the beauty and the beast

Romania
October 7, 2011 11:12am CST
I was talking to a friend and a couple passed us by...she was extremly beautiful (guys might say hot)..but him..let's just say not that beautiful. so I was wondering should beautiful people stick with those who look the same...we were wondering what she sees in him? I know it might sound superficial but it was simple curiosity
5 responses
• United States
7 Oct 11
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's not what you can see but what you can not see. True beauty is within ones heart. She probably sees someone that really cares and isn't just out to get one thing. I believe everybody deserves to be loved and looks aren't what makes a relationship.
• Romania
7 Oct 11
the problem is that most of the girls that look the way she did don't actually look for love...I know that they aren't to be judged but it was pure curiosity..we are girls and we like to gossip. anyway if she thinks the way you said she should be appreciated
• United States
7 Oct 11
Yea. I'm not trying to judge either but I agree. Most girls like that aren't looking for love. I have seen plenty of girls looking for little week long relationships and they just hop around from guy to guy. It's sick and it's wrong. However, If she is looking for love in this boy and she sees him for who he is and accepts him for himself then she should be appreciated for it.
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
7 Oct 11
I can tell you what she sees in him: it's his inside. I can also tell you that many (handsome) men don't like to have a real beauty as a girlfriend or wife. Most men are afraid she will leave them again or they don't like other men to look at her or give her attention. Only men with enough self esteem don't care/are not afraid of that. There are more beautiful (and high educated) women single as normal or "ugly" ones. I think that already says enough.
• Romania
7 Oct 11
yes you;re right I noticed this thing too. we had a classmate that was extremly beautiful..and she was sorrounded by guys...but she didn;t have eyes for them. she was in love with one..and she made her suffer..I never tought that a girl like that could suffer and that a guy could treat her like that
@huilichan8 (1379)
• Singapore
7 Oct 11
I hv heard that people who look gd normally wld end up with those who don't. I hv observed that to be true. Maybe the gal you mentioned was attracted by his personality? Or maybe she was attracted by his charm? I believe that a person can be charming even if he's not gd-looking. I hv come across guys who hv a certain charm even though they're not gd-looking.
• Romania
7 Oct 11
from my point of view a man doesn;t necessarely have to be beautiful..he has to have a certain thing..that thing that makes him different from others. maybe he was that kind of a guy..anyway as I said we were just curious
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
when i was really young, I do wonder and laugh at them. But as I grow older I realized that we all have no right to judge people based on their physical appearance. 'Though for some people they look really ugly, you never how good that person's personality that makes him or her beautiful for their partners. I am not selective based on what I see outside, I first know them then only I can say whether this person is pretty or ugly.
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Some girls don't think that way. I have a friend who is beautiful who had two boyfriends in the past who were not that good-looking. In this case, the girl simply thinks that they are of the same level with her in terms of looks, and she probably isn't aware that she is that beautiful. Another reason might be she is insecure, having a very gorgeous guy as a boyfriend is threatening to their relationship. If a guy is gorgeous, many girls tend to flirt with him, and that is something a girlfriend hates. In some cases still, it's not the guy that the girl likes, but the insides of his pockets and the car he drives. I don't want to think about the negative stuff though. Many girls are not after the looks anyway. There are some guys who aren't good looking but are very beautiful inside. With that said, it's no wonder that any girl would fall for that kind of guy despite his looks.