Someone to trust in life

Thiruvananthapuram, India
November 23, 2011 9:21am CST
It is a futile attempt to search for someone whom you can trust wholly. The modern way of life has brought with it all the foibles of living.Life in its entirety seems to be a sum total of incorrectness,blemishes, violations,ill breeding and what not ....In return for one's virtuous intentions only vile allegations are obtained. There are no one to trust...family members...siblings...friends..acquaintances ..............
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Nov 11
I actually think that there are some people that you will encounter in your life that you are actually able to trust. However, those people are very few and very far between. For me, I think there are only three people in the world that I can wholly trust. The first person that I can trust is my mother. The second person that I can trust is my husband and the third person that I can trust is my best friend.
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• India
25 Nov 11
Dear brother: Rousseau had said that man is born free but everywhere he is in chains. We have compulsions and are duty bound to fulfil our responsibilities at individual level, collective level, societal level, national and international level. I do not accept that no one can be trusted. See, if you are good, most people will be good to you. I go for a morning walk and have made friends in the park and their age is between 39 to 80 plus years. After a 45 minutes walk,we interact for 5 minutes sitting under a hut made in the park itself and we all look forward to that 5-10 minutes discussions. This is the trust. Money is no doubt emerging as primary concern in the modern way of living, and most people calculate your networth by the amount of properties or assets you have but believe me education also never goes waste and you get recognition in your day today ventures for your valuable contribution. Be positive with a right attitude. That is my message to you. With best wishes.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
23 Nov 11
pessimistic are you? hardly realistic that is there is always yourself to trust and someone other than yourself to trust they are just very rare but not impossible to find I have found a few other than myself to trust I'm sure you will too someday
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Well it seems that we live in a world where trusting is not that easy. In fact there are times even our own family can't be trusted anymore. However I do believe that there are still people who can still be trusted. As for me I'd always make it a point that I am one of those who can be trusted and will always teach people within my reach)to do the same thing.
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@celticeagle (159227)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Nov 11
The way to find someone to trust in this life is not to settle. You set up boundaries and makes sure through exact communication what you need and want. And allegations are just that. There should be someone in your circle of friends that you can trust. In today's world of selfish, self serving people they are hard to come by.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
23 Nov 11
Most important you must trust yourself. If you are trust worthy you will attract others who are also that way. What is missing is knowing the other person's point of view. Each of us has goals in this life and others should take into consideration the fact that these goals are primary in our lives. If you can know the goals of others you will find trust in the fact that they are working toward those goals. When you feel someone has been untrustworthy if you can look closely you will find that you misunderstood their goals. Communication is the key here.
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@celticeagle (159227)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Nov 11
I think that attitude has alot to do with it. If you go into searching for someone with a positive attitude and feel that life does have something fine and good to offer then you have a much better opportunity of finding someone who is trustworthy and have a relationship of value.