A Loner among millions...

Your problem is that you count on others to make you feel happy. You will only get rid of this feeling if you are able to live your life alone. If you are willing to make yourself happy/feel great/pamper yourself every day. If you decide to be happy from now on no matter what. Lonely people are not the kind of people others love to be around with, they are not attractive. You will suck a lot of energy from them, also from a lover if you expect that lover to be the one, to make you feel great. I was there too, years ago. I also know that that I was most lonesome and felt most miserable with people around me, in a relationship. Since I left, are living my own life (hard or not) I am way happier. It's me who decides what to do, how to handle. I like to be alone, do my things and most of all: I never feel lonesome anymore. Not one single minute. And you know what? Now I am suddenlyh very attractive to many people.

I know you will not believe me but I was in your shoes. My heart was broken and I thought I would Never be happy again. I thought I was Suppose to Always be unhappy.But a friend told me what I am going to tell you. You are worthy of being happy. If she is really gone , then she wasn't The One. You have to grieve the lost . You Have to go through it so you can come out the other side. Once I realized that my ex wasn't the guy for me and that I Do deserve to be happy And I was willing to keep my heart open and try again, That's when I found the love of my life. So please just take the time to mend your heart and keep it open. I know you can be and Will be happy.

You can be happy on your own you know. Sometimes I wish I was on my own and I'm sure others do too. Embrace your freedom..that's certainly one way of looking at it and the ONLY way of looking at it. Sure, being lonely can be difficult (and I should know) but you have your health and a job too, right? Happy days!

You're not alone.There many people who feels the same way as you do especially after a break-up.My friends and I feel the same way after we broke up with the persons we love.We feel alone even if we are in the middle of thousands of people because you're heart only longs for that someone you love ,who doesn't care about you anymore.I think the best thing we can do is to keep ourselves busy and take our time to heal.One day,we can can get over it and find happiness again.

I feel for you Mr_Pearl. I have been where you are and it truly is a miserable place. You are asking for help but I can't help but wonder if you are truly open to it? Happiness is not outside of you. That is why all the begging and pleading in the world will not take you there. It is a choice, a decision you have to make. I know it's easier said than done , still it is possible. You have to look inside and look at yourself and see who you really are. And love that person. I guess learn to like this person first. Do for yourself what you want others to do. When you walk down the street learn to see love in the flowers, the birds, the happy faces and when you look in the mirror smile at yourself. Tell yourself nice things. It may take a while but it will change you.

I am one among those too I love the way you express your loneliness. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean I like you to just be lonely so you can write it beautifully. It's just that, I have felt every words you said here. Again, I was reminded that I am lonely and alone.

It is not really that bad to be alone and single like you want to believe, sometime it is alright. Just be happy and feel good, God is there for you.

have you tried eating chocolates lately? they said, chocolates contains something that acts as a mood enhancer. Well, this may not take out your worries away but at least you'll face it with an upbeat mood. Just don't over do it.

There's no loner among millions of people. Just that fact u chose to share your feelings here and with comments coming back to u, it goes ow well received u are by others, and your friends. Love need not come from your partner. Love comes in many forms, including those from friends, parents, to even pets and animals. A good hearted, kind person will never be a loner because nobody choose to distance themselves to u, unless u distanced yourself from them.

Hi, please know that you are not alone who feels like that and there are millions. You need a partner with whom you can share every tinsie winsie incident of your life. It just fills the gap. Also the partner should be chosen correctly or you will end up being more miserable than you are now.

i have been alone for a long time. and i love to be alone..i love loneliness..because whats else i can do . its sometimes...a nice to be... but it hurt sometimes..