Being badly hurt, How can it be God's plan?

consequence or punishment for the sins... =( I really cannot understand what that is that i did to deserve the hurt and pain i am feeling right now. I know there is some good that will come out of this. but i pray it comes around quickly, please. I sure hope it does... I tink i need to be able to see clearly now, already.

thank you ur4mae. i know he will be there for me all the time.. i sure hope he'd be showing me signs that he's not left me at all ...

Just hang on to Him and He will make the way for you. There's always a rainbow after the storm. :)

I'm so sorry that you've been feeling this way. I can't do much from over here, but I do promise exactly what I said... God has not forgotten or forsaken you. I'll be praying for you, and I hope you find your way through the valley.

thank you precious. your response made me feel all the better again. I am glad to have read your response and I will bear that in mind, keep his story in mind and heart and know that i should not lose the faith and believe in God's great plan... plan not to harm me, not to persecute me... but to prosper me

I am really really going through a hard time right now. its been really hard to be deceived. its hard to be in a situation where someone made you feel so bad, so idiot and stupid. I do not see clearly what is God's plan as of this time, I hope he helps me out of this stronger, amazing and willing to be more like him.

Didn't you ever wonder for yourself , why you have been deceived? Maybe there are areas in your life that is to be checked. Don't feel bad, instead be strong and fight the bad feeling. Count your other blessings and you will realize that you are a lot luckier than those people who were born physically defective, those who are the poorest and those who don't have someone to ask for help.

thank you for your respnse. my mom love job's story and always holds on to God's promise as well. i know this will pass but sometimes it is just my human side that wonders why he would let things like this happen..

thank you, maybe it was really not part of the plan.. but there must still be something good to come out of this... =(

i wish God would find it in his eyes that i am pleasing enough that he would life me up and make me feel wonderful and loved again.

hi there neil. i believe this has been the case because we know that God is supposed to prevent things from happening and if he did not do so, he could have put this as part of the plan. Well you are right and that we should really be the only ones who can hurt us. but sometimes there are things beyond our control, like what other people do, for example.

yes, beyond our control and like what others do, but not God's.

Yes, I think so that is true. People around us did cause the pain. There is always the choice the had to make, and they can choose not to hurt us but they did. How come God did not interfere at the right time so we'd be spared from all these? =( I hate the idea that everyone suffers, not consoling at all even though every one goes through the same things, like being hurt, suffering... but it just makes us feel so ordinary... always an open target... I hope i can walk my life better from now on, always ready to spot what would make me feel hurt; Thank you for your movie suggestion. I'd wish i would be able to find it and watch it too. :D

i really appreciate your response to my discussion. I have been feeling really low, for the past week i feel i have been crying everyday and the pain is never a tear less. its always the same weight. maybe i will just think of it in the same way as many people have always - people who survived the same, or even worst experiences than mine. thank you very much for your understanding of my hurts too, i shared with with my family and they were so angry and i think their thoughts of the situation was rather biased; and was not logically thinking too. i know they are protecting me but i just needed someone to listen to me and not nag at me like my mom is doing and its hurting me more...

thank you Harold. Yes, he fell right into it. He's not srong... He is not the person i thought i knew and i am sorry i spent my time with him... I just want to know how i can get over this really soon; I just want to have a selective amnesia or something... i want to forget all this... to move on. God be with us all the time, and amidst all this i hope he's really embracing me, comforting me in his arms.

i hope this test is to be done already. i think i have had a lot of this already in my life. way too many than i could handle.

I know that you will rise above all these problems that you are encountering in your life. A gentle reminder Chiyosan, Our God is BIGGER than all our problems put together..we need not be afraid. Like you I had huge struggles at the past. not only that..another problem comes just when the current problem is not yet resolved. You can just imagine how distress I am. To wit, my father lost his job weeks after I resigned from mine, my sister is graduating in college and we have to pay for her tuition if we want her to graduate, my brother got imprisoned because he and a few his friends robbed a jeepney and my mother got rushed to the hospital upon knowing of my brother's arrest. And because none of us are working, we have to rely on other people's provision in order to survive. We've been like that for more than a year! Throughout our ordeal, we've been humbled. I can say that we've been greatly tested. Just looking back at the past often make me cry. But knowing that the Lord is within reach, we don't have to feel alone. So I hope that whatever struggle that you are having right now, you will not forget to call on HIM. He will help you, just as He did with me.

I am sorry to hear about this cowgirl. I can feel that i am in the same situation as you. I am wondering why did God have to test him, we were doing great, we were supposed to be together good, with no worries.. =( I do not know what to do, im confused as much as i am hurt. I hope you too do well. You have a choice, and i hope you make the right one... can you not try to patch things up with this man? I believe you still love him and you can do something about it, right?

yes, maybe this is just one of the tests i will have to take in my course called life. I want to pass it with flying colors, actually and i am hopeful... i want to be happy... i want to know that feeling again... i want to be free from this misery that is always on my head. i hope to get out of it... Ah my prayer does contain this wish that i would be well again.