How can I make other people happy?
By kendedes2011
@kendedes2011 (2712)
Indonesia
August 15, 2011 10:30am CST
How I can influence other people so that they are happier, regardless of whether they are aware of which comes or not? Or even that they get a better mood.
I do not mean only people I know. Just anyone, no matter whom. For example, I once sat on the train and had some terribly bad mood for a reason. Lit somewhere there sat a boy (or a young man, I do not know now exactly how old) was very sweet and has smiled at me, would be even more appropriate, but I do not know why. Anyway, I did not know him. But somehow he has had such a sunny face as if I had done him a favor or something and then my day was saved. I got it but never again and never before seen but that does not matter. What I mean is, sometimes you can have any influence people by very small things really strong, positive or negative, it is often not even noticed yet.
I think this also people I know, for example, you will feel better if someone is listening very attentively and with interest and a total take seriously.
But by what I can influence other people, then? I want to know the really important, especially because so many people look somehow always such a bad mood or sad, it makes me crazy. Is not there a few ... rules of conduct that people somehow pull out from their cold environment and gives them a special feeling? And if it's only for a moment.
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7 responses
@marguicha (216956)
• Chile
15 Aug 11
I have also found that a smile, a nice word, saying thank you and really meaning it, make people happy.
When you really smile, you are in fact touching the other person with your eyes, with your entire face and with your soul. I wish we all took tare to do it often! It makes a change.
@Gaoleicheng (8)
• China
9 Sep 11
emaybe you are right ,I always smile at them who were my friends and relatives.however sometime they said that I was stupid.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
I'd also say with your smile .
That's enough already, that someone else has good mood, so you can easily infect others. I noticed yesterday that especially in the ground ... I am yesterday with a large part of my class after school (11:11 clock) with the railway went into the old town. in the ground were already slightly drunk from some of my class and have had good capricious, then During the ride started to sing a song and have the rider called to participate. many were singing in the ground, which I never thought 
if you want to prepare another good mood, even got good mood.
if you want to prepare another good mood, even got good mood.
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 11
You wrote the answer itself. It depends on you personally. On your charisma and even in you as you are resting. If you yourself are in a good mood, then you radiate that out. If you have the feeling that they can embrace the whole world, then you radiate it out and take the people around you to feel. You will illuminate your own attitude by people like you and they will go with this boy. You will listen more attentively, because you want to listen and you are aware of the people around you happier and more satisfied.
The first step is that you yourself are happy and satisfied. Only if this is you yourself, you can pass it to the outside.
@charleychrizzy (86)
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15 Aug 11
Smile and put other people before you.
Also be kind and helpful towards them.
Check out www.randomactsofkindness.org for some ideas :)
It's certainly helped me to become more kinder to people.
