i feel so jealous everytime his ex come to his mind.

@bubuth (1815)
Philippines
October 17, 2011 11:45pm CST
My bf keep on telling me stories about him and his ex-girlfriend..i think he is still inlove with her...
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9 responses
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
I know how it feels and I can see that you really love her because you feel so jealous. Why is he like that? I also hate that whenever my boyfriend is telling me stories about his ex. Its so annoying and I can feel that he is still in love with her. Anyway, confront him but in a nice way. Ask him why is he telling stories about his ex if he said that it was just nothing and he doesn't love his ex anymore, then tell him not to mention his ex whenever you're having a conversation. Tell him that you feel jealous. Tell him that what if he is in your shoe? That what if you told him about your ex too? How would he feel? In that way maybe he would understand how you feel whenever he's telling something about your ex. I hope this advice would work for you. Anyway, this is what I did when I still have a boyfriend and the flow of our relationship went strong. Anyway, I know it would be fine. If he really loves you he'll listen to you.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
thanks for the advice..=) i will try it...=)
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
18 Oct 11
If he is not ready to forget about his ex then whats the use of loving u.even though we had some feelings about our ex we should not share with whom we are loving now. It wil make them feel dis comfortable and inferiority and jealous within themselves. If he is not ready then u can quit. Love is about mutual understanding ask him to understand u and do the things which u like and avoid the things which u dont like.
• Indonesia
18 Oct 11
I think if your BF always telling stories about him EX-girlfriend, meaning he still love him ex-girlfriend, maybe he had a long relationships with his EX, so very hard/difficult to him for forgot him EX. But that not mean he does not love you. I think, it's necessary for you to talk nicely to your BF. Said to him that you mind if he often talk to you about him Ex-girlfriend.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
18 Oct 11
May be there is no compromising regarding this. Love cant be double if we truely loves someone. Womens always possessive about their mens. Wil ur boy friend accept u if you are talking about some boys often. Love is kind of understanding and sharing about each other. If third person involving in that then it wil always creating problem.
@GemmaR (8517)
18 Oct 11
I think that, when you get into a relationship with somebody, there should be some kind of agreement that you don't talk about your ex partners because at the end of the day it is one of the most upsetting things that people can do to each other, and it's a shame really because a lot of our ex partners were large parts of our past. I talk about on of my ex partners, because we were always more like friends than partners, and my current partner 100% respects and understands this which makes things a whole lot easier for us both.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
That depends on how he tells you about his past. As long as he is not comparing you with his ex- it's fine. He is only sharing their past and feel comfortable sharing it with you. Try to listen to him...and ask few question to show that you are not affected and that you understand him. have a good day
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
i think that you should tell your boyfriend that you are not interested in hearing about his ex girlfriend. i would tell him that if i were you. i will understand if he has been with her for a long time but i will prefer if i am now in the mind of my boyfriend instead of her. i will also get jealous if he always do it.
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
I don't think that your BF is still in love with his ex-girlfriend . .Maybe he just want to share about the past and for you to know also about it . .Just trust your BF. .If he still want to see his ex-girlfriend then that another story. .
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
Hmmm.. I don't think that it's fair to say that everyone who talks about their past girlfriends or relationships is still in love with them. I for once talk much about my past but that doesn't mean I still love him. Although, it would be good for you to talk to him about it. You have to tell him that you are not comfortable with him talking about. Perhaps the main reason why he's talking about the things they did is because you never reacted. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
Don't conclude that your bf still loves his ex..He loves you and he talks about his past because he feels that he is comfortable talking about it with you.We cannot control our partners if they would talk about their past,if you're okay with it then listen to him if not then tell him to stop talking about it,if he loves you then he will understand what you are feeling..%-)
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
i don't think it is appropriate to tell stories about ex's..i mean, there can be conversations that ex's may be involved, but not all the time..as if you are reminiscing the moments you were together.. past reltionship are considered past..never bring them to your present.. maybe you should open that one with your bf..you two should talk about it learly..he must also know what you feel every time he talks about them..