Baby Moshe, 26/11, and expectations...

@vandana7 (98866)
India
November 26, 2011 3:04am CST
For those who do not know who Baby Moshe is, he is a young child ...jew, who did not know to which religion he belonged at the time when his parents were killed by terrorists on 26/11 in Mumbai's Taj hotel - just three years ago. So..here is my question.. What did Moshe's parents plan to make him? A doctor, a pilot, an engineer, a commando, a priest, a chartered accountant... and what choices has he.. TO GET EVEN We as society cant be doing that..we cant be forcing the child to do what we as grown up didnt do..wouldnt we be preventing him from living a normal life.. I am not saying he should not love his parents, but I am saying he should live long and not be sniffed out by some terrorist when he reaches thirty or forty years of age.. Just thinking..
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
28 Nov 11
I do not follow this baby story but I think it will depend to the parent who adopt him. The parent would be responsible for him until he can make a choice of his own, so I think choosing a god parent is more important here. Getting even should be avoided at all times cause it would ruin the baby's life when almost human nature wants peace and happiness. I don't think I know what I am saying here....
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
28 Nov 11
You hit the nail on its head with that last sentence. Baby Moshe's parents were killed by terrorists on 26/11 three years ago. That attack happened in India. So we remember the little kid, who was lucky enough to have been taken away by his nanny. Now, his grandma is looking after him. He is jew and therefore, he is growing up in Israel. Under normal circumstances, he would not become a fanatic. But given the circumstances people would expect him to take up arms, and my heart feels sorry for him. Would that be right expectation? He didnt know his parents all that much did he? How can we narrow down his options just because we failed to do what was expected of us.
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
29 Nov 11
Yeah he is out there. Wish I could kidnap him.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
29 Nov 11
I am still thinking I do not know what I am saying here, but if he lives in Israel with vengeance environment, I guess he did not have the choice... sad...
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
26 Nov 11
Moshe is already a celeb may not be around the world but definitely among the elites and the High Profile guys around... So I think he has less to worry about the Career as he grows up... Unfortunate for him that they took him away... if he would have been here, he would already have had millions to his name... (and I am not sure may be he already has some of that millions) and with that amount he could have well planned and well decided on what career path was best for him... Politics for sure if in India. And about the terrorists sniffing him out in his 30s or 40s... he already is experienced and can handle them the next time and I hope this time he gets his chance...
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Nov 11
Agree....
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
As I said...the society is expecting him to get even when he grows older. It would be tougher for him because he is going to be constantly in limelight, nothing he says or does will be hidden from his antagonists. Would it be truly worth making that as the aim of his life? Was it his failure? How did it become his duty... I on the other hand hope he finds a lovely girl and falls in love with her, and she falls in love with him, and the two of them live happily forever...Amen.
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
Another thing sids, though 26/11 is not of same magnitude as 9/11, people have focused on that one baby. Everybody's eyes are on that kid. Those who lost their parents in 9/11 are not expected to avenge their parents. Some might, but others will not be looked down upon. But in case of Baby Moshe, we dont offer him much choice, do we?
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
26 Nov 11
Hello, vannie, Any child should not be pushed to choose a education/career he/she may not like. Nobody has any rights to force any child with their interests and ambitions. Having said that, every child has some special talent and interest. If we allow them to choose the field they love, other things will fall into place. This boy would have been psychologically affected by the 26/11. He should be given extra care and love and raised. Let us be positive and hope he will come up with flying colors in life.
• India
26 Nov 11
That's my honor, vannie.
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
Yes..exactly..he will start going through those pains from teens..hope the will have a lot of love in its heart for this kid and be there for him at all times. Hope nobody sets the bar too high for him and certainly does not force him into line of violence or self-destruction. You are so broad minded vijayanths..so glad you are my friend. :)
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
26 Nov 11
Hello vandana, the tragic and brutal incident snatched away Baby Moshe's safe future. What he would be that is not the question. Moshe's parents might have some plan for their baby. I don't want repetition of such brutal incident. I want safe future of all children.
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
I too. I want him to have safe future. But his life will be engulfed in pain because it will be thrust on him by us, and the media. He may become staunch believer and may even become fanatic. People would expect him to avenge his parents as if he has no right to normal life.
27 Nov 11
Hi vandana see www.ted.com/talks/steven_pinter_on_the_myth_of_violence.html SEE LINK WHAT DO YOU THINK ?
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
28 Nov 11
There is nothing there.. cant find the page. :( How are you barney? You can always find me sometime on myLot. I dont visit facebook. I dont like it. :) Triond is a substitute for myLot when I have too much on hand. You see, myLot is a kind of addiction for me. :)
• India
26 Nov 11
well i too believe we should not be forced by our parents to decide what we become! but it should not be at the other extreme as well. Parents can influence the decisions of their children. Man after all is a social animal and well if you don't take any opinion or get influenced by someone in family, what;s the point of having a family. But having said that - it does happen that parents decide future for their children and force them to follow the path they have chosen for their Children! this is wrong and parents should not force anything! I just think we need to strike an equilibrium somewhere and as for myself, i have been lucky to b blessed by parents who understand me a lot but i often their opinion on many important matters and it does matter a lot in my final decision!
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
I agree with you about parents not forcing something because each one of us is endowed differently and therefore, we will excel in fields that we are equipped to excel. In Baby Moshe's case, however, the whole world will be focusing on him, how he intends to get even..indirectly, it is the world - an entire society - that will be telling him what to become...the child really does not have choice, does he? Is it fair?
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
26 Nov 11
@Vandanaji: Even my society dictated what I should be...and so did yours... upto a certain age we all get dictated by our societies... just a small difference that in our case it was our family and relatives and for him, it would be his grandparents, relatives and the world
@vandana7 (98866)
• India
26 Nov 11
I am fine with dictating normal choices..with nobody looking down upon me if I fail in them or choose to change line and make grade elsewhere.. Here, baby Moshe cant afford to fail...he is now more of a tool provided to grandparents and the society to get even for something which we in the first place should have prevented. We fail, and the child pays the price, where is the justice in this..
@banta78 (4326)
• India
26 Nov 11
I saw today Baby Moshe in a televised interview ( reporting impact of 26/11 Mumbai terror strikes). The boy looked happy and playful. His grandparents have only high praise for the boy, deservedly so. For a young boy who has endured so much and is trying to lead a normal kid's life. I think Baby Moshe's grandparents have got it right. Trying to raise him normally in Israel. He already is doing a lot for all right thinking people. Teaching us value of innocence, love and life. He is a symbol of peace and universal brotherhood. He is a bright boy who with god's grace, his grandparents grooming and his own desire can become what he would like once he grows up.