Is honeymoon important with you?

Vietnam
July 19, 2011 8:53pm CST
I have just gone working after our wedding party. All everyone ask me about our honeymoon :) We decide that we'll have a honey moon in the Christmas occasion. So, we go to work early after wedding. As me, honey is not too important. We can travel whenever we like. After wedding, we have many problems to solve at our company. I don't want to travel at this time. If you're me, will you go honey moon? Is honeymoon important to you?
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
20 Jul 11
Well I don't think it's so much important but having one would be nice I guess. The newly married couple can have enough time for each other and can explore places together too. SO i think it will be nice to have honeymoon coz the two can have some quite time together and be away from all the stressful work and stuffs and just relax.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
Honeymoon is really well if we have much time and money. We'll have a comfortable time to take a rest to our spouse. But if we don't have much time or meeting some difficult about finance, we can have it after that. Right?
• South Korea
21 Jul 11
Having a honeymoon would be wonderful but if one doesn't have the time and money. I guess it's alright skipping it
• United States
21 Jul 11
Honeymoons can be fun and memorable, however being together definitely counts more and if both are understanding I think it can be postponed as basically there is a lifetime of being together to be able to go on the honeymoon. I would prefer to go on a honeymoon if I were married but certainly would be understanding if my partner was tied up with work and or we just could not do so right away.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
Yes, the honeymoon late is well, too. Right? I like a vacation which is free time and works in order that we can enjoy it fully.
• India
20 Jul 11
Well according to me honeymoon is not that important, you can enjoy at any point of your life, but work should be given the first preference, as you have many problems in your company, clear all the issues then you can have a relaxing honeymoon, if i were in your place i would give me first priority to work, so according to me i would like to suggest you that make all things cleared up in the company then have your honeymoon.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
Right. I should solve all works before the honeymoon if not, I won't feel comfortable to enjoy it. Thanks your response.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
20 Jul 11
When I got married the honeymoon was very important to me. We went to Hawaii and it was our second trip there. The first time was much nicer and the honeymoon turned out to be a disappointment. It was still nice, but we should have gone somewhere we had never been to before.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
As me, where is not important in the honeymoon. The important thing is how we feel about it.
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 11
Honeymoon can always be postponed. So long as you're happy with the man you love, honeymoon would be everyday.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
You're right. Because I think so, I delay our honeymoon. When we have much free time, we'll take a travel to the place where we never gone there.
@diala84 (138)
• United States
20 Jul 11
I have known several people who have postponed their honeymoon only to never go on it. Work comes up, other plans interfere, cant get time off together, etc.. At least of the honeymoon after the wedding usually employers are more forgiving because of the event. If you have it months later they may not be as lenient on taking time off and when you can take it off. I'm not married yet but I would definitely want a honeymoon. Actually I would prefer to have a wedding/honeymoon all in one with a webcast of the event for friends and family to see. Although I don't know if I could get away with that.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
I have 01 day off every month with full salary. But I won't use them. I will save them for the Christmas occasion. I have total 12 day off for our vocation. Our company won't complain anything about us. Is it similar in your local?
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Jul 11
We went on our honeymoon the day after we got married. I got to go to a place I never been before. We had the money and time to go so we did it. You can do it anytime you want to.
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
It's great because you could get the honeymoon after your wedding. I have too many works to take a honeymoon now. But I still feel rest because I mustn't worry about anything accept my works. It's well for me.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Honeymooners  - Bride and Groom
Honeymoon is actually the most exciting part of any marriage. This is of course if that is indeed the first time. It is supposed to be the first night ever together. But many couples have already done that thing long before the wedding so I wonder if they still find their honeymoon exciting. A honeymoon does not necessarily mean you should go and travel and spend a lot. It could be just in a room of your parent's or your hubby's. A honeymoon need not be expensive. For as long as the love is there and you spend your first night in sweet and meaningful togetherness then your honeymoon will be the most meaningful and memorable moment of your life.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
I do not think honeymoon is important this days. To me, it will only be a waste of money. However, if it will be time for certain occasions like Christmas or birthdays then I think it would be better. At least you are shooting two birds with one bullet. But celebrating honeymoon in the midst of busy days like you are in is pointless!
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
I think so. I don't want to take a rest in a mess of works. I won't feel comfortable and the honeymoon is pointless. I think I'll save money to have a travel which is real comfortable about time and money.
• China
21 Jul 11
Yes, I think honeymoon will be a very special memory of one's whole life time. So I think it is important to have a good honeymoon.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Nov 11
For me, it is still important. Even if both couples have already lived together before the wedding or even if they have kids already. I think it's still important because it's the only time were you and your husband have time for both of you and no other things to think of other than the love the two of you have. You may think I am a hopeless romantic but I really think of it as a love time. congratz on your wedding by the way. And it may not be too practical to spend money for the honeymoon these days, but if i were to get married, I would really ask my hubby that we spend time together after the wedding.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Congratulations on your wedding! Time is flying fast! You were just talking about your wedding and now you've done it! It's pitiful, though, that you had to work immediately. For me, honeymoon would be important. It's not necessary that we'll vacation any where. The important thing for me is to spend some time alone with the new husband (say, two weeks or more) before returning to work. But then, as long as both of you are okay with that, then it's okay I guess. Now you have your Christmas honeymoon to look forward to!
• Vietnam
21 Jul 11
Hi Gloryacam, Thank you for your kind! I don't think that there will have a person who can remember me and my story :) I'm very happy because your response. I like Christmas. So, I'll have a carefully preparation for our Christmas honeymoon. I believe that it'll be wonderful !
@olliekobra1 (1825)
7 Apr 12
I think your honeymoon is important because its a way of relaxing after the wedding and also spending time with your new wife/husband you will also get great memories for ever. I hope you enjoy your honeymoon.