careless thinking
@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
November 8, 2011 8:38pm CST
Im a careless person, Often, I do a lot of things that i should not do and more often I also fail to do the things that I ought to do. Like, Leaving my room key inside my room and ended up destroying the window just to get inside the room, which injured my right arm.
Well, its a win lose situation when we dont think carefully or act carefully, its always the same, even with words not thought of carefully could hurt or injure the hearts of other people. I always end up regretting things said because of no careful thinking, I hurt a friend many times because of tactlessness. I was also a victim of such carelessness. I got hurt so bad by someone a year ago, he accused me something that he said. it was so painfull I cant forget the very words he said. I have forgivien him but not yet forgotten. These wrong actions or irresponsible inactions can minor inconveniences or they can have serious lasting consequences.
Regrets, wrong words spoken, wrong actions and even not doing the right thing could mean a lot. God wants us to give careful thinking to our actions, words, and make decisions that bring glory to Him.
let us think about whats good
what's right and pure and true;
may God's word control our thoughts
in everything we do. - Fitshugh-
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Nov 11
I agree with you we have to be careful what we say and do. There are consequences for everything whether good or bad. Somethings that we do can affect us or others for the rest of our life. Our speech is very powerful and we have to be careful about the things that we say. We want to maintain good friendships with our friends and family and they won't want to be around us if we are always saying thoughtless things.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
11 Nov 11
Thanks, you have a wonderful day. My morning is going pretty well. Trying to get a lot done on mylot while my mom has my daughter. It helps a great deal to be able to work here and focus on mylot and try to earn more.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Nov 11
I agree with you we have to be careful what we say and do. There are consequences for everything whether good or bad. Somethings that we do can affect us or others for the rest of our life. Our speech is very powerful and we have to be careful about the things that we say. We want to maintain good friendships with our friends and family and they won't want to be around us if we are always saying thoughtless things.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
thank you for sharing my friend. speech is something that we do all day long and also we should be careful that we could encourage others with our words than be discouraged with it.
thank you for sharing and have a nice day.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
11 Nov 11
Yeah it is very important that we strive to be encouraging. There is so much negativity in the world and we don't need to add to it. There needs to be more positive thoughts and actions. This will greatly help and improve someone's day.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
yes that very true.
all we have to do is be cautious at all times.
And try to have that certain focus so that we wont regret int he end.
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
9 Nov 11
I think that if you recognise the fact that you have been careless that you are on the right path to correcting it. Make sure you stop and take a breath before you do things or say things. But all in all I think that at some point we have all done this so try not to be so hard on yourself. And if you make mistakes then ask forgiveness.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
Yes, im trying my best not to always forget anything that is very important and nothing bad would happen in the end.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
its a mistake that we all do and of course if we ask forgiveness God will forgive from our mistakes and we just have to allow the lesson to penetrate in our hearts and minds.
thank you for sharing and have a nice day.
God bless
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Yes very true..God give us mind to think what is good to do,and what wrong to not do and need to be careful in the next time..
And we know we are not perfect and can do things and sometimes the failure we have is the lesson to be doing the best in the next time..We are to careful of words,actions,and we need to know how to be right to others and also to God..
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
yes, i have learned my lesson many times. I got hurt and the scar of that event left a mark in my arm to remind me to always be careful and always be cautious at all times. I have also to forgive myself and be gentle since it was all my fault and all my wrong doing.
Thank you for sharing and have a nice day
@Browisn (782)
• United States
9 Nov 11
This is a good topic. I also do and say careless things that I latter regret. But, I believe if we know it was just a careless act and not done maliciously, we should not punish ourselves or others for these actions. God knows our inner thoughts. We do these things because we are mortal and not Gods. All He asks is that we try always to do good. That is why it is so important to forgive. We are accepting the humanity in those we forgive as we would want God to accept us.
Good luck with your carelessness.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Nov 11
wow, thank you for the compliment.
yes, i guess we all commmit the same mistakes and I just hope we could have a good heart about theses matters and be a blessing to others, but sometimes our earthy bodies get in the way and we lose our selves at times and then commit things we wish we just let slip away.
thank you for sharing and have a nice day.
@picjim (3002)
• India
10 Nov 11
What you say has a lot of relevance.We all say some things without thinking deeply or of the consequences.In this way we end up hurting others and getting hurt in return.I think we ought to hold ourselves for a few moments before we make off the cuff remarks.This will enable us to think about the consequences of our action.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
10 Nov 11
I think that we all have moments where we don't make the best decisions. Under supreme moments of absolute stress. Under supreme moments of foolishness. Jumping into the situation where we don't have all of the facts at hand. There are just going to really be many times where the lack of facts are going to be something that is going to really mess us up more than anything. That is going to really cause a lot of careless actions.
Of course, it is even more careless if the same mistakes are made constantly. That is the true measure of being rather careless to say the very least. There are many times where people do not simply learn and that is really the saddest thing of all. Hopefully we tend to guide us back to a more even path, by whatever means we deem to be necessary. It's not how we fall, it is how we bounce back and how we learn.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 Nov 11
sometimes we have this slight amnesia, sometimes it really funny and could sometimes cause us much trouble and ive tried that i regret forgetting.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Hello friend,i think not only you happen
it happens normally not only you
but if you will go out the room or where ever
you should to think what things you need to carry or before you luck the doors.
i twas happen me one time i close my room and the bad things happen is
i forgot to unplug the iron which is still on.
so be careful and think first it may cause accident sometimes.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Nov 11
yes thats what im afraid of, accidents that may cause fire and all. and not only me will be affected but also the people around me and other renters. Im just thank ful that when it happened nothing serious happened.
Thank you for sharing and have a nice day.
