LDR vis-a-vis polygamy

Philippines
August 3, 2011 3:39am CST
do you think nowadays Men cannot be trusted in the event that they will be far from the one they loved?? Do you think they will really cheat?? Will there be no more nice guys anymore??? Whatchathink?
4 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
7 Aug 11
Funny you say that. Of all my friends, very few cheat on their wives. Why do you assume they all are doing it? We must also remember that if a man is cheating then there is a woman doing the very same thing. It takes two to tango. It's not all men.
@urbandekay (18278)
7 Aug 11
Aye, now there is the way of it, why do so many people over look this mathematical point! all the best urban
@tears08 (161)
5 Aug 11
well.. temptations will always be there especially when you are far away form the one you love.. but its up to that guy how he would deal with it.. but what i had seen here in dubai.. married men in Philippines but single men here.. . they usually say they are single and the girl would just get hurt when they find out that the guy is already married but even women here also, there are some into relationship both of them have families in Philippines
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
Depends on what kind of a man you have. You will definitely know by heart and what your instinct tells you if a man is a player or not. Not all men are polygamous. My dad has been working abroad for years and even if he is away from us, we do communicate regularly through phone and internet chat but never did I hear my mom complained about their relationship. Their marriage has been strong by God's grace of 30+ years and still sweet to each other as when I see them, they are still like boyfriend and girlfriend. This is what will display if the person knows Christ and the foundation of faith is in Him alone. No matter the distance, it is not a hindrance. Trust and hope through Christ is there because God is the center of the relationship. This is what we look further as our parents are our model.
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
No!!!! I most certainly disagree. I mean, bias aside, me and my girlfriend are on a long distance relationship right now, but we strive our best to give each other some time whenever available. On my part, it may be true that I still get crushes on some girls (that's normal! The human brain is designed to both appreciate and criticize!), but hey, I'm in love, so why bother checking out other choices, when I already made one?