You love him. But he's gay!
By Aja103654
@Aja103654 (5646)
Philippines
November 18, 2011 8:08am CST
Reading the title alone may have already got you saying, "D@RN!"
Who knows how g@ys did it! They can't reproduce, obviously, but how come they are increasing every year? It's a mystery. Now, i did not set this discussion to offend any gay person or anyone at all. All I'm asking for are your views on this issue.
I know there are girls out there who have experienced falling in love for this awesome guy she met, maybe at work or at school. He's got great looks and a great smile to boot! He garbs himself in the latest fashion! He's neat and tidy from head to toe! Oh! And we almost forgot to tell you about his top grades and superb intellect! He's practically prince charming come to life!
There's only one thing that is keeping this girl from spending happily-ever-after with her prince charming though, and that is: He's g@y.
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Have you ever experienced this? Share your opinions.
To guys: maybe you have fallen for a lesbian? how would you feel in this situation?
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8 responses
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Honestly,i can tell if one is gay at first look..
No kidding.that is why i have not fall for a gay.
I also keep wondering,they do no ovulate but the numbers are increasing rapidly..
hmmmm. :-)
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Honestly.
I worked in a construction for 9 years,with all the goons and brute i worked with i know when one is not one of them.We always do that,guessing if one that comes along our way is homosexual.Modesty aside,I did not miss.Even one of our engineers :-D
I don't know but,i can say it really shows.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
That's good to know, tamirs. Some women find it heart breaking to know that the person they like is gay, someone they can never be with as their boyfriend. They could really use that skill you have.
@honor: I wasn't being specific enough. I meant it that they can't ovulate, so they can't be pregnant, but they are increasing. I put it there to add to the mystery theme i wanted to present in this discussion. I failed then.
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
19 Nov 11
No experience here but my friend has though! I actually haven't met a gay person in real life yet or maybe they're just closeted, who knows? Maybe the population is increasing as society has become a much more accepting and open-minded society compared to several years before when homosexuality was deemed as a major crime. But like you said, why is it the guys who really understand you, have the looks and everything have to be gay? My friend sometimes check out hot guys online and she found this amazing singer on you tube. She fell in love with him and stalked him on facebook just to find out he was gay! She started finding other guys on Tumblr only to find more gay guys she liked. She got very upset! It's funny when you do first find out unless you were pretty serious though, then that would be pretty upsetting. I thought it wasn't all that common but I guess it is then now @Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
XD Maybe women shouldn't fall in love with a person they don't know that much. You have to get to know a person to actually know that you are indeed and truly in love.
Make it a point not to fall for the looks alone. People are superficial nowadays, and maybe falling in love like that is one way of making us realize that we get to be so superficial at times. We fail to see what's inside, because we only look at the surface.
Thanks, triple! Now I've realized that this is what i really wanted the people to realize in this discussion!
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Many times I had a crush on handsome guys, whether in my school or at work and even with celebrities. And then later on I will learn that they're gays. I've just seen a new photo uploaded by my highschool crush and he's abs are really stunning now. But he's a gay, I've known that since we're in highschool. He's got his Kiwi boyfriend in NZ now.
But to clear it out, I don't question how gays or lesbians increased every year. I see them as normal person only. They're just given different hearts, maybe not their fault. It's really hard for them to try being straight when their hearts are made to be that way.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
It doesn't change the fact that it is still a mystery. The internet has posted theories about it, but no one can really tell why this is happening. They are bad people at all, just a bit different.
@besweet (9861)
• Ireland
18 Nov 11
I haven't fell in love with someone that's gay, but I have a few gay friends that are very smart and super fun. Pople can fall in love with a person without thinking if he/she is gay or not. I once liked a boy that had a long relationship, it's the same isn't it? He was not available anyway.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
We can love them, yes, but we can't expect them to love as back the way we love them.
@bewitchingmelody (366)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I know a friend who got "strike 2!" because she fall in love with a gay again. He does have the looks, great sense of fashion, tidy and etc. Most of all, he is a smart@ss.. I can't blame her. I once had a crush on one and believe me, it hurts a bit but after the long run, it makes me laugh.
Interesting discussion. Gays are indeed increasing now a days. I don't have a problem with that because they are very fun to be with and I love being with my gay friends. I even think that most of them are very successful in their career.
I am being careful in choosing the right guy now. I even ask one of my guy friends if he is gay or not. I have also made a mental note on things to watch out for in guys because he might be gay.
1. If he is good looking, neat, tidy, good sense of fashion
2. Listen to his voice and observe for his behavior if it is too feminine
3. If he is usually with girls than guys
4. If he never had a girlfriend
5. If he is smart and has superB grades
Yepz! They are near Prince Charming. Too bad they are homosexuals. I still love being with them. ^_^
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
@Bmelody: my thoughts exactly. Falling for a man who is actually gay may be hard to accept at first, but then you'll get over it eventually and laugh about it. Other times, you even become good friends with that person, and it's not all that bad.
@3honor: You're right. Many of them are coming out. When they see each other, i think they would know that the other man is a homosexual like them. But for girls who are straight, they sometimes get fooled by the looks of this gay men and fall for them.
It's more difficult for gays, because men are tough on them.
@inlovewithmyself (59)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Hi,
Never experience a relationship with a gay but I have a friend who's husband is a double blade but they are still together now for 13 years.They have a son and as I look at them they are both happy.
Maybe they know how to handle their relationship.Happy mylotting!!!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Homosexual maybe more sensitive towards each other, i think that is why they succeed in their relationship. Straight people shouldn't be biased against them, because many straight people fail in their relationship. They ought to learn from people like gays and lesbians about how they remain happy in one relationship for a long time.
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
19 Nov 11
honestly speaking, i have never met any gay in person and i don;t know how do they feel or behave. falling for them is out of question for me. but obviously i can understand how heart broken a girl could feel if she gets to find that his prince charming is not at all interested in her or for matter any other girl and is more interested in a guy.
@super80 (19)
•
23 Nov 11
Human desires are sometimes not able to hold, despite overwhelming sense of desire, such a situation if happens to me trying to hold back. although the hormone is our innate from birth, but still trying not to be so out of our nature
