seducing by other woman..

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
November 25, 2011 9:47pm CST
what if your lover seduce by other woman,will you blame you lover for that or will you blame the woman who seduce your partner?what would you feel for that?will you be insecure to that woman??? is this happen in your real life??and what did you do??
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9 responses
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
Both of them are to be blamed. First, your lover should not be tempted by that woman no matter how strong the temptation is if he have strong feelings for you. Second, that other woman should must not seduce your guy since the guy is already chained to you. Except maybe if the other woman does not know the guy's status, that's another story. Being tempted is a sign that the guy has no strong bond between the two of you.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
thanks for sharing,thats the problem what if the guy never tell to the woman that he is already committed to his girlfriend.
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Then I think the blame should be on the guy and not on the other woman. That shows no love at all.
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
There are a lot of aspects to consider in this situation. For me, I am an insecure person if my boyfriend ever happened to be seduced by another woman, ofcourse, I would feel insecure and jealous. But if your boyfriend is not tempted by the woman then there is no reason for you to feel insecure. Maybe the other woman is just playing around and crazy since doing such thing like seducing is an immoral act. Unless, you're seducing your husband or boyfriend. But if you're seducing someone else's husband or boyfriend, I think that's bad thing. I don't really tolerate people who are like that.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
thanks fort sharing,me too i will feel jealous too and a little bit insecure too,LOl,
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
i would blame them both. seduction is for the weak.. when they can be seduced then it meant that they are weak and that they have allowed other people to break the relationship.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
I blame both. As they say it takes two to tango. I am a woman and i wouldn't seduce a man who i think don't have an iota of interest in me. And as for men, they usually take the bait especially if the woman looks irresistible. Now, if the man refuses, then good for him, if the woman won't seduce then better. But as i've said, it takes two to tango so i won't blame just one of them but both.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Dec 11
Well, that would depend on what your lover did. If he was overwhelmed by the other woman's seduction, and wound up doing something with her, then they are both to blame. But if your lover did not do anything then the other woman is to blame. This has never happened to me, but I am sure it's not a good feeling.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Of course, that's very normal nowadays. I think the blame will be to both of them. If my boyfriend really loves me, he should not be seduced by other woman for he is considering my feelings in the first place.I also blaming that other girl for there is no issue between me and my boyfriend if she did not take an action that makes my boyfriend be seduced. I really really hate those kind of women for they are also women and yet they should know also the feelings to be betrayed.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
26 Nov 11
I am a guy, so should I be answer it a woman's side opinion? If that is the case, I would probably blame on the man, but before I would do that, I would ask whether I should take partial of this blame before I accused him of infidelity? Maybe I be the one push him away? If not, your man is such an unworthy person to consider to spend the rest of your life with. Good luck!
• Indonesia
26 Nov 11
waw... it was horrible! I am a man, but if i see that reality, i became probably going to hate him. Only you should know, that the man is basically the same as women... having weaknesses and strenghts, specially in love!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Nov 11
You mean if my partner is cheating on me? Then I kick him out unless I agreed with it ofcourse. I have an agreement with my partner not with the rest of the world. If he can't handle it, he is wrong. Why should I blame someone else for that? He is an adult not a baby. Yes it did happen in my real life and not only once and both I kicked out and both regret. But exit = exit and over = over.