How to start all over again.

I guess you need to find a new job for starters and work from there. There's no other way on paying that amount of debt but to get a stable job and save up. I think you have to do two jobs at once if your pay isn't enough because you also have to pay for your own bills.

I'm sorry to hear that. Life always changes you will never know what is the next. So just be hopeful and brave , you have family and now what the most important thing is to find a job. No matter what job you find just do it. Just like you say you have to pay the rent and still have the debt, so do what you can do to find a job. May God bless you. Good luck.

Why?What happened? That's really sad, we have gone into such situation and it's really hard especially when nobody wants to help. I am very much saddened of your situation and I hope that you will overcome all this trial. We pass through such period of our life and now we are starting to move on. My family never losses hope, they have strong faith with god, that's why we bounced back and hopefully my family and I will have a great future. Be strong and have faith your self and god, everything will fall into right places.

Wow a debt amounting to 20,000 dollars! That's pretty scary but I don't want to pull your spirit down. All I know is, however or whatever you hit rock bottom, there is always a way to bounce up and bounce back again.If you have to adjust to ways you were not used to, then you should do that.It takes time to adjust to things, but it is always possible to get adjusted for sure. At this point, you should try to examine what's left of you and try to develop that as you make your effort to survive. A good physical health and a healthy mind are one of the great start-ups you can have.

I think first thing is accepting and then trying to undestand why something that can knock us down happened to us. Accepting they say is half way to the solution.

I can feel you there, I know how hard it is for you but HOLD ON there is GOD, He is always willing to help you. Just stay faithful. I will pray for you, I know you can fix the mess in your life. God bless

If there is a will to fight back, then you will definitely bounce back. There is no doubt about that. All you have to do is never give up hope. Keep fighting with great spirit. The world is made for us.

I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I wonder how old your children are. If you are husband and wife one of you could get a job anywhere that there is one. Then he or she could rent a small room and send money back home. That would give you money that you really do need. Then you could give as much money into paying off your debt each month as possible. You could make the number 1 thing you pay your rent. Your family could eat cheap food and drink water from the tap if it is safe to eat. For relaxing you could do free things like walking, playing in the park if your kids are young and visiting your local library. If life gets worse I advise sell your car and just hold onto where you live. Good luck.

Bouncing back is a decision you need to decide to do. If you just wait and see, there is no bottom. It is a bottom-less pit that one who doesn't make a change will surely be on it until they die. It's not the lack of work that is the problem. It's what we truly think and accept in our life. There are a lot of opportunities. You can sell something by choosing a product from a lot of companies like Avon, Amway, DXN, and other companies. However, its a decision that you have to make for yourself. I know you are capable. You are born a winner. Your talents had been long hidden inside you. Make use of it and you'll become rich.

If I can only help you, I would. But I do not have that much too. First of all, let us know what you are xpert at. Say, are you a sales person? A writer A musician etc? Then let me know so I can give you links where you can find online jobs that are free to join. I believe you can get back to that shoes little by little..regrds

Please try to get your hope going for something to come up for you to pay your rent. Try to evaluate each and every option for getting a job or other ways to keep your finances rolling forward. I do hope you can manage in some positive way.

thats so bad,feeling sad for you but i think you need to be brave and find some work so that you and your family can survive,hoping things will change for you. Best of luck..:-)

Everything happens for a big reason. just do your part and God will do the rest. i believe before this month will end your questions will be answered.

I've been out of work for close to 3 years, but after reading your situation I guess I'm not in as bad shape as I thought. It's sad to hear that your going through this. Pray and keep your faith because you'll need this to carry you through.

Problem sounds very serious but after every night there is a day. So remain positive and whatever job you get take it do not compare with your earlier profile, at the time of crisis even lesser work is good enough to see one through. May god bless you, I will pray for you.

So sad that you are enduring that much in your life, but your positive mind will keep you going. I hope you will regain back your balance and shoot up- doubling what you had by then.

Do not lose hope whatever burdens you are carrying. It is important to remember that God is in control. Do not be afraid to ask God to help you. You can always find the solution for all the problems just never give up.

thats so sad..but its only a trial..be brave and stay strong..as long as you have your family with you,i know you will over come all of it. dont forget to pray and ask for help to the Lord. dont lose hope..