Friendship

India
November 5, 2011 10:53pm CST
Love or friendship is more thicker:?a best friend can be a lover or a lover can be a best friend?which brings the possessiveness among relations.?
8 responses
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
friendship to lovers is more easier to acquire, because you already new each others and the love can be much deeper and be lasting, while i think lovers to friendship is quite hard to do, unless both parties reconciles and they where strangers to each other before they become lovers, in that case they might want to become friends, so that they could start loving each other again.
• India
7 Nov 11
Yes yes.we can only love a good friend.so friend ship is the bridge to the island of love relation.but we have to differentiate between real friendship.also still there is a matter of possessiveness.as friendship pave to love it creates a narrowing of relations.isnt it??
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
I also experience both of them, when in being a best friend and then become a lover you will realize that even he/she is you best friend you still don't know lot of things about him/her and in being a lover and a best friend, not all the couple can end up in being a best friend because some of them are bitter. but in my case i already move on in my ex so when everything is okay we can become more closer because we know everything to each other but we stop communicating when our partner right now is getting jealous on us.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
8 Nov 11
Friendship is really important.I love my friends and they can do anything for me and do not betray me.Honestly,love means everything to us,but i do have great memories with my friends that i could not forget.I really should cherish it.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Nov 11
A lack of self esteem the fear to be alone will bring the posessiveness in a relationship. If you are sure about your feelings, if you feel save in your relationsship, if you have enough self esteem and a life of your own nothing can break your relationship. Even not the gossip of people who are envying you or can't feel happy for you.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
for me, friendship is more thicker of course..even if a best friend can be your lover, but when both of you decide to part ways, mostly, it's hard to rebuild the friendship that had.. it's better for a lover can be your best friend..because friendship always matter in a relationship..if both lovers grow old together, love and friendship make them bind together..
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
i don't quite understand... but i believe a person can be both lover and best friend!
• United States
6 Nov 11
Well i have to say, your lover can turn into your best friend. My husband is my best friend. But at first it wasn't about friendship, he was my lover. But in order for you to have a healthy, happy relationship/marriage that person has to be your friend. Because what happens when you start to get older and you start to gain weight and not be in your "prime" anymore. You have your best friend beside you.
• Pakistan
6 Nov 11
love and friendship goes together. BUT LOVE have and extra effect of intimacy.This brings the possessiveness among relations. But in real good relations ...there is a very little possessiveness.