Who's responsible?

Philippines
September 8, 2011 7:38pm CST
I saw this yesterday on yahoo news. A man filed a lawsuit against Facebook because his child (below 13 years old) was able to upload explicit pictures of herself in her Facebook account. He demands that this kind of activity should not be allowed on FB. I want to hear from you fellow myLOtters. Who do you think is responsible for that incident? Is it Facebook or The parent?
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@rod977 (118)
• Portugal
9 Sep 11
I think that both are responsible. Facebook should not allow such things as upload explicit pictures, but everybody has the right to post what they want, since they take the responsability for it. But the parent should be more careful about his child. That's one thing called Parental Control that it works. Or even tell him the dangers of facebook and what we should or not post on facebook. :/
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
Amen to that. The problem is some parents don't even spend time with their child that they don't know their own child, much more on parental control.
@rod977 (118)
• Portugal
9 Sep 11
Right. But if they aren't paying the right attention to their kids, they shouldn't blame Facebook for their failures. Instead of suing Facebook, he should spend some time talking to her and think in being a better parent and how to teach his daughter the right things to do in life.
• United States
9 Sep 11
I think the parents should be to blame. First of all, I'm not sure how I feel about a thirteen year old girl even having a facebook account. The web can be a dangerous place! Predators create fake accounts across all social media platforms to search and prey on naive children. But, if you are allowing your children to engage in social media, I think it needs to be supervised! I may allow my hypothetical thirteen year old daughter to have her own account, but, I would demand to always have the password. I think children need to be educated to the dangers of the web. You can never be sure who you are communicating with over the internet!
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Sep 11
It's the parent's responsibility. This is like blaming schools for not teaching the kids about s3x when it is not their job..
• United States
10 Sep 11
Oh,Stephanie, no way!!!Are they also showing them how to wipe their behinds??? Common sense every day living is the PARENTS job, a teacher's job it to teach children reading, writing, and math, and any other class that have upgrades. For example, technology is changing so fast, and teachers go to workshops to learn the newest and greatest..THAT is what the teachers should teach..
• United States
10 Sep 11
@carmel: Exactly! I agree. Teachers do everything now! I was talking to a second grade teacher a few months ago and she has to do daily etiquette routines! To teach them to say 'thank you' and 'please.' Isn't that ridiculous?! The parents should do that!
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• Philippines
9 Sep 11
Thanks for the comment. Education really should start at home.
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• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I think the parents should be responsible for this one since that is their child. They should put on guard on their child much more if they are minors. They should not allow their children to use their personal computer. Why on earth that their children knows where their personal pictures are. Maybe the child is using their own personal computer or laptop. They should not leave anything like on their computer when they know that their children will also be using their computer. Facebook have no control over their household. Facebook does not know what they have to upload at Facebook. On the other side, it is good if Facebook has this kind of features where the people who upload explicit pictures to be put on moderation first before the public will see it or before uploading. Like they give limitation to it since there are lots of cases like this that mostly happen on Facebook. I think Facebook should act on it if they want to, that is just a suggestion anyway.
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• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I think that is a big problem of most of the people, blaming somebody for their mistake which is for me, not ideal to be seen by kids.
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
Yeah, parents should be responsible for their own children. The man's action just showed how stupid and irresponsible he is. Blaming others for his own mistakes.
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
Yes, most of us must learn to be responsible for our own action.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I guess this things will become more and more common everyday, although I really hope and pray not. Parents should be more responsible with their children. The things they do will only allow them as much as supervision can. Of course social networking sites should really pay attention to this issue and start do something about this because this is becoming an alarming trend now. I wish they would have/hire filters for photos being uploaded. I mean for the money they make in traffic, this doesn't cost that much, and would be a cool security feature which could actually at least if not encourage parents, keep them relax.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
I hate to even admit that this events really happen but the news shows otherwise and the frequency is getting alarming. Clearly, something has to be done about this, fast. I really hope we don't see the day this becomes a common day-to-day crime.
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
It will be a disaster if that kind of incident will be a common scenario. What do you think will happen to our future if that happens? I hope we don't come to that.
• United States
10 Sep 11
It's definitely more the parents' fault. It's their child, not Facebook's. And as far as I know, any person younger than thirteen years of age is not allowed to make a Facebook profile so his daughter probably lied about her age (unless they changed that rule and I'm not aware). The problem is people don't like to take the blame even if it is their fault. Due to her age, it was definitely within the parents' control to watch over her Internet usage. There are so many ways to do that now like parenal ontrols and such.
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• Philippines
11 Sep 11
Maybe pride had eaten him. He don't want to accept that her little girl is like that, so he blame Facebook.
• Indonesia
9 Sep 11
we can't blame facebook at all even many people complain about facebook security or account privacy.in my view, parents responsible for this chase.their kid is below 13 years old and has attitude like an adult.I think parent don't give protection and attention as well for the kids...
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• Indonesia
12 Sep 11
another sad fact is that parent didn't realize his mistake but blame another.as we know that facebook is only social network with some weakness, allow people share status, identity, photos and other without security guarantee.parents must know about it and learn from mistakes and of course have more supervision to their kids... this is very simple but have big impact
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
YOu maybe right there. That parent may not even spent time with his child that's why she is like that.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
9 Sep 11
It is the parents responsibility to keep an eye on what their child is doing on facebook. If the kid is 8 and has an account they are not supposed to have or 16 and are legally able to have an account....Either way...the parents responsibility. Facebook does not allow that type of photo, but they can't monitor everyone's profiles. Someone has to report the photo's I thought.
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• Philippines
11 Sep 11
It's just silly to demand FB to monitor all activities of all members. If the parent can't even monitor his own child, how much more can facebook?
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
9 Sep 11
I thought that Facebook does not allow photos like that? But I guess according to that the do. But his daughter lied about her age so how can they sue it was their daughters fault.
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• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I'm assuming you also read the news. The man proposed that FB should have a counter check on the ages of their users like passport number etc. But i think that is a screwed proposal.
@blink182m (182)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
For me the more responsible for this are the parents, if only they spend time and attention to their children this wouldn't have happen we can really say that the social networking site(facebook) is only just a medium. Facebook is a social networking site to channel the words they want to express. It starts in the family we can't totally blame the facebook.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I don't blame facebook...the kid can upload the photo anywhere and not particularly in facebook alone. It is the parents responsibility to check their kids and their kids activity. We cannot totally blame the parents either..no parents ever wanted or wish to see their kid grow with bad manner or act so badly.
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I think both parties should be responsible. Facebook will not be able to track a user if he or she is below 18. Unless they will be making any amendments on the Facebook system. The parents in the first place should have a solid relationship with their daughter. They should have guide her that these things are inappropriate specially on her age. In the end, it is a sad news to hear.
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• Philippines
11 Sep 11
Tracking age, photos uploaded or status updates will be a hard task. So it's not possible even in a hundred years. The parent, i think, should accept the fact that he is in fault.
• Kenya
9 Sep 11
hello, facebook assumes every information given to them is valid because it operates on probability.in my view, the parent should be blamed because he should have installed a parental control application to bur his or her child from uploading vast images.i don't think facebook will be fined for this....
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@DiaJ88 (170)
• Singapore
9 Sep 11
I think what is posted on facebook i just a freedom of speech since you can post any status or pictures of yourself. However, the parents of the child should consider on checking up on the child every now and then especially i they know that the child has a social networking around. Parents could also make an account,not for spying but telling the child about the account and add them as friends. This is one of the steps that my aunt took just to build a closer bond with her daughter and to get to know her activities,friends and thinking. I don't expect facebook to keep track of everyone's photos or videos since there are alot of users from around the world. I guess its time for some parents to take up a step and get involved in the cyber arena.
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
Like what you said, parents should step up and act on this. It is not enough to sue social networks, but they should also perform their parts as a parent. They should be guiding their children and should always be available to them. They should be guiding near them, spend time with them and be there until they mature. This is supposed to be the ideal parents. But I guess, it is easier said than done.
• India
9 Sep 11
The parents are responsible for it because facebook can't check wether a user is underage or not when he/she lies about his/her age. On the other hand parents should check the personal computer of their child and teach them about the dangerous effect of internet too. When they are not playing their role to educate their child about internet properly then how can they do like that
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@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
12 Sep 11
I saw that as well. Both should be responsible since parents are supposed to be strict with their kids, yet parents can't be monitoring their kids all the time right? WHen a child means to stray, they will do it somehow. It's out of parent's control. While on facebook's behalf, they should know when such pictures are being uploaded and they should put it a stop to it. If facebook is not stopping it, it can only mean that they are interested in such pictures as well.
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Considering that there are millions of Facebook member, moderators will have a hard time allotting resources to sort out or filter uploaded images from members.
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• Indonesia
10 Sep 11
parent and facebook admin must responsible about it. especially facebook, they should fix their work on it. poor parent, they too must give their children some education about it.
• United States
11 Sep 11
I think the parents are responsible. They didn't supervise their daughter and she got into trouble, now they need someone to blame for their bad parenting, so they are going to blame Facebook.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Was he filing a lawsuit on Facebook or his child? lol because Facebook is not responsible for the child uploading those pics, I think hes responsible because he's the Father.
• United States
10 Sep 11
Exactly! It's not Facebook's job to watch over your child. It's yours.