Mixed signals

United States
June 19, 2011 4:30pm CST
So i have been friends with this guy for 3 summers now. Last summer we tried dating but he ended up breaking my heart and left me for his ex. This summer we were having fun just as friends and now its like he doesn't have time for me anymore. the first summer we met, we were together all the time. im so torn and confused on if i should just move on or wait because i really love him. I have never felt so comfortable and happy in my life and i don't want to let that go, also we got cats together and he keeps them at his place so im just so lost and confused. please please please help me :(
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
This is the reason why you've been failing in your schooling. You're not focused enough. Anyway, for the topic, I think you should not put yourself in a situation where you will just wait for the scraps of love another living being will give you. You are not a cat nor a dog or a pet, who, when the owner doesn't feel like taking care of will wait. You are a human being, capable of loving and even more. I suggest you let go of this 'relationship' full of infatuations. Get rid of the excess baggage and remind yourself that he's just not into you. If he's into you, he wouldn't hesitate to tell you. Do not wait. Live your life. Stop thinking about 'I have never felt so comfortable and happy in my life and I don't want to let go' it's all in the past. You will never feel something better than that if you don't allow yourself to feel it for someone else. The more time you spend waiting for this guy, the more time you've wasted instead of finding someone that would treat you and enjoy your company the way you feel it for him. Obviously, the guy is just not that into you. You should watch "He's not into you" movie, there's a lot of truth in that movie. Hurry before you waste all your time daydreaming about someone who's not thinking of you at all! Have a great MyLot experience today!