What friendship means.to you??????
By lijoos
@lijoos (346)
India
November 16, 2011 8:55pm CST
A-accepts you as you are
B-believes in you
C-calls just to say hi
D-does not give up on you
E-envisions the whole of you
F-forgives your mistakes
G-gives unconditionally
h-helps you
I-invintes you over
J-just to be with you
K-keeps you close at the heart
L-loves you for who you are
M-makes a difference in your life
N-never judges you
O-offers support
P-picks you up when you are down
Q-quiets your tears
R-respects you
S-say nice things about you
T-tells the truth when you need to hear it
U-understands you
V-values you
W-walks besides you
X-explains things you do not understand
Y-yells when you need to listen
Z-zaps you back to reality whats your opinion?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
14 responses
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
A friend is a friend even all the letters in the alphabeth is not available...someone who does not always encourage but gives you time to think your situations... Someone who is always on call like the doctor and always on duty if you need a hand... Ü
Too big to explain from letters A-Z... Ü
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I don't think that's a friend. I think that is a servant. lols. I don't know. but a friend has a life also. Unless that person is really have a very big favor to fill up to you. I don't think its good to expect your friend to be always their for you. I think your friend must put a line between being a friend and being someone to call every time theirs a problem.
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Your right my dear, a friend had their own life to live...that why i said its on call.... I can call on now the technology is too good for now... We can chat also now adays...lols... A minute is enough to console a broken heart... And not all people are having a heart like that...every one has different uniquness...and for that im so happy that with that category i have one... Ü
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 Nov 11
Accepting/respecting me the way I am. I think everything is said with that.
I don't care about the rest. Inviting me over has nothing do with friendship anyone can do that same with the rest.
Friends should not be there to fill every empty hole in your life because you can't do it yourself. This is what life is about. Making your own discisions, living it your way, to develop yourself, be responsible for yourself/own deeds and get as much life experience you can get.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I guess we need to accept others first if we want others to accept us. And the hardest part of accepting others is that sometimes we like that person but theirs something the way he or she acts that we also hate. In short we can find a perfect friend. Even if you have a friend that have the same character as you will also have hard time to be friend with each others.
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Definitely thats true...even a person as same as who we are we dont have an assurance that we are alike...hard time was always there thats make the friendship grow more and more until people reach a point that they will became bestfriend...as always say..thru thick and thin...Ü
@mayka123 (16582)
• India
18 Nov 11
For me friendship is the emotional safety and comfort I feel with someone. It is when I do not have to measure my words when communication with that person. It is when someone knows me better than I know my self and I am sure who will be by my side for moral support whenever I am going through an emotional crisis.
@luntian_grace (1373)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
the one stick around even if she doesn't have too... the one that would say "hey its not like the end of the world" when you screw things up... the one who's there just there... always.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Its hard to find a friend like that. And if you can find a friend like that chance is that your friend has either no close family but you or he or she is relying of you for sometime. Not monetarily but sometimes just for companionship. I know lots of friends who is far from family. That why we get closed. But when their family arrive we seldom see each other anymore.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
For me not fake like what you said in front in you if you back it is nothing to change or not plastic a person who is in there bad or not.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
plastic person? I don't think its worth it to be called a friend. As you said plastic. that means he is not real person. And that means he is not a real friend. I think if you really call that person a friend then I think its because you know what ever happen some how you can rely on that person.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
told you? or stole from you? Anyway. I do agree. I have lots of friends or do I? Its seems when I have lots of money I have lots of friends now that I don't have money I don't have any friends or at least before just one sms and I can see them. But now? Maybe in a year or two. lols
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
18 Nov 11
Friendship means that i always have someone to share with my sadness and happiness. Friendship means when you are at lost, you always have someone to consult with or get advice. Friendship means your life will never lonely any more. Life without friendship just as flowers can't enjoy sunshine.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Problem of friends sometimes is money. For me that's the greatest problem in friendship. Lets face it. 90% chance are one will always spend more than the others. For example food, ride, etc. If you and your friends watch movies. You pay for movie, the other one pay for snacks. And of course one will always spend more than the other. And the worse part is that when theirs an argument its will be a lengthy one. Especially if you are friend for a long time.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
A very detailed definition of friendship and I know a friend have all these realities.A friend is always at your side no matter what high or low. Have a ready shoulder for us to lean on when we our down.A person who gives support to any endeavors we have and the one who will never leave us if we thought all have abandoned us.
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
I agree with you! from A to Z lijoos! in other things, a friend is a truly treasurable one. One who knows everything in you and has the strength power to make us laugh and soothe away fears and sorrows in life. There is " No man is an Island" and so we are called to belong as God wants us to be. If all of us really means that alphabetically, i think no friendship will be wasted. If not at least, a give and take reaction to make it works better and lasting.
@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
17 Nov 11
Interesting tip for the A through Z friendship meaning.
A for Advice that a friend gives or we give advice to others
B for buddies
C for caring
D for Do well
E for entertainment, enjoyment
F for Fun, Forgiveness, Forever Friends,
G for Goodness, great friends
H for Helping Hand
I for You and Me LOL! I for Intelligence
J for Joyful, Jokes,
K for Friends for Keeps
L for Loving Friends/Friendship
M for Marvelous
N for Friend in Need
O for outstanding ovation
P for Friends in Pairs
Q for Friendship Quests
R for Richness in Friends
S for Special Friends
T for Trustworthy Friends
U for You!!
V for Victory!!
W for Wonderful
X for ?
Y for you
Z for ??
LOL! this my random list.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
I believe friendship is a serious thing. It is nice to have a friend who is true, respects you, loves you and most of all a friend who is always there for you. But don't worry if you don't have any friends with you, still you have you loving parents and God beside you. They are still can be considered as friends. You can lean on them.
@joni1215 (394)
• United States
17 Nov 11
That is a very good synopsis of friendship.
I agree all the way. One is very lucky to ever
find such a person. I am that sort of friend but
I find that few appreciate it. I think I am a romantic
and so many are not these days.I seem to attract the
opposite in friends. And some mistake my kindness as
being needy or clingy. So, good luck in finding you
a good friend.
