how to know if a guy likes you?

Philippines
September 29, 2011 1:18am CST
hello. . i need your opinion on how to know if a guy likes you. .i have this girl friend who has a guy friend. .they keep on chatting or even text each other. .my girl friend told me that she started to fall in love with this guy. .she even makes the guy jealous like she has a date with another guy. .sometimes the guy get jealous but sometimes he will just say okay good luck with your date. .guys, i need to know your opinion on how to know if the guy likes you. . Thank you and God bless us all. .:)
10 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
29 Sep 11
Your friend will know if he tells her straight away or if she asks him straight away. Let him answer with a yes or no. As long as she is playing these stupid games she will never know. If you really think he will tell her he loves her madly if she plays those games or has respect for her because she dates with each time an other guy she is a fool. Men don't see that as a hint. If I was a guy I would never tell her my feelings if she did that too me. How difficult can it be if you chat (you don't have to look someone in the eyes) to ask if he is in love with her or to tell him she is in love with him?
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• Philippines
29 Sep 11
thank you for your response . well, actually my friend did not date with another guy she just tell that to know if the guys got jealous or not. .
@r03249 (357)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
I can relate to this. :) Exactly my situation now but the difference is that I know he likes me because he already told my best friend but not me. :) You can try and ask the guy to help your friend.
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
thank you for giving me that idea. .i will try to ask the guy so that i can help her . . God bless
@r03249 (357)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Yes, indeed. And if ever they guy likes your friend, then maybe you can advise him to talk to your friend and tell his feelings already. Play some cupid. xD
@keihimekawa (2010)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
I'm really not sure with this. My sixth-sense when it comes to guys are a bit low XD But then, please let me share my own 2-cents on this matter. Personally, I really don't think a guy would like me UNLESS he tells me face-to-face that he does. I HATE assuming things :P I'm currently working and have quite a lot of guy friends whom I'm really close with. I do exchange text messages frequently with them, hang out with them, ride the same train/bus/commuter vehicle with them, etc. Some even place their arms over my shoulder but I don't really think much about it since I treat them as "buddy-buddy" type. In my perception, if you don't like to get hurt then don't expect too much. Don't treat small actions in a "romantic" kind of way. I always take things easy :) I don't know if it works for all but this is how I am :)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
thank you for your response. .guess you're right maybe my friend assume too much that the guy likes her. .maybe the guy look at her as his close friends. .i should also tell my friend not to assume too much about the guys action or the way he treat my friend. . God bless
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• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Yup. That's right. Too much expectation might lead to disappointment so it's better to not have high expectations :)
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
It's hard to tell how to tell of determine if a guy likes or loves you. Each guy differs from each other. There are guys who are really sweet and caring and you might mistaken the gesture as liking or love, but it is their nature..natural behavior. So..it is not easy to tell if a guy likes or love you. Just wait till he propose and say that he loves you..that's the best way to know.
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
thank you for a nice response . .you're right we will not know if the guy likes my friend until he tell its to my friend God bless
30 Sep 11
Hi there, I'm 32 years old and not very proud of my past experiences with guys, but at the end everyone of those experiences left you a learned lesson and that's what I will share with you hoping it will be helpful for your girl friend to make a decision. When you share in your message that your friend met this guy and after the time they had share together by chat or texting she thinks is falling in love with him, and you are trying to find out how to know if he likes her too, well my advise is that you could tell your friend that she has to try to share more time with him, but in person, not just by chat or text cause in that way she can see how he acts and talk with her in front of him, must of the guys can't hide what they feel about a girl, they can show their interest on you by touching your hands, your hair, or trying to give you a kiss for a reason or not one at all, also she can realize how he acts when he sees another girl crosing, all the details that she can see on a date with him is one way to find out his feelings for her, so tell her not to rush about thinking that she is in love with him, maybe she is just confused for the time he is dedicating on answering her chats or texts but that doesn't mean love, tell her to be careful not to get hurt by expressing him righ away how she feels about him, if she doesn't have at least a clue of what he is feeling for her. I hope this will help you and your friend to make the best decision.
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
thank you for the response. .maybe shes not in love shes just attracted with this guy because the guy share his story about his ex and family. .and maybe the guy needs only someone who can understand him and someone who can comfort him. .
@singuri (571)
• India
29 Sep 11
So many will try for the girls but never believe them some are playboys some will be truthful but its not that much difficult of finding the people who are true first never believe if they keep on praising you and make sure he is telling all the truth about his personals. Try to get contact with his friends and get information about him after that if that guy is still around you then you can decide.
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
exactly that he keeps on praising my friend and always tell my friend that he only shares his life to her but if my friend ask him to go out with the guys friend the guy will refuse. .that it means that he hides something that my friend should not be able to know?
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
It's really hard to tell. I learned that hard way to never assume, especially when it comes to guys. I once fell in love with a guy, and I thought he feels the same way. And this guy, I always talk to face to face, we share stories, we go out, he talks about his past, and I just listened (that's coz I don't have anything to share yet, at that time). Then, he left town, and I never heard from him again. So I was lost, I thought we had a connection, I thought he felt the same way. A few years later, I saw him again, and he talked to me like nothing happened. I found out that, that he is just the way he is, friendly and enjoys a good company. Good thing I am already over him during that time. So if your friend is brave enough to ask him if he feels anything towards her. then tell her to ask him now, before she feels deeper in love. And if he feels the same way, good for both of them, she would have them from saved a lot of confusion. But she also has to be ready if the guy doesn't feel the same way, she might lose a friend. But hey, she has you anyway! =)
• China
30 Sep 11
It depends which kind of person he is.If he is extravert it will easy to tell if he likes you or not by his emotional behavior.If he is introvert,it just cant tell by a single move even hard to tell if he likes you or not.
@sunli123 (540)
• China
30 Sep 11
I don't know. I fell in love with someone at the first sight and I thought he had the same feeling with me. I confessed but I was wrong, I might just misunderstand his statements and actions. So my suggestion to your girlfried is, just tell the guy her true feeling if she really falls in love with him. Good luck to her.
@danitykane (3192)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
hello mhel, Have they met before? LOL. it's silly to ask that but I just wonder if they really have good communication other than thru chat or texting. Anyway, if they've been seeing each other and constantly going out and having chats and all in a way they must have been like each other. I am no expert about guys but I can say that someone might have interest on you if he is spending some quality time with you. Or taking his time to see you or be with you. When I guy gets jealous it might be two things, he is just playing that he is jealous because he is a huge flirt or he is telling that girl that he really likes her.