How do you react to success?

@JosephP (1116)
Jamaica
October 2, 2011 9:53pm CST
Being successful is a great pleasure. Different people handle it differently. Some gloat to people, others simply keep it to them self. Some use their success to help bring others success. How do you handle it?
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
3 Oct 11
It depends a lot. If it is about sports, I am very happy, I scream and dance from happiness. When it is about learning, I am just content, when I get good results in my exams. If it is about money, it depends on the amount I have won or made. It depends a lot, but every type of success lifts the spirit and does a great deal to the moral. The more successful a person is, the more confidence he has and I think successes bring successes with them.
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• Romania
4 Oct 11
I am very glad that you feel this way. I think this happens because of my high school education where I have studied a lot of logic, philosophy and other subjects like this, which makes one's mind work and think about abstract things as well.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Yes I have also found that philosophy has a huge impact on a person's thinking ability!
@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
I like reading your responses rappeter. They are always well thought out. I agree completely with what you said my friend.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
3 Oct 11
I have come to that stage in life where neither success or failure creates any emotion either of joy or unhappiness.This is mainly because i have come onto the spiritual path since over 20 years and now my mind does not react to material gains or losses.There is a total sense of tranquillity ,calmness and equaminity in all kinds of situations and circumstances.
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@veejay19 (3589)
• India
4 Oct 11
hello joseph, you can call it part destiny and part hard work.I am practising a secret yogic discipline called Kriya Yoga since the last 20 years and this has brought me to such a state.If you want to know more.I recommend you to read 'AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A YOGI' by Paramahansa Yogananda.This is the book that lead me as well as millions of people all over the world to practise this sadhana.It is available all over the country and in all Indian as well as foreign languages.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Thank you for the recommendation my friend I am very grateful. I will be sure to get this book!
@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
My friend, what you describe sounds very beautiful and peaceful. How did you achieve this state of mind? I would love to be like that.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
handling success by taking care of it, and don't forget the people who helped you, and if you have time, you have to help them too, not just by words, they will be shocked because they are not aware one day in turn you offer them good gifts and opportunities too....
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Yes I try to do this also. It is nice to help people in need.
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 11
The first thing that I do when I'm being successful on something is I will be grateful and praise God for everything that He gave to me.. Later, I am willing to share some happiness to people. Either by treating them, or maybe simply just sharing my success story, so people can learn from my experience or might follow my way..
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@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 11
Sharing our success stories to people is great. It is mutually beneficial for you and for people . By sharing your story, people will ask some question. And by that question, you will learn more, and sometimes you'll find out your own mistake that you'll never realized before... At least, I feel it that way when I was sharing my stories to people.. :)
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Yes I have also experienced this. Sometimes I tell people how I reached my success and they show me an even simpler way it could have been done... two heads really are better than one
@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Being thankful is very wise in my opinion. And sharing your experience so that others may learn from it is very kind my friend
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
3 Oct 11
Well, I tend to keep a low profile so I don't tend to boast about my achievements. Like at school and I get the highest mark for a class, I don't jump for joy and let everyone know. I find that a little too showy so I tend to just keep it to myself and be happy inside. But my friends always find out about my achievements and blurt it out for the world for me. My friends are pretty loud and they tend to boast about their success but blurting out my success too. I feel really uncomfortable when people know of my success because they will expect me to achieve again next time and what if I don't? Just a little paranoid.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
I know the feeling. When people see what you can do it becomes expected of you. Sometimes it is wiser to keep it on the down low.
@bnpraveen (172)
• India
4 Oct 11
hai friend being successful is a great pleasure it is identity of hard-work,and smart. many of them wont be successful even though they work hard,need to be smart always. i will take my success serious because i need to work more to be successful for my next goal.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Yes you are right, success comes from a balance of smart and hard work. I wish you best of luck and many successes.
• United States
4 Oct 11
Yes those views are important
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I spread the word of success and also help others become successful too if at all possible.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
9 Oct 11
I just take it in stride. A valuable lesson that I can learn and know that some particular success works. I allow that success to structure my next step, bringing myself to the very next goal. Whatever that goal will in fact be. There are going to be a lot of times where that success can be a stepping stone for any future success whatever that may be. I think that I remain humble because if you gain arrogance, you can blow that success. With a few missteps everything is going to be set back underneath everything that you are ever going to do to say the very least. Therefore it is important to be humble and going to be able to get each and everything done that really needs to be done. Success can be a new beginning or the beginning of the end.
@sanofer (525)
• India
3 Oct 11
success is the result of our long time hardwork towards achieving our goal.i will share that happy moment with my family and friends.i use to go to an orphanage and distribute sweets and money to the people in an orphanage to share my happiness with them.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
That sounds really beautiful. Sharing the happiness you get from your success is truly a kind act. It is like everyone is experiencing your success
• Malaysia
3 Oct 11
for me,i just spend some more time to success,yet following others succesful person as an example,get some advice and share good opinion with others also part to be success :)
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
I believe that is a good thing to do. Advising people on how to reach success is a very kind act.
@ranilo70 (177)
3 Oct 11
Helping others is a success. Helping them achieve their goals is a success.
@tpisces (66)
• United States
4 Oct 11
Success is very furtunate in so many different ways everybody in this world has 1 more talent that there successful at. Alot of people celebrate have a party or go out to eat. Some people educate themselves more. Being successful is a joy, Just thinking about being successfull should be a daily day activity in other words its a positive aspect. I like to celebrate with successful people around me