got the news that my father-in-law had a heart attack and admitted to the hospital. I saw my husband's face is very sad. I want to entertain, but I do not know what I should do. My husband was very sad, and I do not dare talk to my husband. This morning, my husband went to visit his father. My husband asked me to stay home, because on Monday my child take the test class increases. But, on Sunday, me and my parents, plan to visit my father-in-law.
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jak2010
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
4 Jun 11
Hi, my It is sad to hear about your husband's family. Is this the same man who found a new lover who mentioned in your earlier post? Why does come to you forcing your to do be your mother? I know there is a person sick in the fmaily, bu there must be some kind of respect for you. You do not necessaily need to go and visit your father inlaw.
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 11
Indeed, my husband often makes me sad, because it has another woman. But, he is my husband. His father was also my father. So, I also feel worried, and will soon be visiting my father-in-law.
jak2010
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
4 Jun 11
You are right, your relationship with your father inlaw should be determined by your husband's fedility. You are making a right descison. I pray that you will be strong in this trying time.
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stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
3 Jun 11
I will say a prayer for your Father-in-Law. I will also pray for your husband and the entire family as everyone is stressed when something unfortunate like this happens. God Bless you all and watch over you. I hope your Father-in-Law makes a complete and speedy recovery. Take special care of yourself and your husband during this time too.
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 11
Thank you for your prayers. I hope my father-in-law, can return healthy, and be back home in a healthy condition.
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
4 Jun 11
You are welcome and I too hope he will be home soon.
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carmelanirel
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
3 Jun 11
Oh no, I pray your father-in-law is okay.
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 11
Thank you for your prayers. I really hope my father-in-law to immediately recover.
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carmelanirel
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
3 Jun 11
You're welcome..
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bellis716
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
4 Jun 11
You did right to listen to your husband's wishes. Do not try to entertain your husband. Just be there for him. Listen if he wants to talk, and, perhaps, hold his hand. It is nice that your parents will also visit your father-in-law at the hospital.
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hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Jun 11
Hi indahfth I am sorry to hear that your father-in-law had a heart attack and I am sorry to hear that your husband would not allow you to visit today. All you can do indahfth is pray for him to be well. This way although you are not there your prayers will be heard. I hope by Sunday he is better and your visit is a pleasant cheerful one for him. Keep praying so he recovers soon.
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 11
Of course I will always pray. I really hope my father-in-law to immediately recover.
LadyKrishna
@LadyKrishna (46)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
I think the best thing to do is to let your husband be sad about what happened. I don't you can entertain him at this kind of trying times. Let him deal with the shock of his father's heart attack. You can only stay with him and be sad with him. Maybe you can ease your husband's worry and pain by letting him know that you're there with him and that you love him. I pray for your father-in-law's fast recovery.
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mansha
@mansha (6298)
• India
4 Jun 11
You are an amazing woman and so forgiving and loving too. I read your posts and admire your values. Though you tread on a hard path , still you keep your head high. If God listens it will certainly listen to you. I am sure your father in law will come out of the ordeal hale and hearty and someday your husband too will realize the sacrifice you make for him each day. May God Bless you with his kindness.
margerydaw14
@margerydaw14 (735)
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4 Jun 11
very sorry, to hear about your father in law. perhaps better to cancel entertaining until you hear how he is. hope he gets better soon.
celticeagle
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Jun 11
I am so sorry to hear that your father-in-law has had a heart attack. Your husband must be very sad. I would just be there for him and make it as easy as you can. About all you can do in such situations. Sounds like you have a visit planned. Glad he made it okay. Good luck to your child and the test.
celticeagle
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Jun 11
Well, I hope he is back in good health soon.
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 11
Thank you. I've visited my in- laws on Sunday yesterday, conditions have improved. The plan, today will be out of ICU, and moved into the treatment room. I would visit my father-in-law, tomorrow Saturday.
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shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
5 Jun 11
hi friend... Hope he is fine now as its sunday... and you have visited hospital. Sometimes its too hard to console someone who suffers from same. Everything will be fine.
Ladyslipper
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
Hi Indahfth! It's been a long time since I last visited Mylot. I just read your post now. I do hope your father-in-law is now doing fine. :)
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 11
My father-in-law is now healthy. But, we still have to pay attention to his health.
EdnaReyes
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
I want to share my prayers with your father in law and may God bless him and makes him recover soon. You are a good wife who are concern about your husband's family and willing to respond and share your help for them. May God bless you for that!
asliah
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
hi, so sad to hear that,thats why i am also afraid because heart attack will come without knowing that it will attack a person,that's why i always told them to do exercise and do diet their self so that they can avoid this heart attack.hope that your father-in-law get well soon.
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Yeah, visiting your father in law sounds a good idea, it shows that you care for him. About your husband, just try to be so patience and caring with him try to entertain his needs and ask him hows his dad.
tigeraunt
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
hi indahfth, you dont have to entertain him. just say you will go to the mosque to offer prayers for your father in law's fast recovery. ann
rmnrmn
@rmnrmn (688)
• India
4 Jun 11
Its very sad situation. Yes your husband is sad which is natural reaction. Heart attack is very dangerous. My father passed away by heart attack :-( I pray that your father in law get well soon.