did you ever got bored with your relationship?

@chiyosan (29940)
Philippines
August 6, 2011 9:13am CST
I read somewhere that they are only 6 months into the relationship and already they are stuck in the middle of nowhere... like the relationship is more boring than fun, more boring than there is love.. have you ever experienced this in any of your love affair? =) Just when is it that you know that the relationship is boring already...? why and what makes a relationship boring?
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@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
No, I haven't experience it yet. But I think we are getting to it..hehe. We are in a long distance relationship and I haven't seen him physically for 2 years now. Talking to him everyday on the phone and seeing him on skype is getting boring already. What we do to make it less boring is we do talk different topics everyday and now, we started playing online game, World of Warcraft, and it's fun. We forget that we are 2 worlds apart. And the boredom stops because we sure do have to talk on the game with other online friends.
@jdex_143 (1094)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
At the moment, I don't feel any boredom with my relationship now. We still enjoy each others company and with my boyfriend's attitude that is kinda like a joker, he really makes me smile a lot. Even his lame jokes make me smile and sometimes burst out of laughter. Hehehehe... I hope, if it comes, we can make adjustment to it. :) xoxoxoxoxoxo
• United States
7 Aug 11
I haven't had a boring relationship It keeps moving forward. I assume it gets boring when you two do and say the samew thing. It doesn't move forward.
7 Aug 11
I think when that happens they need to give each other space away for each other so they have time to miss each others company.it also happens in friendship, like sometimes me and my best-friend don't know what topic to talk anymore because we see each other everyday, so what we do is go with our other friends then after how many days we already miss each others company again.
7 Aug 11
If love didn't exists in your relationship, that's how you got bored with each other. I once experience those things and it's pretty good that me and my partner talk about this before we end it up. Personally, I love to be in a cool relationship. Openness with each other is one key too so you will not get bored in your relationship. ^^
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
I am in my relationship with my partner for the last 6 years and I haven't been bored with it yet. I guess when only in the first six months they already think it's boring, perhaps they're not for each other because they can't find anything to do that is fun for both of them. I could remember a friend of mine, when she was with her ex a few months back. I could remember her saying that they couldn't really talk about anything. They'd just spend time together without really talking about anything because the guy would always complain about her topic choices. Further, whenever the guy talks, she also found that the topic are quite boring and couldn't really relate to what he was talking about. I thought that time that it was odd that they were together because they can't seem to talk about anything at all. I wasn't surprised after a few months that they decided to separate. I guess there are just relationships that isn't meant to be. If they force themselves in the relationships, they would only end up frustrated and unhappy. Have a great MyLot experience!
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
6 Aug 11
Every relationship will have its share of ups and downs. i would never think of those lulls as boredom. it is just part of the cycle of the relationship. it can not all be one sided. there has to be a sense of balance.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 11
I Am not into any relationship so it is hard for me to answer that. Anyway I tend to feel boring faster and that is why I don't let myself to have a taste of love relationship as I don't one anyone to get hurt. Till I am not feel that boredom only then I will get in a serious relationship with someone..(^^)
• South Korea
6 Aug 11
I am with my hubby for five years and yes sometimes we just feel bored together and we just dont know what we would like to.. like for example were just tired of watching movies together, we dont know what we want to eat but were hungry... something like that.. and I heard that boring is normal..lol and mostly we feel bored.. but then find always try to find a way to spice things up like for example playing sports together, going somewhere else, or if we cannot really think of something we will just go clean the house or take a bathtub together something like that.. we might be bored but were always laughing and smiling with each other.. :) so boredom doesnt allow me because I think its part of the relationship..
@koperty3 (1877)
6 Aug 11
I've never was bored in my current relationship. We have better and worst days. Sometimes we have silent days but we never get bored. Our life style is boring I can say but relationship is not even if we are together 5 years and we know each other very well.
@nezavisima (7418)
• Bulgaria
6 Aug 11
Oh why your relationship is boring. I do not have common themes you will love between you. I think that every relationship is different but you must be bored you can do it all together to invent new things, new walking meeting with friends. But the other option is to you when you're bored that is both just your connection is already exhausted namya just love some good friends who know everything about each other and if so why do not you know skumno akkvo do. So the best think your love is strong I want you to go forward together or not. Very nice discussion. My congratulations. Good luck. nice day!