What to do.. ? I really love him

Philippines
June 19, 2011 8:40pm CST
Here's the story... I have this co-worker of mine who trained us when I just got hire in the company.. We had a 1 week training.. so I spent time with him for a week... During the training, I just felt a sparkling feelings towards him..and starting to miss him every night. The problem is, We just finished the training and we are no longer in the same department and I barely see him now... I sometimes see him during snacks time and off time... I watch him from far and sometimes he just look at me... and now, I just heard that he decided to resign... I was like, "I'm just here for 2 weeks and He's leaving?" I don't know what to do... Am I just keeping this feelings until it'll gone? I can't tell him what I feel... Any idea?
9 responses
@febrigas (362)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 11
I have some Tips approaching the guy, this comes from my Female Friends. These tips are specifically for GIRLS, But these are the tips for singles. I mean really singles, not for cheating :D - Always smile and do not be arrogant when interacting with him, but keep naturally. - Good cook is a common feature of why men easily enamored with women. Occasionally, try to give your real cuisine if the time is right. - Character and attarctive appereance - Honest and Humble - Do what he likes and do not do what he does not like. - The men generally like women who like to be candid without hiding anything. - Having good behaviour and motherhood - Wise to adjust the situation. - Do not be too curb. - When interacting with them do not forget to use body language you know like the eyes and hands. Hands, if there is already a signal. - And most certainly be yourself. because true love is always received with sincerity who you are. sorry if there is anything wrong with my words, i just want to share, and really do not intend to teach. well, Good luck with your love :D
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
That's a long lists you got there febrifas.. thanks for the tips.. I'm not bragging but, I think I have it all... =)
@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Funny thing girl, i think it's just an infatuation. Just let it go.Soon you'll forget about him. Just how fast you fall for him. :)
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• Philippines
21 Jun 11
maybe you're right... Well, let's see what happend.. I'll keep you posted.. if you don't mind..=)
• United States
20 Jun 11
I think that during your snack and off times that you do see him maybe you should try and tell him how you feel. Perhaps he is a shy type person and is afraid to tell you too. Worse case scenario is that he will probably be flattered and uninterested but at least you know you can move on then. The not knowing will have you wondering for a long time and if he does meet someone else you may feel hurt. It will not be easy to do so, but simply be yourself and speak as friendly as possible and let the moment flow on it's own. I probably would have a hard time too, but what if he feels like you and is also too afraid. You can simply say, I really like that we can hang out like this and see what he responds back. Best of luck, will cross my fingers for you and I do hope he feels the same as you.
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• Philippines
21 Jun 11
haha thanks! I didn't approach him but he smiled at me today, at his snack place.. He's always drinking coffee...and well, he's a smoker... but who cares! heheh I only have 30 days to see him... I should be ready within 30 days.. =) Thanks hardworkinggurl!!
@karagala (447)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
I'm not sure if it's love. You barely know him and you say that it's love. It's just attraction. I think it's just infatuation, but if you want to be sure don't worry. It will prove to be love if it finds you as the saying goes "Love will find a way." and if it doesn't find you, there are always lots of boys around. When you finally get to know/meet another guy, that feeling will soon fade. Don't let your situation get into your skin either, that will only waste your time. Time is gold. Invest your gold on worthwhile things. Don't worry about love, it will find you.
• China
20 Jun 11
Torturing regrets is the most awful thing durinf our live. Do not wander, Do not hesitate. If you love him, just tell him.
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• United States
20 Jun 11
You should let him know how you feel, especially since he's leaving soon. The worst that could happen is that he doesn't feel the same way. But at least you would know that rather than sitting around not knowing what he truly feels. Try and talk to him and maybe see if you can go out for coffee or have lunch together. From there, things could grow into something more. You won't ever know until you try though. Don't let potential love slip through your fingers. Take a risk and who knows? you might not be disappointed by it.
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@willingk (27)
• China
21 Jun 11
i have the same problem
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Hello willingk, Welcome to my club! haha
@Hatley (130379)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jun 11
hi ordinary girl go for it maybe hes the one that you are supposed to meet. talk to him,tell him how you feel as what have you to lose as you do not have him yet but talking to him might show the also likes you. what can it hurt as all that can happen is either he is interested in you or he is not but he will be flattered in any case. so go for it and you might vbe pleasantly surprised .but if he is not interested you will know you did not have anything to lose that way. good l uck and God
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Helo Hatley, That's the problem, I'm too shy to confront my feelings to him... but, Im lucky today because he smiled at me.... haha He's very cute when he wears his black jacket...
@willingk (27)
• China
21 Jun 11
i can understand you