What one question would you like to ask an ex-gf / ex-bf?

Philippines
June 12, 2011 10:25pm CST
I think I would ask if he still loved me? because i feel we sill have unfinished business. We part ways suddenly without really a valid reasons just the feeling love is gone. Not he reason we find some replacement or he did something wrong we just fall out of love. so i think their is really no final closure or formal talk that happen between us. So every time i see him, I still feel some spark. i still have to know..How about you?
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• United States
13 Jun 11
I have nothing I would like to ask an ex. They're an ex for a reason and there isn't a reason to dwell in the past when I have the present and the future.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 11
yes they are an ex because some things goes wrong and misunderstanding ensues. though we could have control or at least changes the outcome if two person are willing to do so. but when the ending is so bad then it is nothing to regret for.and the future is more important since it is the one where we are busy at the moment..
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@samrie29 (112)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
I also prefer not to talk to him since I'm very happy with my present relationship. Questions like if he still loves me is a sign that I haven't moved on. If really given the chance that I bumped into him and had the opportunity to talk, I would just probably ask him on how he is and that's it. I look at my ex as an old friend now and nothing more. We really shouldn't dwell in the past.
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@williamjisir (22903)
• China
11 Sep 12
If I should ask my ex-gf, I would ask how she has been doing after all these years ever since we parted. It was more than two decades. She chose to leave me though I loved her so much. But now that kind of love is gone for good. I have now my own family and love my own and am loyal to my family. No more spark will ever happen to me. I am happy with my family. And I also wish her to live her life to the full. So if we should have a chance to meet each other, I would ask her how she is doing with her family. Thanks for the discussion.
• Belgium
16 Jun 11
I do not think that I will like to meet my ex or ask her any questions. As far as I understand any talks with your ex regarding the relationship that you had will lead to bitter thoughts. Because most of the time one out of the two will still have feelings and such talks will only make that person feel worse. I remember a particular thought from Harry Potter which his professor had told him in the movie. He had said "it is not good to dwell on past memories. They neither give knowledge nor the truth." So in this case also best is not to think about past relationships and move ahead in life.
@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
I would ask my recent ex boyfriend this question "After being with me for 4 years, are you happier now?" If the answer is yes then I would be happy for you. If the answer is no then I feel sad for you. I may still have feelings for him but that doesn't mean I want to get back together.
@GemmaR (8526)
16 Jun 11
There is one guy who I was hung up over for four years, and he led me to believe that there might be a chance for him and me to be together one day. This never happened, and I would like to be the one to ask him what makes him think he had the right to treat me in the way that he did. He completely led me on over that time, and I wasted a lot of my life worrying over him and also lost close friends because of him and because of the way that he made me feel about myself. There is no way that anybody should be allowed to do that to other people because it honestly does ruin lives and make things difficult to people.
@tonanana (91)
• China
15 Jun 11
I want to ask him: if you meet me in the right place and at the right time, would you still love me? and hold on to the end this time.... never let me go?? but I think it's of no use already.... I just wanna pass this deep feeling to him: although you are not handsome,smart or wealthy, you'll still be the one that I wanna love, again and forever.
@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
15 Jun 11
I guess i don't really have a question i would like to ask my ex. But if my current situation would break up I would be interested in knowing if his life is better or worse without me. I think I would be curious about that. I think sometimes we think our life may be better if our life were different. So i would just wonder and ask after time if things for him are better or worse.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
15 Jun 11
I would ask them what I did so wrong for them to leave me for another person and also cheat on me. I would also ask one of them why he liked to cheat on me and hit me and treat me like dirt when I treated him nothing but good and loved him.
@pujiao (39)
• China
15 Jun 11
If I meet my ex-bf, I love to ask him" have you find the girl your mom like?" there is an old chinese saying"?????????"
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
I never had relationship, but I guess what I will ask is, What are the things that make him remember me? What are the things that will reminded him of me? Because I know that even I am his past, there are things that will be reminded me of him. I want to know that. In that way I know, in some way, he still remember me. But of course, I will not give in to the feeling. I know i will feel happy and hopefully those things are worth remembering.
@nezavisima (7417)
• Bulgaria
13 Jun 11
Apparently there was love.I'm with bivshit my good friends talk to him about different things.But I can tell you that you should avoid itfor so you can again fall in love and suffer.So be careful friend. nice day!