What will you feel if you see your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend again?

Shocked! - My feelings/reaction
Philippines
July 12, 2011 9:55pm CST
Hi friends and mylotters! Had a dream before and I dreamt about my ex-boyfriend who happens to be my first love. In my dream,I saw him passing by and he saw me and I was shocked when he said hi to me,oh my! My heart beats fast and I don't know what to say at once and I just smiled. I wonder if it will also be my reaction when I see him again,oh my,lol! Have you experienced this? What was your reaction? What did you feel? If not,what do you think would you feel if you see him/her again?
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23 responses
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi sis!For me, that would be exciting. My first boyfriend and I has the same province and he was also connected to my cousin because her husband is my ex-boyfriends' best friend. I used to get some information regarding him because of my cousins also. I'll be happy to know if he's doing okay and happily married like me. He's a nice guy after all. Maybe, we are not just meant for each other.
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi sis! Haha,yeah,sounds exciting on your part! Small world,lol! Well,my ex is a friend of my hubby before,yay! But hubby knows very much about him. I feel you will be so happy to see your ex again,just like old times! See yah sis! Hey,you've already reached 500 posts! You can now do the copy pasting friend! Happy for you!
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Explain further,sis.Where will I use that? Thanks so much in advance for guiding me to use mylot.
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi sis! If you are having problems with your net and in mylot like for example when you submittedc a comment and network error has been posted,you then have to repeat and re-type again your comments but now that you are already entitled to copy pasting,you just copy first your comment and when there is error with the net submitting it,you don't have to retype it again,just paste it and then submit. Hope I explained it to you well sis,hehe! Just let me know if it's not clear toc you. See yah sis!
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@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
I never had a dream about my ex. But i saw him last and I ain't shock at all just NOTHING! He tried to talk to me or make jokes and i ignored him. He keeps on smiling at me and i feel really irritated. Well, he deserve it. :)
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi nurseclare! Sounds like you did not love him that much before,lol! I feel he loved you that much,haha! Your reaction was cool! Wish I will feel the same when I see my ex,hehe! See yah!
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• Philippines
19 Jul 11
We don't love each other at all! hahahaha of course it's cool..Try it. lol
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• Philippines
19 Jul 11
Hehe,can't try it now nurseclare,I'm already married,hehe!
@Bannybanzie (1398)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Well.. I don't know. Never had a boyfriend.. honestly.. But for you, I think you would react just the same as you had in your dream.. or maybe the complete opposite. I noticed that commonly, my dreams really reflect what I would do in different situations. So maybe the same for you.. Or, you might act completely the opposite.. What I can tell you though is if this happens, just smile at him and wave your hand and say "Hi, nice to see you".. Don't be tensed..
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi Banny! Is it okay if I just call you by that name? Haha,I don't know really what and how I would react if ever I see him again! Don't know if I will be tensed,lol! But if so,don't even know if I would be able to control my "tense emote",lol! He was so special to me Banny,he broke my heart and this man is really unforgettable,you know..first love! In time you will understand what I am saying when you will have a bf,hehe!
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi! That'd be fine if you call me Banny.. Anyways, first love is like most people's problem.. LOL.. but when you see him, take a deep breath and try to enjoy the moment..
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi Banny! Haha,I might take a deep breath friend,I just hope he wont see me doing that,lol!
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• United States
13 Jul 11
Hi my dear sweet friend. If I had a dream with my ex it would be an utter nightmare. Seriously I would not be here typing happily I would be in despair. I did not have a happy ending so to dream of him would be an absolute bad one. For you, how sweet it sounded to have dreamed about your ex. Sounds like the ending between of you was a mutual one.
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• United States
13 Jul 11
Sometimes people grow out of love and decide to remain friends. Sometimes while young people move out to different areas and not close enough anymore. There could be lots of reasons when one is young and if the test of time, does not bring them back together then it was just not meant to be.
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hello my dear dear friend! Hehe,you somehow made me laughed my friend when you said that it'll be a nightmare when you dream of him. I don't know the whole story of your ex my dear friend but I could sense it didn't work out well between the two of you and ended up not well too. Honestly my friend,we didn't had a good end as well. I should be angry at him 'cause he broke my heart and had given me so much pain but I don't know,he's really special to me. Maybe the reason why I'm not angry at him anymore is because I'm happy with my hubby now. If he(ex) didn't leave me,I wouldn't be able to give my hubby a chance to love me,lol! I'm fortunate we(my ex) did not get along. @bharat...sometimes two persons are better off as friends rather than lovers.
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@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
15 Jul 11
I don't have feelings for them anymore but it would be nice to have a good talk about how things have been that's about it for me
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• Philippines
15 Jul 11
Hi Littlemel! It's really a nice feeling to have a nice talk with our exes,just the normal talk. Anyways,there is something that went special with both parties before,may it be bad or good.
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• India
13 Jul 11
i was goin to buy myself a memory card when i saw my ex gf.. She was ignorin me i guess but i went and greeted her.. She was wid one of her guy friends who joined us in the next 2 mins.. So i asked them both for a coffee, to which she refused, so i left. About 15 mins later she called me up and asked me for a coffee, to which i refused.. Hehaha.. :)
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Haha,so you call it quits,lol! I think the reason why she refused to have a coffee with you is because she has a friend with him. Maybe she just wanted it to be just the two of you. By the way,welcome here!
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
it was funny I experienced this when my first ex-boyfriend added me on other site and talk to me on cam. As if I didn't feel anything when I started to talk to him. Maybe because its been a long time sinced we haven't seen each other (6 years) and we didn't broke up personally before. He has his own family now. Its a matter of moving on. You will feel discomfort to talk to him/her if you still have a feelings to him/her.
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi simplyphen! Welcome here! Wow,it must have been fun and exciting talking to your ex after 6 years! I wish I could also do that but on the second thought,better not,lol! My husband might get jealous,haha! I'm happy with my hubby now simplyphen and I know I love him that much. My ex is just a special person I will never forget 'cause he's my first everything,hubby knows it. I just wonder what would I feel seeing him again after 20 years,haha! It even made me wonder why I dreamt of him and that was my reaction upon seeing him,hehe! See yah and happy mylotting!
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
I just saw her earlier when I was strolling with my girlfriend. There are still feelings, of course, but it's not that strong anymore. Although I didn't tell my girlfriend that just to avoid further discussion that could lead to possible argument.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Hi frontvisions! Oh definitely it would cause you some trouble if you tell it to your present girlfriend especially if she is a jealous person. Honestly,I have this thing with the ex of my husband 'cause his ex are still asking about him,she is a friend of mine but not close and it somehow irritates me when she asks about my hubby,hehe! I am not telling that to my husband,haha! I believe most girls are somewhat jealous of the exes of their partner so be careful with your gf's heart okay!
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Actually, I've learned from that before. Discussions about exes just start arguments that sometimes last about a week or so. Those discussions are bad for the health.
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• Philippines
15 Jul 11
Haha,yeah,agree with you,it's really bad for the relationship and health,hehe!
@beingwell (3627)
• Thailand
26 Jul 11
Hi mtr! I had an awkward experience similar to this with my ex. I didn't know how to react when he greeted me. I just smiled, nod my head and walked pass him as if I'm running late for a meeting. Oh boy! That didn't go well! Arggh!hahahahah
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• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Hi friend! HAha,that reaction of yours might be my reaction too,haha! Well,that's your first instinct so don't blame yoursel,lol! Were you a bit nervous that's why you left at once?
@beingwell (3627)
• Thailand
26 Jul 11
Well, I didn't know what to feel right there and then, mtr. It was really an unexpected event. Plus, I didn't wanted to see him because he was a jerk!harhar! And another thing was that I came from an hour and a half travel time by bus. I'm sure I didn't look and feel good that time.
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• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Haha,so that explains the rushing,the looks,haha!
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
hi mtr, Well after the break up I always see my ex he wants to come back and fix things up but I don't have feelings anymore until today we still see each other if he is about to visit his relatives which happened to be my cousin (his sister in law) it's just nothing for me really I just smile at him but I can see the regrets on his face . I will save some for later meet up See you very very very very soon.......... happy mylotting
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Hi friend! Waaaa!!! We did not meet,huhu! Anyways,we can still see each other some other day! Hmmm..this ex of yours must have loved you so much bhaby and I can feel it's until now,hehe! I wonder why you don't have feelings with him anymore,lol!
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
sorry again for what happened too bad I don't feel anything for him right now I just loved him once forgave him and that's enough he let the chance to pass by to be my better half glad he did
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• Philippines
16 Jul 11
Haha,you are not meant to be my friend,hehe! Don't worry,we can still set-up another date,maybe next thursday again,hehe!
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
hello cutie, Uhmnn,I can't relate to this one (hehehe) But if given the chance to see my ex again (which definitely i will since he visits his kids -hehehee) i will greet him the usual "oh hi..hello,how are you " Not Nicolas Cage,we don't have a formal break-up when we parted ways
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi friend! I guess I'll just have to react tomorrow on what you've said when we meet as I don't know the whole story,hehe! Haha,so you love Nic Cage! Well,my ex is Keannu Reeves and we didn't have a formal break either,haha!
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
hi, it will depend upon the situation on how you separate to each other if good or bad,for me when i see my ex lover of course i will remember the past we had,but i will not blame that person for sure because that is a past,sometimes my reaction is shock but calm.
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• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Hi friend! Well,at least you will be cool,lol! As for me,I really don't know if I will behave,haha!
@Lxandra79 (1536)
• United States
26 Jul 11
I have to see my baby daddy (ex-boyfriend) every 6 months in court because he doesn't pay the child support. I cant stand him! Im actually scared of that mofo :/
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• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Oh,sorry to hear about that Lxandra. Sometimes when there is anger,as much as possible you really don't want to see your ex again,can't blame you,hehe!
@KrauseHome (35293)
• United States
20 Jul 11
Personally I am married, and been Happily married now for over 12 yrs. So even if I was to see any of them and they did recognize me, it would be no big deal. I just hope they would not feel too jealous knowing I continue to have something that is lasting and want to wish me the Best.
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• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Hi there! I wish I will feel cool as yours when I meet my ex,hehe! It's just weird that in my drems,I felt that,hope it's the opposite! I am also happily married now but it's just in him wherein I felt nervous before when I saw him before my marriage.
@rameshchow (5284)
• India
14 Jul 11
I have no girl friend, but i am observing my friends, that they have ex- girl friends. Their girl friends were married and having one two children also. Actually we thought that after marriage they live happily, but the situation is different.. They are suffering with family problems...
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• Philippines
15 Jul 11
Hi ramesh! Oh my,that's sad to hear. They've chosen the wrong partner for their lives,hope they can be happy again.
@shibham (17025)
• India
14 Jul 11
Hi amiga... Oh Neither i have ex girlfriend nor current.... hence this problem never arises in my life. Hurraahhhhhhhhhhhhhh............... Have a nice day.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Haha,hi amigo! Yeah you're right,you have no problems about these things,lol! But you always leave a lady hanging eh! haha!
@waflay (2726)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Jul 11
Never have I been in such a situation because, none of my ex girlfriend in my enemy- we part ways in peace, no strings attached. In this way of infinity separation, yes! there maybe some feelings left, but a heart is easily cheated into accepting the situation, its more easier to let go this way than to spill out your anger as your heart fail to accept the whole issue. I know it can sound rather abnormal, but remember 'anger kills but never carries the out come'. What I'm saying is, all my exes are now my friends even though my heart has nothing left for them.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Hi waflay! I love your avatar! My kids love kung-fu panda,lol! You said even though my heart has nothing left for them..can you explain it further?
@maezee (32553)
• United States
13 Jul 11
It really depends on how the relationship went and more importantly how it ended! The latest ex I can speakk of...things did not end the greatest. So if I did see him again I'm not sure how I would act. I'd probably try to hide before I saw him. Luckily I have not run into him at all since we split over a year ago! We must run in different circles lol. I know a lot of girls though who have remained good friends with exes, nothing awkward about it. I should ask them what their secret is. Lol
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• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Hi maezee! Haha,I think I will not run if ever I see my ex,lol! But who knows,I might do the same,yay! Haha! You are right about it depends upon how the relationship ended,some are just cool about meeting up again but some are not and I am included in the "not side",lol! Anyways,I don't know if I'm really going to see him again 'cause last time I heard about him is he's already out of the country. SEe yah!
@Sreekala (23379)
• India
13 Jul 11
Hi sweety, I won’t be in such a situation because I don’t’ have an ex. If you have an ex then there is chance to meet him/her anywhere. But why you felt uneasy dear in case you meet him?
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• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi my friend! You don't have an ex?! Wow,so if you're married,your hubby is first of everything! I don't know Sree,maybe the reason why I will feel uneasy in case I meet him is because he's the only man who I felt nervous whenever I see him,lol! What I mean is,my heart beats fast before when I see him so I'm not sure if I will still feel the same even if I'm happy now with my family,haha!
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
For me I feel like I'm young to see him and little bit heart beat but not to the point to love again because I been married and he not interest me at all since then i would be wonder that's life.
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi ebuscat! Oh I also don't intend to love him again,never! I love my husband so much,more than that I felt towards my ex before. I just don't know how and what will I feel if I see my ex again,haha!