a child of a friend...

Hi there... The lady needs to spend time with her husband... Working shouldn't be a problem. They need 'to have it' as much as they can... Making love is the only way to have children. If after 5 years, it is not working then they need to consult with doctor. And if nothing works, there is always the option of adopting a child...

Hi Mmgonzales, Welcome to Mylot! Well, the problem could lie with either her or her husband or it could be simply that their timing is off. There is no way for anyone other than a doctor to determine just why it is that she hasn't been able to conceive. I think that if your friend really wants a child then she should consult with her doctor. He will help her determine the problem and how to solve it.

Yesterday I saw a TV show where the couple spent 8 years trying to have a baby, and after a lot of treatments and analysis,they quit,the woman was over weight the doctor said that the reason was because the man doesn't produce enough sperms,but one day she decided to loose pounds because she was getting for her weight, then she had a surgery to reduce her stomach and after that lost 90 pounds, and she kept feeling bad of the stomach and always thought that was a consequence of the surgery, but one day the pain was as bad that her husband took her to the hospital and there she had her baby girl called Erika by them,she says that the reason she got pregnant was because she lost all of those pound, so on case that your friend is in overweight maybe if she loose some pounds this can help,of course she have to go to the doctor first.

I think your friend needs to consult a doctor. They can give suggestions on the things they need to do while on the act of making love. The proper position and the proper techniques would be suggested by the doctor. I have a female friend who got married with a guy 13 (I guess) years younger than her, after their marriage they consulted the doctor about it because she's really afraid that with her age she won't be able to conceive a baby. Now they have succeeded and the baby girl will be turning 2 soon.

I think they both,Husband and wife,need to go to a specialist to check on their condition.There could be a problem with their sperms or their body. I also have a cousin with the same situation as your friend.They girl works abroad and the guy stays and works here in the Philippines,they were married for about six years when they both seek guidance from a specialist,because every time the girl goes home for a vacation ,they always try to have a baby but nothing happens.The doctor after having them both check saw that the sperm of the guy is not so healthy to go to the egg the girl has.Doctor gave them vitamins, medicine and gave them date where working for a baby is almost 95 percent possible.it took them months of 2 months before they got so lucky to have what they are yearning for.:-) They named the baby Aimme from the word "aim me" .She is now 4 years of age and very talented little girl.