do you spend time with your parent or parents are the one that raised you?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
August 25, 2011 12:57am CST
a lot of time we just forget to spend time with our parents are parent are the one that raised you.we dont mean too it just happen.we need to remember them they have don,t a lot for you throughtout our life.can you remember when you did somethimg nice for your love one.
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6 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
my brothers and i was only raised by my mom. my dad left us.. and well it was only my mom that has to get the credit for everything that we are now.
i do spend time with her.. all the time. we live in the same place and well we do have out times spent together... that is when we go to the supermarket and for our scheduled weekly shopping date. =)
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
27 Aug 11
you are doing great at least you try to spend as much time as possible with your mother,iam sure she appreaciate it.we as children don,t want a pat on our backs because we are so thankful for all she has done for you.she was there when no other was.may god bless you and your brother.
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
25 Aug 11
This is a very nice discussion you started and I hope it gives people time to think that one day our parents will no longer be with us. I was only 25 when my father passed away at the age of 59 with cancer and my daughter was only 4 years old.
It was then that I was left with no parents and it was hard. When my daughter got married I had to do it all alone and when she graduated I was hard broke she had no grandparents there to see her and be proud of her. So Yes be good to your elders everyone because one day you will also be one. Take Care.
@zoean_arch_27 (297)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
If there is a chance, specially if there is an occasions. We proudly say that we still celebrate our birthdays with our parents. This make like a small reunion for us. We love our parents very much.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
25 Aug 11
thats great,so many forget thier parents birthday.when our parents get older they need to know they are still needed by their kids.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
my mother is paralyzed for 4 years now and yes since then till now i always make a point to spend sundays with her. my father has a different family with a wife who is just a little older than me. i dont spend time with him, we are not that close. i am the first born of our family and i am the last one who got married so i spend my time with my mother. i stayed with her till i was 29 years old. so we are really close. i date her on movies or eat out or sometimes sit at the front of the tv and call delivery har har har. i miss my mother, the one who can talk clear, the one who is very intelligent and the one who loves going out. but i still love her after the attack and we still spend time with her. the only time i can not spend time with her is when am abroad working.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
25 Aug 11
iam sorry your mom is paralyzed.but its nice to have you in her life to depend on who love her ,in her time of need.most people would have put her in a home rather then deal with the situation.i know she appreaciate the love you have for her may god bless you and your family.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
25 Aug 11
the point is you love them and you carry them in your heart wherever you are god know your situation and he knows you would like to be closer.so you are doing the best you can until you and your parents come together don,t be sad its going to be alright know this they love you as well.
@thetis74 (1525)
•
25 Aug 11
Yes, I do. I go almost every weekend. That is also my child get to play with her cousins. We are just at the house most of times. It is also the time and the chance for me to help my mother with all the house work since no one who lives with her bothers to ever help her.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
25 Aug 11
i think this is great i know your mom appreaciate the help.plus your kids get to spend time with their cousin.and when they grow up they will know who they are.
