what is she thinking?

Hi Wongchoiyee, I feel your friend still have developed a trust bonded friendship with you. She seems to confused or worried about her financial status as well. So go and visit US and if she really invites you more than twice then take up. This usually happens in long distance friendship.

Did you ask for her address more than one time?? I think, to be sure, you need to ask for her address again. Hopefully it was just an oversight?? Good luck.

You are very naive. This person is not a real friend at all. You have fi9nancial difficulties and health problems and you want to meet a married lady in the States? She is clearly making fun of you. Forget this person.

It's hard to think what other people are thinking. However, the internet has been known to give people a faulse sense of security. It is not intentional, but it does and can happen. When online we can be whomever we want to be, therefore creating an alter idenity all togeather. Quite often people act one way online, and are completely different off. Now, I'm not a trained physocologist so I can't exactly speak for this woman. But, if I had to guess... something like that probably happened. Over the time you two have spoken via the internet, may have caused her to establish some sort of bond with you on some level. She may have developed some form of trust, one to where she's comfortable to have a face-to-face with you, but not to where she's completely comfortable. She invited you to her home, but also to an event where she won't be alone. She probably got got cerious to see the man behind the keyboard, and wants to get to know you on a more personal level.

Ohhhh friend dont worry if she not interested to giving her address to you then you also not go there where she want. Not ask again and again otherwise she think you need her. Now good friends cant find easily so left it. If you wants to came visit in India then I will give you my address and always Welcome in my home.

She was thinking you are still in the US or she thought now when he is gone back I can give her my address and have no fear about you will come :D

She may not have wanted to post her address because she did not want everyone on face book to have it. What I would do is send her a private message asking her again. I know a friend of mine asked for my address and I had responded in a private message because I did not want the whole world knowing where I live. As for her inviting you to the party she could have forgotten that you live in Malaysia, people do forget things sometimes.

Maybe she is teasing you, since she barely know you, and you request her address. Now, she knew that she barely can visit her in the state, she now invited you to a party. Something is ironic about this. Anyway, if I am in facebook, someone I barely know, I won't dare to visit them or want to see them in person, it might be dangerous.

Sometime people who refuse to give their address because of inconvenience, they might afraid that when you go there, she have to arrange place for you to stay. May be she have her own problem that she can't tell you, because of that she ignored your request.