mind over heart.. or heart over mind??
By karstine29
@karstine29 (694)
Philippines
September 18, 2011 4:28am CST
When my mind told my heart.. "Let love grow" but my mind told my heart.. "This time no.."
There are times that you cannot decide what is the right thing to do. What should you first follow?? Your heart or your mind?? Some say before you decide, recognize first if you have a better heart or a better mind.. And I think it would be the best thing to do.
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5 responses
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
18 Sep 11
actually I think you dont really have to choose.. why not try to use the combination of both.. its going to be a win win strategy.... :) because sometimes even if we choose mind over heart I dont think it really means that she should ignore what our hearts is saying or the other way around...
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
i appreciate your comment.. thanks for dropping by.. it would really be better if i'll try both..
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Thanks! Good luck too in yours. I do hope for the best of yours too.
@banta78 (4326)
• India
18 Sep 11
I would suggest go with the flow. Trust your instincts. Your emotional/past baggage should not be allowed to cloud your vision and doom your chances of finding real love.
Don't just look for love or judge lovers. Let love happen. Be open to receiving and giving love. There is nothing like perfect love or lovers. People grow in love and become good lovers.
I wish you luck in love. Cheers!
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
i like your point of view in life.. go with the flow, past is past and LOVE LOVE LOVE.. let life be filled with LOVE.. CHEERS!! thanks for dropping by..
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@janevi (888)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Many times, our heart and mind don't agree when we make some important decisions in life. Many also say that 'follow the desires of your heart' for the 'heart never lies' and 'never betrays. but sometimes we can't just rely on our heart's desire. For me, it is always good to make decisions if our heart and mind is congruent with one another. There are moments that we should really use our mind and at times it is good to use our heart.
I think it all depends on the situation and that we are the one who can really make the best decision because we are the ones who take the consequence of it.
Be wise and rational in making a decision in life.When you are at peace with it, then it might be the right decision you made.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Yes. You are right it really depends on the situation. And having a peace of mind in my decision could be the best decision. Furthermore, whatever choice i will have, my mind and heart should go hand in hand in dealing with it. Thanks for dropping by. Your comment was greatly appreciated.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
wow!! a simple advice but gives an impact on me.. thanks for dropping by..
@someone27 (31)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I think you should follow your heart in order to be happy...
