My friend got this temper problem which might affect his job

United States
August 31, 2011 4:01pm CST
My friend has this temper problem, which I think that might affect his job. Not only once, but twice that he quit his current jobs because he hate to tolerate those people he doesn't like, and he must make a big deal, eventually lead him to resign. That is his temper issue, and he has high self - esteem, and doesn't want to be under people. Oh well, that explains why he can't get along with other co - workers too. Now, he is on his vacation, and still, he is looking for jobs. I just worry about him.
5 responses
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
having an easily hot temper is really a thing that will place us to a wrong part of our life,sometimes due to uncontrollable angry our temper get high,especially in our work because we will meet many people with different attitude and characteristic.
@inertia4 (27665)
• United States
1 Sep 11
I understand what you're saying, but there are people who are go getters and your friend might be one of them. If he has a great self esteem, then he will accelerate in anything he does. On the other hand, he does have to learn to work with others in order to move up the ladder in any job.
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
1 Sep 11
It sounds like your friend may have this problem with every job he goes to then unless he can manage others. He may do better if he runs his own business and becomes his own boss.
• United States
31 Aug 11
You can speak to him about what you are seeing and hope he understands that it is an issue for him. If he continues this way he will not be able to hold down a job. There are some anger issue classes he can take. This will help him get along with others, so maybe suggest this to him. But remember he needs to want to change his way and also be accepting that this is an issue. Good luck and hope he does recognize that it is an issue and want to get some help for it.
@dev1506 (167)
• India
31 Aug 11
Advice him for meditation . meditation will help him to control his feelings and to deal with this loosing temper problem. Or may suggest him for yoga this will help him to decrease all negative energy around him. God bless your friend.