I guess we Shouldn't Force any one

Philippines
August 28, 2011 11:55pm CST
I know I've been rough before about people who doesn't comment back on their response or with people who completely makes discussions out of nothing, then they just do their best to make new ones again with out ever going back to their responses. Seriously, It's not my problem, if they don't care then that's fine. Because they're adults, they make their own choices here in mylot. As long they don't Violate the guidelines, we got no problem with that. It is we who benefit because we type, we earn. every response and comment that we make is our own reward and not theirs. Anyways, I know last day is nearing so good luck every one.
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21 responses
@louievill (18408)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Yes i agree with your observation friend, it's like they just have a discussion mill going on and mind you some of them could be quite good despite the volume so I respond as well, and I do not really care if they give back their comment to what I said cause it's their choice, but I feel really sorry for them earning wise cause they do not know what they are missing if they answer back, could be money but more than that I think human interaction is more important to me.
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@pinklilly (3446)
• Australia
29 Aug 11
You are right Letran, but it does get frustrating at times and makes me wonder why should I bother if their not going to respond back to my response... I don't mind sometimes but not always to everybodies input oh well as you say "their loss Not ours" Good luck for reaching payout this month.
@mysdianait (64059)
• Italy
29 Aug 11
"Last day is arriving" and therefore you will be ocmmenting nad responding and starting new topics all day long today and tomorrow? I agree that it is their loss if they don't comment back but when some of us complain, it is only to get their attention because we do lose out too. When we respond surely we hope to be able to get a discussion going? If they don't comment back then we have only earnt part of what we were hoping to earn
@mysdianait (64059)
• Italy
29 Aug 11
Yes, I am
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
Hello Aunt D. That last day is actually tomorrow here and i don't mind since i got much much more time ahead of me. i may not able to maximize that much but i get around posting here and there. it's their loss if they don't comment back. In my case, it's my loss if i don't comment back (Immediately) Have a nice day
@mysdianait (64059)
• Italy
30 Aug 11
It doesn't make any difference at all when the last day is there where you are Letran. What counts is midnight on the 31st in myLot's time zone. That will be 38 hours from now. That is when cut-off time for payout is.
@KrauseHome (35025)
• United States
29 Aug 11
Well if there have ever been people who complain about me, I will admit that I am behind but do try and come and respond back to people who respond back to my discussions as I have time. But it is interesting if I can keep a discussion going somehow to see just how others react to each situation. Also a great way to make many New friends here as well.
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
I like it... thanks for sharing....
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello KrauseHome, I completely understand you're situation as i am myself couldn't have make the time to respond these days. I still make some friends though but i don't entertain that much people anymore like the way i used to. like you, i've been busy as well. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
hi LK, Yes we can't force them but sometimes it pisses me off Well it's their loss not mine who earn any way There are times I don't comment back because I was not able to be online but I make sure I appreciate someone's comment on my discussion. Visit you soon
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
Hello Catch, It does isn't it? but you know most of hem don't have time to do so. therefore we must exceed our patients. if am at work you won't see me commenting either responses.
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
what about those who keep on posting and actively participating here? commenting back to others but skipping someone's response
@akp100 (13328)
• India
29 Aug 11
Hi LK Surely they are the one who are missing lots of stuff. Missing fun on discussions, earnings and friends.. But as you mentioned we can do nothing for them as it is not part of the guideline violation. Only we can tell them about it and rest is up to them. You already have done your part now lets see.
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello AKP100, I am one of them actually because i couldn't comment or respond the way i used to before. it's not fun when you can't think of something fun anymore. I always do my part as a discussion starter to start more response and comment on my discussions. have a nice day.
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Yup! The choice is for the users. If the other users have the choice to respond to discussions, the other users do have the choice not to respond either. Options are what makes the world interesting, and having the options to choose from is what everybody wants. We can't take away that option from them. That's life. As a suggestion, if we want to look for those who you would want to be sure who will comment back, then we just have to look for such guys and don't bother with those that don't want to interact. Very simple. Yes, it is nearing the end of the month. I am excited to see a lot of discussions I can read and respond into here. I do have all the time to spend out here due to the holidays and I am gunning at a target payout for this month. It is the time of them month again to work out those creative ideas and juices with a little bit extra effort. Post away!
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello Agent-Gulaman, very one has freedom to think what ever we can. I still believe that opinions are welcome as long as it doesn't lead to violent word wars just like in the past debates with different mylotters. I am glad that you are excited to get your pay out soon, don't worry you will get it. have a nice day.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
dear LK, Hmnn... response collector huh? Ohhh...so much of them. Well, easy- I take note those ones and?...I will not respond to their topic (simple as that) And how about those "skipping responses" ? hehehe have a good day sis, jaiho®
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello Jaiho-Sis, Yes, there are so much and many of them but some are improving if we encourage them to do more. as for skipping responses, i have actually done that when i couldn't comment on some one's responses and i realize it saves time. but now i just got back into replying back to every one. Have a nice day.
@toniganzon (49185)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Good luck on the last day! Yeah it's the deadline, the end of the month, the mylot cut off! You're right, it's their choice whether to respond or not! It's their gain as well as their own loss!
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello Toni For the both of us that is because mylot is going to cut it out indeed after this month i guess. I don't want to loose valuable time thinking too much as to what to post. thanks and have a nice day.
@arlerambabu (1080)
• India
29 Aug 11
One should feel from the heart that the discussion deserves a ‘Comment back.’ Don’t think that you are the only beneficiary of a comment. Both of you are beneficiaries. No one is doing any favor to anyone. Rather we’re helping each other.[b][/b]
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Hello Arle, That's the problem sometimes in mylot where they are people that we favor so much and not every one elses.but you're right, i guess we shouldn't stop our quest to help each other a lot more than just doing the posting on mylot. thanks my friend and have a nice day.
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
hi, yes you're right,we dont need to force anyone to comment back or even to response in our discussions,because we are all here to earn and even to participate because we wanted to earn,as long as they never violate the guidelines here as you said.
@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Sep 11
Nope we can't force, only advise. they can choose to listen or not...
@rosdimy (3936)
• Malaysia
6 Sep 11
No, it is not a problem to me, whether it was an oversight or intentional. They may think that it is unimportant to comment back, or our response hurts them, or they are too busy, Alternatively they may be suffering from an illness or disease which limits their activity. For example after a stroke my typing speed has decreased considerably.
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
31 Aug 11
yes buddy, the end is near, end of the month and we only left with at least 11 hours by the time i posted this comment. so we have to hurry? well, i do agree with you too. those people who makes discussions without commenting back on the responses are actually the losers. and it's us who respond to the discussions are the real winners.
@isloooboy (1741)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well, I disagree with you. First of all do not post any reply if topic is not fall in your interest or out of your knowledge range. Second if you don't know about the topic but you want to learn and seek information regarding topic, than you have the chance to learn by asking questions. I think by replying once and than, "Gone with the Wind" means nothing for the topic or subject. So why bother on the first stage?
@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
you're right LK, in my side it took me days before I will comment back to all the responds i received. But at least i make efforts.Lk, i have to clear things up regarding me earnings,does they include my earning this month plus my earnings September 1-15 for the cash out or it is separate every month?thanks LK
• United States
30 Aug 11
Yeah it does not bother me at all if they comment back or not. What does bother me though is that they are asking and or saying they are earning very little. I do try to help by informing them that unless they participate they will not see a boost in their earnings. I don't mind trying to help and if they listen, hooray and if they don't well what else other then saying they are missing out. I enjoy coming here and participating with a lot of discussions here for the fun, if the pattern of never commenting back continues, I won't complain but then picky as to whether I should respond or not simply because I am not sure they are even reading.
• United States
30 Aug 11
I think you are right about this. We can't force others to do tasks they don't want to. It is a matter of choices that whether they like to do or not. Sometimes adults got no choices but just do it. We all do things we don't want. But there are not forcement either. Good point. Thanks for the posting. Good luck to you too.
@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
Here's my own take on this, by the way, I still owe you a response of the last discussion that I started but i'll get back on you later on that. The main reasons why there are people who don't comment back; 1. The feel intimidated because there are members whose comments sound that its quoted from law books. It's so well written that it stopped the first person whose making the discussion in his tracks and just feels that what ever he says would sound in appropriate and that not responding is the best thing to do. 2. Another reason is the exact opposite of the above, there are posters whose comments don't make sense at all and the original poster can't make anything or relate on what the comment is all about. 3. Due to the number of responses, the poster gets lost in the number of comments he receives. This happens when you read the response and decides not to comment right away and then the responses just file up until you forget about them 4. Another reason is when someone deletes the notification in the email. Mylot doesn't a facility where we can check those who made comment on post except email. So when you delete the notice in your inbox, there's just no way you can find that discussion or if you do it's like finding a needle in a haystack. 5. Laziness. If you combined all three above the result in number four. Let me clarify that there are my reasons of not responding and more often it's number four.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
I'm doing just fine with the responses I get back from the posts I'm commenting to. I hope that the ones that don't care responding to yours will be hitting themselves. Hehe. Cheer up and enjoy myLot!