What happen when someone stopped believing??
By xxj3ffxx
@xxj3ffxx (501)
Australia
November 3, 2011 11:57pm CST
Well.. my story is quite long.. I will try to keep it short. I have a girl that i met 2years ago and again we met 2months ago while I was in Holiday in Malaysia. Am now in my home country. We chated a lot these few months until i can feel that there is something wrong with her... I promised her that I will meet her again in the future and she in her turn promised me that she will wait for me.
But recently she told me "I don't feel like talking...." At first i thought ok.. it might be a bad day for her and she dont want to talk. I was like.. fine..tomorrow we shall chat again. Then the next day..she didnt show up.. the third day.. she didnt show up. Does that mean that she stopped believing? regretting her promise?
I'm such in a sad mood because of this. Please help me with some solutions to this.. Thank you guys
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Nov 11
Well maybe she has found something else to do. not someone else, alright?
You have to assess if you felt that she admires, or has feelings for you too like you have for her. Your relationship over the internet and chatting and meeting a couple of times is not an indication that it would be something worth keeping especially if you both are not trying to work it out as other relationships partners are. I always believe that it is important to meet them, spend time with them. to see them in person and not over chatrooms or cameras. that is a totally different thing.
I wish you goodluck and give her time to think (maybe she is thinking already about this) But wait for her to contact you first, just leave her a note that you have come to see her online but she did not show up for x number of days. just so she knows you have not given up yet. if she contacts in the next few days then that is the time you go and talk to her about what happened and what is bothering her.
Goodluck again!
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@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
4 Nov 11
Thanks for your advice and comfort Chiyosan.. I really appreciate it. It actually very hard for me to be in this kind of situation where you are powerless and dont know what to do...
Well.. waiting is all I can do for now until our next meeting
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Nov 11
xxj3ffxx It may be that she has meet someone else and now is sorry and does not know how to tell you. the problem with long distance romance is that sometimes one of them loses faigh and starts to look around and boom she falls or he falls for someone who is close by
so it takes two good devoted people to maintain a long distance romance. wait and seeit she contacts you.She may just have been ill or been called away to help a friend or relative. let her get in contact then talk it out. she needs to explain whats going on on her end of things.
